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I hate babies.
I have to get this off my chest. All of my life, ever since I was young, I have hated babies with a passion. I NEVER played with baby dolls, I NEVER showed any interest at all in babies or motherhood. Why? Because they freak me out. They freaked me out back then, they freak me out today. The tought alone of having to take care of one or just interact with one, scares the heck out of me.
Why do I feel like this?
+++1. I think they look utterly repulsive.+++
I honestly think human babies are, untill they reach the age of HAIR, among the most vile-looking creatures in nature. The chubby factor doesn't work for me. Newborn babies make me want to vomit. I really believe anyone who calls a newborn baby 'precious', 'sweet' or 'beautiful' is in fact a hypocrite and in reality comforting its parents.
+++2. The way they cry for something makes my skin crawl.+++
The newborns look like squirmy little maggots with their bald heads, shut eyes and toothless mouths. They totally. Freak me out. The older ones are just plain annoying and aggravating. Whenever they cry, I feel like punching them in the face. Ever looked a needy baby in the face while he is wailing? You know what that expression means? "I WANT! WANT! WANT! GIVE ME MY BOTTLE. GIVE ME MY DIAPER. GIVE ME MY TOYS. NOOOOOOOW!!!"
+++3. They're very effective in showing you what they DON'T want, but they are never able to show you what they WANT.+++
They are spoiled even when they're just in the crib. They manipulate us because they are used to getting what they want, ALL the time. And people think it's strange I call them annoying? They cry, whine, fuss and moan CONSTANTLY even when NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THEM! Most older babies just cry for attention, to get what they want. They have no patience, no empathy or regard for anyone but themselves. Yes, they love you. Would't you love the single idiot willing enough to wipe the shiat off your butt and bring you milk?
+++4. They stay little too long.+++
They progress frustratingly slowly. They're incontinent for what? Three whole years? They spill their food all over the place and projectile vomit for about... Two entire years? You have GOT. To be kidding me. Kids don't grow up too fast when it comes to the gross stuff. They are plain nasty when it comes to bodily fluids.
+++5. They're dumb. There, I said it.+++
I see babies hanging from their buggies that look like they are retarded, in a coma or drugged. How anyone can interact with such a child, is beyond me. There ARE some older babies that actually act like a small human being, but most of them have an expression on their faces that show they are not really there. They should just stay asleep for the next two years if they can not do anything... Interesting.
Those are my reasons for hating them. I can tolerate older children, but babies? They make me run for the nearest exit. Sorry.
Why do I feel like this?
+++1. I think they look utterly repulsive.+++
I honestly think human babies are, untill they reach the age of HAIR, among the most vile-looking creatures in nature. The chubby factor doesn't work for me. Newborn babies make me want to vomit. I really believe anyone who calls a newborn baby 'precious', 'sweet' or 'beautiful' is in fact a hypocrite and in reality comforting its parents.
+++2. The way they cry for something makes my skin crawl.+++
The newborns look like squirmy little maggots with their bald heads, shut eyes and toothless mouths. They totally. Freak me out. The older ones are just plain annoying and aggravating. Whenever they cry, I feel like punching them in the face. Ever looked a needy baby in the face while he is wailing? You know what that expression means? "I WANT! WANT! WANT! GIVE ME MY BOTTLE. GIVE ME MY DIAPER. GIVE ME MY TOYS. NOOOOOOOW!!!"
+++3. They're very effective in showing you what they DON'T want, but they are never able to show you what they WANT.+++
They are spoiled even when they're just in the crib. They manipulate us because they are used to getting what they want, ALL the time. And people think it's strange I call them annoying? They cry, whine, fuss and moan CONSTANTLY even when NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THEM! Most older babies just cry for attention, to get what they want. They have no patience, no empathy or regard for anyone but themselves. Yes, they love you. Would't you love the single idiot willing enough to wipe the shiat off your butt and bring you milk?
+++4. They stay little too long.+++
They progress frustratingly slowly. They're incontinent for what? Three whole years? They spill their food all over the place and projectile vomit for about... Two entire years? You have GOT. To be kidding me. Kids don't grow up too fast when it comes to the gross stuff. They are plain nasty when it comes to bodily fluids.
+++5. They're dumb. There, I said it.+++
I see babies hanging from their buggies that look like they are retarded, in a coma or drugged. How anyone can interact with such a child, is beyond me. There ARE some older babies that actually act like a small human being, but most of them have an expression on their faces that show they are not really there. They should just stay asleep for the next two years if they can not do anything... Interesting.
Those are my reasons for hating them. I can tolerate older children, but babies? They make me run for the nearest exit. Sorry.
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One thing you forgot about them, they're nearly always sticky. i always used to look after my little cousins, and any time you touched them your hand came away covered in gunk. Not nice.
however, instincts will probably kick in if you have your own and you'll love it to death : )
Good luck
Cause you were once a baby.
For those of you that know me, don't you think thats pretty fucking ironic?
im sorry but no normal person would think that about an innocent baby!!
Babies can be very beautiful. I'll give you an example of my son when he was born, but I don't want to see comments with anyone bad mouthing my kid. For starters when he was born and I first layed my eyes on him I started crying I had never seen anything like him before. I would always stare at my baby and I thought "Wow he actually came out of my body" I would take a bath with him when he was weeks old and we would just stare at each other. It was like he knew who I was and that I would never let anything bad happen to him.
Oh yes and FYI sometimes we parents get annoyed when people come up to us and say "what a cute baby" or "how old is she/he"?
You will feel differently when you get older, and when you have a baby or are a father to a baby. The whole process of childbirth I think is a miracle, and a blessing. Human life is precious no matter how old a PERSON is.
I think it is very foolish for you to judge a baby when they have no concept of what being impatient or selfish is. They have no control over their body fluids, because most people feed their kid the wrong milk (baby formula) and it makes them spit up, and also because they don't understand how to control it yet. Kids do not grow up too slow. You have no idea what you are talking about because you are not a parent, and I hope to God in heaven you never become one either. Best Wishes! and all that shit.
Having your own baby will be different to seeing some random baby, idk for sure cuz im not a father but I'd imagine it wuld be anyway, so he may hate random babies he sees bcuz of how they act but if he ever has a baby of his own he will see things from a different point of view. I cant say this for sure but that's wat id imagine anyway.
I did say that all human life was precious not just babies but whatever you are entitled to your own opinion and so am I. If I want to talk about my son then I'll be damned if you are going to stop me, or make me feel like some worthless peice of crap low-life loser for choosing to be a mother. Perhaps the reason why you feel this way is because it creates a balance so the population will not become too high for the earth to handle. It's getting close to being too late for that, especially in America. Either way I don't believe I should be given the title "breeder" since I don't believe humans are animals because I believe humans have souls.
"Either way I don't believe I should be given the title "breeder" since I don't believe humans are animals because I believe humans have souls." That didn't even make sense. Just because he is saying your a breeder does not mean he is calling you an animal breeder just means you've procreated, you've had a child, and you have which means you are, technically, a breeder. And technically we are animals, we are mammals, that has been proven, my old priest was the one that told me that we are mammals, and guess what, mammals are animals.
Soul: the quality that arouses emotion and sentiment. Spiritual not physical.
that definition was from a dictionary. So the soul is what gives you emotions and all that stuff right and only humans have a soul...then why do monkeys show emotion? Mice can laugh and laughter is an emotional expression. And btw it's not just mice that laugh it's most animals, they have a different form of laughter though a mouse's does sound like a mentally high pitched giggle. Monkey's show the most emotion but scientists think that many more animals do have emotions but can not show them, they look after their young and protect them from anything, how do you know that is just an animals surviving instinct and not that some care for their young?
Plus to me if you hate babies and think that they don't offer anything for society and are ungrateful then it's almost like what people say about euthanasia when it comes to old people. This country could one day make abortion legal up to two years of age and frankly that scares the hell out of me.
You only like them when they're your own.
like, i dont hate them, but they're really annoying.
i don't plan on ever having my own kid.
i wouldn't be able to take care of him/her without going insane.
I never plan on having a baby or marriage, I'm fine with this and I'm glad for it.
Agreed with the...question asker entirely and do not think it odd to dislike babies.
What are you talking about? They continue to cry to let people know what they want even as a teenager and adult. Why? Because parents DON'T teach children how to do things for themselves.
Okay, they can't help what they look like. I think they're pretty cute most of the time myself, but the parent will most likely love them (unless they're one of those horrid people), and thus they will be beloved and beautiful in their eyes.
At first crying is the only thing they can do, so if they want something the instinctive thing to do is to cry, and make loads of noise to get the attention. I'm sure they'd rather ask for it. I know it's sometimes annoying.
P.S. I have African family, and a cousin from that side, and she never cries. She's lovely XD!
I think babies grow up too fast. Childhood is a thing to treasure, I think, though when I was younger I couldn't wait for it to be over. Now I miss the days when everything was so simple and carefree.
Dumb? They're only young. You can't expect babies to learn straight away.
Deal with it!
when i think about having kids when i'm older it scares me, i know i'm selfish to say i don't want to look after someone else for the rest of my life.
but hey, when i'm older i'll probably have all the maternal hormones and all that kick in and end up having my own.
Twain quote about sending all teenagers out to die on a raft. Granted, I can joke about this cuz I don't have kids yet. So when I was in Madrid there was this sign on the fence of a preschool that I passed every day that said (in Spanish): we are people too! If I hadn't been in a foreign country I might have committed my first ever act of vandalism and taken a pen to the sign to change it to personitas. OK, so this isn't entertaining to anyone but me, but oh well. It was such a trial on my self control to not do that... and I sort of wish I had.
I think babies are innocent and pure and not weird at all.
And secondly you sound completely arrogant to confidently assure that s/he will "feel different when they get older"
How presumptious, mother goose.
There are many single persons who live their whole lives childless.
And YOU ARE AN ANIMAL, despite whatever personal emotional philosophies you cling with persistence; humans are simply higher evolved animals (even so some animals have sharper senses than us, such as sight and smell) However, as animals we all show complex social and emotional behaviors.
I find it a good thing that people do not wish to have children, otherwise MILLIONS more would overpopulate the earth and thus scarcity of resources would lead to poverty and many other ripple effect issues.
IF I HURTED OTHERS FEELINGS IN THIS FORUM I AM EXTREMELY SORRY FOR THAT I SHOULD YOU ALL WHAT I FRANKLY FEEL ABOUT CHILDREN
But yeah i think we all secretly hate babies some of us are just afraid to tell people that.
Normal =]
As a young child I would not play with dolls and instinctively hated babies. I was told I would grow out of this but am now 27 years old and still feel as disgusted by them as ever.
I always feel like a bad friend because now friends of mine have had kids I quite honestly go out of my way to avoid them and avoid meeting up with them. This isn't because I don't want to spend time with them, I just don't want to spend time with their screaming "things" that ensure that no reasonable sensible adult conversation can be had. They also actually EXPECT you to fawn over it and i'm not the kind of person to lie to people so hence I avoid the situation. People who have kids or are real "kiddie" orientated just refuse to understand or except that people out there just don't like them!!!
I just can't helpt it - I wouldn't wish them harm but I just think babies are disgusting things that ruin your life and end it until they finally grow up and leave home. All the fun things you used to be able to do are gone.
I particularly hate it when we go out to a nice restuarant and it's ruined by some child wailing and screeching and running around. If your kid is going to be doing that please don't ruin every one elses night and stay at home with it!!! Funnily enough most of us aren't interested in listening to it screaming while we try to have a nice night out!
I don't think those of us who are irritated by babies should be looked down on. My family is a fertile bunch and it seems like my cousins are popping out a new addition to the litter every other month and since I was a child I've had my relatives pushing these babies in my face. I think if you want to have a child that's fine but it shouldn't affect my life. If you're baby is screaming and crying out in public you need to figure out what it needs and get it to stop or you need to go home. I work retail and have had to listen to screaming kids for as long as 30 minutes while the parents shopped like nothing was wrong. The sound of your child crying may not bother you but be considerate of the rest of the world.
I totally agree, this baby shit makes me sick.
The comment about them being dumb is crazy funny!
Read my story about "guys getting married"
babys are awesome and you kno it!
has to be:
"Did you believe that when you were giving birth to your son I wonder?"
Grrr, no edit button! ;(
When you look at the face of a baby, you see an untouched, unpressurized, uncensored form of a human. I agree; hating them is irrational and hate in general is irrational.
The reason I dislike babies is after the postman rolls up with a handful of bills, the dog shits on the carpet, Im falling asleep next to my coffee, its Monday morning and I have to be at work in half an hour, The wife is bitching in my ear about how all I want is sex and how I never clean the house, my stomach hurts, I had no sleep last nite, Im hungover, then my 2 yr old looks at me from his mountain of blocks and gives me a drooly smile.
If I could just have one day where I could play with blocks and drool.... and get breast-fed....
Yet that baby has not paid ONE bill, made her orgasm (at least I HOPE not), and those pair of jeans she wears? Yeah, not her money.
Yet I dont know what to do get her to play peek-a-boo with me.
It's not like you have to love babies.
Yeah, they get annoying... but have you actually spent time with a baby?
They smile, they giggle, they play with you, they understand. Toddlers help you do things and they are very nice. Not all the time, because they%%u2019re children%%u2026 and they are still learning how to behave themselves. But they aren%%u2019t brats 24/7 unless they are raised wrong.
Sure, babies whine and cry, but if you were this tiny little thing that isn't able to even walk yet or explain anything, you'd be fussy too.
And yes, babies poop. And babies vomit. And babies make messes...
But that's where the maternal instinct kicks in.
Cleaning up other people's messing makes me want to puke, I don't do dishes because my family%%u2019s dirty dishes with their spaghetti sauce is gross.
But I got 2 kittens and I instantly became loving, or "maternal" if you will, over them. I cleaned their shit off their foot when they stepped in it and it didn't gross me out one bit. You just lack the maternal instinct that woman are supposed to have to help the natural cycle of reproduction.
You're broken.
You're broken.'
Sorry, but who are you to tell a woman, ANY woman, that they are SUPPOSED to have a maternal instincts? Have you ever studied apes, because I can tell you didn't. We are apes, no matter if we like it or not and a lot of female apes actually don't know what to do with their children. As many as 1 in 4 females leave their young too die. We are an intelligent species. Bringing up babies is a choice. You can't spin all of this on hormones. What are you suggesting? That you are not woman enough if you haven't?
Do I or ANY other woman in this thread that openly admit they dislike children, sound broken to you, LOL? May I suggest you to spend a little bit more time in this world and widen your views a bit? Because, MooiePop, beautifull dollie or not, I have seen your profile and your age. I am not going to ef you over that, but seriously. People who have traumas, are broken. People don't have to go through sh*t in order to wake up one day and realize they don't like children. Two different things. It's kinda off to just say that to someone that doesn't like babies.
Oh an by the way. Your comparison with the kitten is completely off. I am the same with cats and kittens and A LOT of childfree people are genuine moms or dads when it comes to our 'fuzzy babies' of the animal kingdom.
Don't know why, just saying.
I just can't stand that kinda pressure. I wouldn't mind being a mom if I could have the kid and they could be older faster so I didn't have to keep dealing with catering to their every need.
I have seen how my mom acts and I just can't stand it. I don't even like the fact that you could accidentally have one of those drooly scary big eyed creatures. It's just so...ugh.
so I think your normal. Don't know about everyone else but whatever.
People who don`t like babies, don`t need to make them either . It`s simple . People who don`t want a baby and accidently have a baby put them up for adoption and give them THE WORST LIFE THEY COULD GET . so i think its good that people have opinions like this . make shure you tell everyone about it . So just incase you have a baby in the future , everyone can call you a hypocrite . plus ; what happens if your parents thought like this too ? would you be here ? think about it before you start saying " I HATE BABIES " this is just my opinion .
i hated kids under the age of 6 yrs, i just hate them i guess its cuz they just cry for everything they dont get. everytime i hear a 5yr old like that @ the store i feel like telling the mother 2 make the kid shut the fuck up x.x
The though of motherhood freaks me out, imagine someone growing up annoying you and always asking for stuff, sound slike a giant headach, but I guess its all part of life.
We all have our own opinions, your one on babies is very strong though. Wow
So, no, you're fucking weird. Sociopath.
but the problem is that Im in serious relationship and every time I mention my opinion(that Im not melting myself when Im around babies and hate playing with them or simply dont picture myself having one..Im also disgusted of the act itself of giving birth!!)and he becomes angry of my "cranky and stupid behavior"
and says what the hell is he doing with me then?!..its like Im being forced to do something that its expected from me,just because Im a femmale..damn..Im not a reproducing animal:)))
Normal
I don't see them as repulsive as this person does, but I don't like being around them. Yes, they can be cute but I find a baby kitten much cuter. I would never, EVER harm a child or a baby, just no, but I don't like being around them either, I have no patience. I just hate how smug parents can be, just because we don't want kids.
Not everyone wants to have kids like you did, God knows we don't need anymore in this world, this world is a shitty place to live in.
Oh, and baby's are baby's for a reason...they aren't supposed to function like adults. They are helpless and depend on adults to take care of them.
You have the right to your emotions and anyone who robs you of them are the ones who aren't "normal". Don't let anyone invalidate your feelings, it can cause you some psychological damage later.
Don't let anyone (including yourself) judge your feelings as "right" or "wrong". Believe in yourself and your decisions.
If your mate tries to make you feel bad for your feelings, he/she is setting you up for a toxic relationship and it's best to avoid toxic people. You should weigh out the pros and cons of your relationship and find out from there what the correct choice to do is.
But even so, if that was the case, you really mean what you said. You tried hard to rationalize your opinions. So, there's something real to it anyway.
Definitely and clearly it is a case of aggression by fear. You hate them because you are so afraid of the responsibility of caring for them. You say so much, openly, in different parts of your post.
Then, whichever if you posted it bona fide or not, you really should try to deal with what seems a particular case of hypengyophobia (i.e. irrational fear of responsibilities).
Maybe, when you were a child, were made less by the arrival of a baby? And or were you harshly or persistently scolded for doing something wrong about a baby, or weren't you allowed around one and was told you were too clumsy or incapable to take care of it or be careful about it?
Are you too stressed by any other responsibilities you have to take in your life?
If any of that, in effect you could have hypengyophobia which would be the substrate of your acute disliking of babies.
Call it fear of responsibility. I for my part have a clearly defined sense for responsibility and my fears, and don't need to lie to others or myself.
I don't want to be responsible for my potential child to grow up in this world as it currently is. I fear it would be unhappy. I am not sure. I am however, considering simple facts, quite positive it would.
I've noticed people here accidentally confusing this with a theological discussion by mentioning SOUL and GOD to underline statements like WE ARE NO ANIMALS.
Yes we are.
Especially those of you who have chosen to breed.
And no, god or soul has nothing to do with it.
Neither has Superman and his heat vision.
You people who don't want children, and don't like children and seem to experience a NATURAL repulsion to children, are the most normal, honest and by far most advanced humans there are.
You, by listening to your minds and bodies, realize that you see no need in spawning offspring. I hereby thank you for putting thought in your action. The future is yours.
-You, oh so caring assholes, better adopt and stop being bigots if you want to love and be loved and give somebody a future.
-If you want a child as product of your love to somebody (your wife/husband), then you are a liar and asshole, and your kid deserves to die at birth, together with you.
-If you are scared of racial shit, OOOOH A WHITE COUPLE AND BLACK/ASIAN/INDIAN/(INSERT ETHNICITY), then you are an egoist and don't deserve a child. Neither adopted or of your own. Go fuck you.
-So you say a child will always be as good as the loving and caring parents make it? Then why do you insist on your GENES to be part of the child? Because you know you're full of shit? Or because you want somebody to continue some kind of shitty legacy? Like what? Carry on your forefather's last name for reasons you can't explain (false pride - but you can't admit it to yourself)?
I've met a lot of people during the course of my life, and this argument was usually stated by unemployed people who missed most of their teeth and often some of their fingers - in some cases due to congenital reason on which there is no need to elaborate.
Risking to sound a bit negative here, I'm just honest and realistic.
Cheers.
That was absolutely hilarious. You've absolutely GOT to watch ERASERHEAD, a film by David Lynch. You'll LOVE it...
i dont want to have kids no way, i been a parent since i was small raising my 4 younger siblings gosh wat a hasle, i mean being 10 yrs old and waking up in the middle of the night to feed my siblings or getting woken up by their cries, gosh im tired now i just want to live my life child-free :)
i like kids when their in middleschool no toddlers and lower. no way their such babies!
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i dont care who you are if you think like that you need to be commited! you absolutely discust me.you know what if you think like that then your personality is disgusting and makes me want to VOMIT!
you were a baby to i hope you never become a parent because that baby would be so mistreated.
chidren are a gift from god and deserve love and compassion.
AND YAH YOU ARE NOT NORMAL MORE LIKE CRAZY!!!
-you hate babies
-you want to punch them
-you want to see them in pain you are.....
SCREWED UP!!!
2) Punctuation is your friend.
3) Weeds, bacteria, and killer bees are also gifts from God.
Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion. I'm not here to judge!
:)
But a nice, roasted baby with some sauce....mmmm, delicious.
Ill see you in hell:P
hahah jk its pretty normal alot of people secretly hate babies but just dont say it cuz its not "appropriate"
You are entitled to your own opinion, with confidence. Sure, others disagree and are telling you to go to hell. Whatever. Personally, I don't hate babies, but I dislike them. As a child, I thought they were disgusting. Pregnant people scared the crap out of me. I guess when you get older your thoughts change and maybe that will change for you. Maybe not.
I don't have problems with babies; the only thing I disagree with is having so many. Our population is big enough and if you want so many babies, go out and adopt. I believe some people who want many babies are selfish because they don't even consider adoption. I think it's rather selfish, there are thousands of babies with no homes already, why not offer yours?
I understand people want to create a child with someone they love but if you want a bundle of babies, might as well be a loving person and you say you are and give another life a chance. This also ties in with abortion. Abortion must be legal, no woman should be forced to have a child, especially if not responsible. I believe if you don't think abortion is fair, I think that's selfish. Why have thousands of babies born that end up in foster cares or have horrid lives because they were unwanted?
P.S. : We are animals.
We are all mad here.
And calling a baby spoiled is ridiculous. Spoiled is a child that is old enough to know better and behave correctly. Babies can't move on their own, care for themselves or even speak. Crying is their only way to communicate, whether they actually need something or just want your attention.
So you think babies are ugly and obnoxious. Fine. Others find them adorable. Everyone has their own opinions.
Having a baby isn't about having fun at your convenience. It's rather selfish to think otherwise.
I understand people choosing to not want to have kids, I was almost one of them myself, but to hate a baby in such a profound way is really sad. They have done nothing wrong to anybody, they are incapable of wrong doing. Yes they are needy, and yes they are demanding. So would you be if you had no means of mobility or speech.
People that have kids don't have them to annoy their childless friends either, that is a selfish way of thinking. Most people have babies by choice because they feel a need to continue their bloodline and extend their family. The reason they leave their childless friends behind is because they don't need to be treated like second rate citizens for their choice and they certainly don't need to put up with the sneers and derision or lack of tolerance their childess friends may extend to them. It is afterall the natural order of things to have babies. It is what we were intended to do - what all nature does. As for the person who said some shit about apes, no we are not apes, that is not a proven fact. And besides which, just because an ape sometimes doesn't know what to do with their child, doesn't mean it's not a natural process to have them.
I can fully understand it if someone says "I can't relate to children and babies" or "I don't want children because I don't feel maternal" or for whatever reason. Quite acceptable, but such a level of hatred towards your own race is unacceptable and I vote that since you are all so full of hatred that you immediately do the world a favour and commit suicide or build a craft and take the nearest exist off our planet because YOU do not fit in with the natural order of things.
Don't even try to compare us to animals, no matter whether we are mammals or not - or technically animals if you will - we are a higher life form, capable of much more than any other animal form on earth, THAT is the difference between their behaviour and ours.
you make it sound like it's an annoyance and that we shouldn't take care of babies, they should take care of themselves.
they lack the knowledge and the ability to do things for themselves.
your a really stupid bitch.
Sure, the older kids can make me feel annoyed at times, but so can every other human.
Also, I kinda agree/kinda disagree on the cute thing.
I don't like the chub thing (but that's just me), I don't like fatness, but other than that, they are cute.
Ecspecially when their eyes first get color, big and round, they are beautiful. Also, their skin is so soft.
I agree that changing diapers are annoying, but what do you want them to do? Get up ad change them themselves???
Think about the last time you had to learn a completely new skill.
You had to rely on other people, right?
(I am a very self-reliant persone, but even I must give in sometimes and let others teach/help).
Sure, you talk and ask, but that part of the baby is not developed for a long time.
Oh, and I do agree that when they come out, they look kinda nasty, but that lasts for a short time.
I used to want kids, but now I just see this world as too messed up to live in. When I see a baby/young child I get a pit in my stomach.
Having children with people besides a person you marry ruins everything...including this world we live in. People need to learn to live with integrity and responsibility and stop living in the moment and only caring about getting off...if not for themselves, then for the kid's sake.
I cant stand how the community/society expects everyone to like babies and animals and if you don't conform you are deemed as weird and unacceptable.
Im never having a fricking baby because I cant stand the little sh*ts either. I hate the ones that scream constantly and the parents just sort of get used to it and do nothing. It should be outlawed like dogs barking. Why the hell should I have to put up with your brats screaming and creating noise pollution? People with kids should be forced to build noise proof rooms to put their babies in when they scream.
Babies/kids are hideous little parasites that will suck the life out of you, drain you of every penny and basically wreck your life.
Take a look around at people with children. They are generally overweight, overstressed , haggard and much older looking than people with no kids. The womens breasts resemble a couple of old balloons left behind the lounge for a week after a birthday party and the men end up looking permanently pregnant with moobs. No thank you very much.
Parents also tend to get this air of self importance about them which is really annoying. You see them with their unnecessarily oversized baby buggies blocking the pavements and supermarket aisles. They never move out of the way because they think that just cause they were stupid enough to have a baby that they are more important than you and have right of way not to mention all the other fringe benefits they get from the government that you will never get because you arent dumb enough to ruin your life like them.
They would have you believe that the rewards of parenthood far outweigh the down side- thats because they are jealous that you are still free , cashed up , fresh looking and having a ball travelling, socialising and doing all the other things they can no longer do. Even when their kids grow up the hell never ends for them because these days many kids dont leave home until they are well into their thirties. Your parents and grandparents will do their best to make you feel you have somehow failed and will never be fulfilled unless you become a parent. Don't fall for it. They've been brainwashed like everyone else in order to perpetuate the species.
Perpetuation of the species is of course important however we live in
an extremely overpopulated world. Resources are running out fast. Two thirds of humans are living below the poverty line and we are now drowning in our own crap(figuratively speaking). Therefore we do not need every single human to keep adding to the problem by pumping out more babies.
Its never the same again after that and the husband/boyfriend never looks at it the same way. A friend of mine tells me that sexual intercourse feels like dipping it in a bowl of porridge after child birth.
Nope parenthoods definitely not for moi!
I am a parent and I can promise you right now that I do not at all feel jealous of couples without kids. Sure, sometimes I miss my freedom and some days I could strangle my kids because they rile me up, but I'm still glad I had them.
Something actually happened on Sunday, we were at a park, having a picnic and having fun and I was watching a young couple also having a picnic. They didn't have kids and were sitting around looking utterly bored, whereas we were watching our kids and having a good laugh at their antics and just enjoying watching them explore in the river and so on. I actually felt sorry for the couple without kids in a way because their lives seemed so empty, and I was really grateful for the fact that we were able to sit there as a family and just enjoy each others company. Sure, there are times when parenthood has it's downside, but all in all, it most definately is rewarding. Incidentally, if my kids misbehave, I deal with them, I do not leave them to continue being a nuisance because I myself hate it when other kids make a noise and throw tantrums. Not all parents are as you say. But then again maybe it's because where I live we still believe in giving the kids a darn good spanking if they are naughty, so they tend to be better behaved for the most part. I have noticed that since corporal punishment has been abolished in our schools the kids are getting more difficult to deal with.
Anyway, I agree that if someone doesn't want to have kids because they don't enjoy them, that's fine and it's their right, but for goodness sake, don't go about hating and projecting your own hideous hatred on others. We as parents don't share the feelings you think we have and we as mothers don't hate the fact that our breasts have hit our knees either. In fact, I know quite a few sexy moms with perfect figures and the dads are very fit and healthy too. Whether you're a parent or not, you can become sedentary and fat. So don't stereotype because you just make yourself look stupid.
Oh God that is just so typical of people with babies and the exact smug slef important attitude Im talking about. Feeling sorry for people without them. You see the world through a filter. A filter that says anyone without kids is sadly lacking and must be bored just cause they arent being loud and annoying like your family. Please keep your sympathy we dont want it or need it. Its like couples that seem to think that if youre not coupled up that you are somehow only half a person. Get over it.
for all of you parents out there, i'm sorry, but i don't think your kid is precious or cute (the same way a lot of people don't think my big, slobbery mastiff is cute). i realize you do, and that's fine. i just don't like them anywhere near me.
also, i don't understand how not liking babies is offensive. i don't get offended when someone doesn't like my cat or my dog (some people just aren't dog or cat people... i get that), and i love them and spoil them more than most people love their children.
I can probably also link it to how my sister, younger than me, was always spoiled when she was little, and I was stuck with the leftovers ; I was always told it's because she's younger than me [only by 3 years], and that I can cope with not having as much attention or things [which in my language, translates to "You're more mature so as a reward we can just forget you exist"].
Now, everything they do annoys me. Especially when they reach the toddler stage & are capable of being a big pain in the ass. It seems they actually TRY to annoy you at that stage, because no matter what they do, it's always what you don't want them to do. I have 2 cousins who are toddlers ; I'll admit sometimes I find them cute, like when one of them was talking about how mummies do kung-fu, but most of the time they just annoy me.
Um.... Why babies?
Babies suck. Parents who think their babies are better than anyone else's deserve to be punched.
Hahaha but I laughed my ass off. I love when people say "oh the baby has his eyes and her nose!". Like no you don't know that! All babies look the same to me.
So yes, they cry all the time and can sometimes smell of poop but at one point in your life you were exactly the same.
And don't bother asking your momma if you were an annoying and loud child as well because you probably were. Wait..... you still are annoying.
The way you dislike small lil' babies is unhealthy. Get that checked. :(
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I can't agree with you on the selfish part though, thier helpless and can't do anything so thats why they cry and they don't know enough to thank you or anything so :P It's about 50/50 some people just hate babies but you have a HUGE hatred for them lol
UR TOTALLY NORMAL
I DONT EVEN FEEL LIKE IMA GET MARRIED IN THE FUTURE!
BUT I LOVE KIDS:)
however i do hate it when teenagers have them.
i think it's careless and cruel to the child to have inexperienced teenagers for parents.
as bad as it might sound there are already too
many people in this world and it's destroying the planet
which is why i'll never have a child
i do have a stepson who was stupid enough to drop out of high school before finishing 10th grade and get his teenage
girlfriend pregnant i don't get it! these geniuses are "ready" to have a baby but they are not ready for to get married ?
and i really don't think babies are that cute
at least not untill they get there poop and what not under control.
but like i said this planet already has too many humans on it yet people still keep having more babies it makes no sense to me....
I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE babies and small children and always have!!
They're irritating, you have to watch them like a hawk 24/7, they scream and cry, honestly they all look the same to me, and I don't understand AT ALL what is so damn cute about them! Top it off with, they pee their pants, they pee in the pool, snot noses, and even when they're clean they still tend to smell like the inside of a hamster cage.
I used to think something was wrong with me... like aren't I supposed to have some kind of great mothering instinct or something?
But I know now that I'm older that there are PLENTY of other things in life to nurture besides babies.
That's why I'm a career woman.
To all who disagree - please start sitting next to the creepy little squealers and their deaf and blind parents who think it's ok for them to crawl all over you the next time you get in a plane or movie theatre. You can help to create a barrier between the ill-mannered little beasts and All of the civilized humans that are choaking back their barf & disgust trying to pretend they don't mind.
Or just leave them at home where they belong.
Roasting on a spit in the backyard...mmmmmm
Parents of babies are even worse - they parade up and down with their buggies pushing this squirming brat, taking up all the space on the pavement with no thanks and then smiling and looking innocent passers-by in the eyes, almost willing us to come over and swoon over their stinking lumps.
Why would you take a baby on holiday? It wont remember it and FYI, it just pisses everyone else off whether it be on the plane or in the hotel or basically where ever you take it. I can't stand how people go on like "how could anybody say that about a baby" like a baby is a piece of gold, yet really innocent creatures such as animals get killed and tortured every day and nobody really cares - people would rather talk about the unfair treatment of babies and other rubbish like that
So that's my view. Yes, I know we were all babies once etc, but I'm not one now and to be honest, I'm fed up of looking at their ugly faces and listening to their constant whining. Just stay at home. Don't take them out and show them off, your baby looks like every other bugger's baby and even you know that deep down. It's nothing special.
Oh, and by the way - you pregnant women look disgusting, not beautiful. There's nothing 'glowing' about a women having her stomach streched, gaining unnecessary weight and her breasts becoming veiny and saggy. It's gross. Like your baby.