While it is normal, it is not healthy. You need to find out what is causing these thoughts and deal with them.
If you have a default setting of "all men are evil" you will live a pretty sad life, as men are roughly half of the population.
There are, to be sure, bad men. We just had 8 years of bad men running the country (or, if you prefer, 8 years of GREAT PATRIOTS, running things,) and now things have changed. You can either think that Obama is a good man and thereby reduse your good/evil dichotomy as far ans men go, or you can think that Bush/Cheney were wonderful men and have the same result. It all depends on your political leaning.
At the end of the day, you must remember that there are good men and bad; just as there are good women and bad. If you accept that fact, you will have a much richer and less fearful life.
Alot ot women feel as if they hate men due to unsuccseful relationships with bad men, there are good men out there, as well as bad, you just need to find some
yes its pretty normal, i hate men too. but to be practical the harm would be on your side. You will be consuming yourself with this eternal hatred. i dont say you should compromise, but think men as an inevitable thing in life. you cannot change their attitude but you can change yours. and to be happy you must find your self goal and what really is that you want to do with your life. its again like we never hear men say that they hate women, so it's really not worth thinking over them when they dont care.
Well, I'm a guy so the most I can say is that I don't know. From my guy perspective I would say yes, but my perception sucks, so my opinion is pretty unreliable. I can sorta see where you're coming from though, cause sometimes I think my own gender acts really dumb. At this exact moment I could be unconsciously acting like a retard.
Please don't interpret this wrong way.
you're normal. everyone hates certain things, and you just happen to hate men. why is your reason. if you look at it, everything bad that guys do, girls do the same. sometimes worse. hey, they do the same good that guys do too, but that's a story for another time. you shouldn't hate guys for what one guy did to u or what your friends tell you about their boyfriends. you just haven't met the guy that you don't hate. of course, you won't meet him if you keep hating them all. look at a guy as a person, not as a guy. you'll see, there are those few of us who aren't all that bad. i used to go about the same way about girls, but then i met this one and my world just changed. i didn't go out with her, but she was so amazing that it made me look at my current preception of the situation.
its normal especially if ur a girl b4 i found my current boyfriend i went through a stage when i hated men i had been hurt so much i love my boyfriend so much i believe he is my soul mate but for you it may take longer 2 find Him
Women are silly, stupid, irrational beings. It is natural for them to hate and fear men as they are superior to them. Women will always be weaker. That's why you hate us.
I am a misandrist, and no it is not normal, though sometimes I feel it should be, considering how women are viewed and treated.
That is not to say it is right, because it is not. I am struggling to not be sexist, but it is hard when I see examples of so many douchebag males every day (my over-sexed brother being a prime example).
I have been sexually abused, verbally abused, used, cheated on, beaten up, etc. I've watched other girls put their heart and soul into relationships just to find out that their guy was just using them for sex. I've read and heard so many comments like Chakmak's.
My view is obviously colored by experience. I know there are some good guys in the world. I just feel they are few and far between. I'm not really willing to sort through 600 douches to find 1 decent guy.
i hate men to. they are gross,useless,stupid and disgusting. they are not stonger and smarter than us. chakmak should burn in hell.women are much better than men. noone needs slimy peace of shit like chakmak. we hate men because they rude, ugly and mean. men may have a heaver brain than us but that dos not make them smarter than us becaus us women score higher on test. it's true i heard it on the radio.
Im sorry if the truth upsets you. But lets be fair. Women are shallow, illogical and useless. What are you good for? Shopping? Painting your nails? Reading Celebrity Magazines?
it's good that you're thinking about this hatred, rather than simply feeding it or leaving it be. there isn't a logical reason to hate an entire gender; but, you may feel that all men are the same as each other because of the ones that you know or have met. i'm a man, and i hope that if we ever meet that i have the chance to show you something to not hate about men! good luck.
jazzy88, i'm a man. but i'm not stupid or mean. i'm polite and considerate! just ask my gf. we have a wonderful relationship in which we both contribute equally and rely on each other equally. the world doesn't have to hate, does it?
well you men are just as bad it is not the truth that we are worthless because we are not there are so many things that women invented that men had to take the credit for like diposable diapers and the washing machine. so i bid you all good day
one more thing you men all have big egos you need to lose your illusion of you being better than us because you may act tough but deep down you are all whiny pathtic weaklings. and buy the way what are you men good for picking your boggers and wiping it on toast.now thats gross. you are probally just mad because you are useless and everyone wants you to die. all you men really are is a pair of legs with meat dangling in between them.SO YOU ARE NEVER BETTER THAN US SO LOSE THE FALSE IMPRESSION!!!!THEIR LOTS OF WOMEN WHO ARE MISTREATED BY YOU USELESS DIGUSTING MEN YOU ARE ALL THE SAME. I GOT PUT DOWN AND MISTREATED BY LOTS OF MEN.YOU JUST CAN'T ACCEPT THAT FACT THAT YOUR THE USELESS ONES.SO YOU TRY TO TEAR DOWN US WOMEN TO HIDE FROM THE TRUTH.REMEMBER US WOMEN OUTNMBER YOU. PIGS SLOBS WEAK WORTHLESS ASSHOLES JUST A FEW WORDS TO SUM IT UP. BUT HEY ASSHOLES LIKE YOU ARE A WAST OF ANYONES TIME AND A WASTE OF MINE I CAN SIT HEAR AND AGUE WITH YOU I'M NOT. ONCE AGAIN YOU ARE STUPID AND WEAK AND A WATSE OF MYN TIME SO GOOD BYE
I personally think you should just be a lesbian than. Seriously, you wanna stereotype guys and blame them for everything, sure go for it. Don't deal with your personal problems and don't try and better yourself... Look its like this, if your blaming all men on some dickwad that cheated on you then maybe it was him not you, or if you were sucking his best friend's face and someone found out and then he cheated on you its your fault. Either way deal with your issues and stop pissing in guys cherrios.
Misandry is the term for it. It can be a really hurtful thing is wielded the wrong way. I would recommended getting to know men. I know that after having spent my last three years or so living with my husband and two different male roommates (not to mention hanging out with their friends) I've come to understand and like guys a lot better than before. I mean at first I HATED my husband's friends. They were terrible! Then I got to know them and slowly, I came to see them not as guys but as people. I've been with some of them in the best and worst of times. I've seen a few of them cry. When you really get to know a man, not just one you love, but a friend, your attitudes about them change a lot.
Sweetheart, women can be just as terrible and useless as men can. You're proving it with your hate blasting. I know plenty of women who have ruined men's lives just because they "weren't getting their way" or "totally thought he was cheating." THOUGHT mind you. Just thought. Not even having proof. Be it by crying rape or abuse, women have a very big upper hand when it comes to things like that. All they have to do is point that finger and cry. I know a man who came to me with knots and bruises from being beaten by his girl. He didn't fight back because she had already filed false claims that he was beating her. The cops told him he could take care of himself since he was so big. Being big doesn't stop a knife or a gun. I'm just happy he got out of there while he still could.
I'm a woman myself and I believe in gender EQUALITY. Lately people who preach gender equality have started turning that into female elitism. That is WRONG. Just as wrong as male elitism. And don't you forget it.
Feminism all though rather closed minded is normal. But I think you might have just not met the right kind of guy, and I know exactly how rare they are.
wow it amazes me how many people are responding to my posts my apolgies tehhe oh yea mikeh4wk i must love the radio ha there's really nothing good on ialwaysaskway i'm hate blasting wow what a fancy word i admit i can be harsh but i just say how i feel but i'm sorry if i offened you and best wishes to your friend and classicalman i don't need the pity but thanks anyway so good day to you all
i still think men are jerks i alos notice how many people responed to me saying i hate men but when a guy comes in and says he hates women no one seems to care huh can anyone sence the discrimnation. every one i met tried to humilate,make fun of me,or just put me down every time i showed confidence us women are never going to be good enough were to skinny were to fat. well theirs a saying hell no furry like a woman's scorn or something like that. i never date becaue its my choise not to and i would'ent have it any other way i've always been shy in real life i'mbeing hassed constanlty and alwaysaskwhy you have no idea what i'm talking about so please do me a favor and quit tying to reason with me do you really think i'm stupid enough to make false clams like you said i just hate those assholes you have no idea what i'm really like you just get an impression from reading my post on this site
@ialwaysaskwhy
so bacically what your saying if someone gets raped it's their flaut or their lying thats just plain wrong.no one wants to be taken ilke that. personally alot of people who know me know i don't make up stories.you don't know me so thereofore well shut your pie hole i'm glad i don't know you and cavemanc i really don't care about you and your girlfriend so i'm not going to ask you about it you have no right forceing your ideas on me. oh yea what if a girl does have proof than what?
@jazzy88, all what you say is illogical and all your doing is generalizing and blameing what some men done on all men, you cant hate an entire gender beacause what a few do, only the weak minded do that
men and women are both good and bad at things, and if you belive what you hear on the radio etc your a sheep that follows and belives everything to reassure your self
@misswacy
one i don't listen to the radio that much nor believe it alot of my critisism comes form personal exprices. when i was in 7th grade i was the one the guys made fun they made my life misrable day in day out i just got so crazy with rage and vented all my anger on to this site it seeems like i pissed alot of people off and guys are always out to annoy me but i'm trying to ingnore them but you sound a little more sencile than the others than resoponed. but i have a question for you don't you think that girls who plastic surgrey for thier boyfriends or to lookm like some celebrity aren't they confroming to what people want them to be?
i don't believe everything on the radio ijust say stuff on this site to get a rise out of you pathtic people who come on here defendeing men its just funny seeing how defensive you get. but right now i don't just hate men i hate every one bye bye
if its from your personal exp why are you brining ALL men in to it?, all men didnt make fun of you, still makes no logical sense, people are defending gross generalizatins and unescersary male bashing
Hate men just as much as i hate woman.I am a woman after all and just think we are as bad as each other.Really i think men and woman dont understand each other as goes for woman dont understand woman.Humans are all weird if things in life dont makes us happy dont put up with crap.Try and find yourself and what makes you happy then am sure we can all see humans in a diiferent light.Right now i have been use by guys and i use them.So i will be finding myself again and being content with myself for the time being.
Chakmak, you are the silly, stupid and irrational one, not to mention pretty screwed in the head if you actually think that way about women. And you are about as useful as a pimple! In fact, idiots like you are pimples on the face of society! Sorry if the truth upsets you, but that's how it is. Obviously your mama didn't raise you right, (but then again sows don't spend a whole lot of time raising their whiny little piglets).
Men are definitely not superior to women. Are you blind? Look at how messed up the world is because of (stupid) men! If anything women are superior to men, and everyone is superior to you! It's time stupid chauvinists were oppressed. Then the world can finally be at peace, at least between the genders.
And you think we fear you! Ha! Men fear women! That's the reason pieces of garbage that think (and I use the word "think" loosely) like you oppressed us in the first place! You knew we would rise above you quickly if you didn't keep us down! Chauvinists like you really are silly, pathetic, and filthy creatures. I really can't understand why women (and decent men) tolerate your existence.
I know there are some good guys out there, but Chakmak is definitely not one of them. I don't hate men, at least not REAL men. But I despise chauvinist pigs. Send them to the slaughter house!
we pick our "boggers" and wipe them on our toast?? how old are you, 5? i'm starting to think that, what with your poor typing and spelling skills.
Men and women will never be equal, and i know this won't make sense, but men aren't better than women and women aren't better then men. we each have our strengths and weaknesses, like women, they're nice, they get to be mothers, a lot of them are very smart...
and guys, well, i hate saying it myself, but we ARE generally stronger than women, so we do the heavylifting part of life, you know? like fixin up the house and stuff
i'm a guy myself, and i wholeheartedly agree, a lot of guys out there are scourges on humanity and are complete idiots and/or jackasses, but it's not like we can just go through eliminating all the bad ones
but there ARE women who can be just like that, some can be mean and really b**chy. not all men are useless, and we can't help it that back then women were limited because of what THEY though, and because women didn't get access to a lot of facilities like men could, that's mainly why men invented a lot of the stuff
don't get me wrong, a lot of women invented some good stuff.
wow, this is really long. anyhoo, i'm a nice, funlovin' and carefree guy and every girl i know would most likely agree with me, so don't be sexist and start saying "all men are this" and "all men are that"
finally, some guys HAVE posted on this site a mirror of yours, how they hate women, and you can not believe the flurry of responses they've gotten, so don't go handing around the statement that "men can get away with that"
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If you have a default setting of "all men are evil" you will live a pretty sad life, as men are roughly half of the population.
There are, to be sure, bad men. We just had 8 years of bad men running the country (or, if you prefer, 8 years of GREAT PATRIOTS, running things,) and now things have changed. You can either think that Obama is a good man and thereby reduse your good/evil dichotomy as far ans men go, or you can think that Bush/Cheney were wonderful men and have the same result. It all depends on your political leaning.
At the end of the day, you must remember that there are good men and bad; just as there are good women and bad. If you accept that fact, you will have a much richer and less fearful life.
Please don't interpret this wrong way.
That is not to say it is right, because it is not. I am struggling to not be sexist, but it is hard when I see examples of so many douchebag males every day (my over-sexed brother being a prime example).
I have been sexually abused, verbally abused, used, cheated on, beaten up, etc. I've watched other girls put their heart and soul into relationships just to find out that their guy was just using them for sex. I've read and heard so many comments like Chakmak's.
My view is obviously colored by experience. I know there are some good guys in the world. I just feel they are few and far between. I'm not really willing to sort through 600 douches to find 1 decent guy.
It is one of my major flaws.
I'm a woman myself and I believe in gender EQUALITY. Lately people who preach gender equality have started turning that into female elitism. That is WRONG. Just as wrong as male elitism. And don't you forget it.
You have issues you stupid lesbian go have some fun with your girlfriends.
so bacically what your saying if someone gets raped it's their flaut or their lying thats just plain wrong.no one wants to be taken ilke that. personally alot of people who know me know i don't make up stories.you don't know me so thereofore well shut your pie hole i'm glad i don't know you and cavemanc i really don't care about you and your girlfriend so i'm not going to ask you about it you have no right forceing your ideas on me. oh yea what if a girl does have proof than what?
men and women are both good and bad at things, and if you belive what you hear on the radio etc your a sheep that follows and belives everything to reassure your self
one i don't listen to the radio that much nor believe it alot of my critisism comes form personal exprices. when i was in 7th grade i was the one the guys made fun they made my life misrable day in day out i just got so crazy with rage and vented all my anger on to this site it seeems like i pissed alot of people off and guys are always out to annoy me but i'm trying to ingnore them but you sound a little more sencile than the others than resoponed. but i have a question for you don't you think that girls who plastic surgrey for thier boyfriends or to lookm like some celebrity aren't they confroming to what people want them to be?
Men are definitely not superior to women. Are you blind? Look at how messed up the world is because of (stupid) men! If anything women are superior to men, and everyone is superior to you! It's time stupid chauvinists were oppressed. Then the world can finally be at peace, at least between the genders.
And you think we fear you! Ha! Men fear women! That's the reason pieces of garbage that think (and I use the word "think" loosely) like you oppressed us in the first place! You knew we would rise above you quickly if you didn't keep us down! Chauvinists like you really are silly, pathetic, and filthy creatures. I really can't understand why women (and decent men) tolerate your existence.
I know there are some good guys out there, but Chakmak is definitely not one of them. I don't hate men, at least not REAL men. But I despise chauvinist pigs. Send them to the slaughter house!
Men and women will never be equal, and i know this won't make sense, but men aren't better than women and women aren't better then men. we each have our strengths and weaknesses, like women, they're nice, they get to be mothers, a lot of them are very smart...
and guys, well, i hate saying it myself, but we ARE generally stronger than women, so we do the heavylifting part of life, you know? like fixin up the house and stuff
i'm a guy myself, and i wholeheartedly agree, a lot of guys out there are scourges on humanity and are complete idiots and/or jackasses, but it's not like we can just go through eliminating all the bad ones
but there ARE women who can be just like that, some can be mean and really b**chy. not all men are useless, and we can't help it that back then women were limited because of what THEY though, and because women didn't get access to a lot of facilities like men could, that's mainly why men invented a lot of the stuff
don't get me wrong, a lot of women invented some good stuff.
wow, this is really long. anyhoo, i'm a nice, funlovin' and carefree guy and every girl i know would most likely agree with me, so don't be sexist and start saying "all men are this" and "all men are that"
finally, some guys HAVE posted on this site a mirror of yours, how they hate women, and you can not believe the flurry of responses they've gotten, so don't go handing around the statement that "men can get away with that"
later :3
A lot of Women dislike Men. But it's usually because they've had bad experiences with them or have never got to know good kinds of people.
To say all Men are bad is a huge and terrible Generalisation, that stereotypes a vast array of different people as 1 object to be discarded.
Reconsider.