I hate every social situations

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maybe you're depressed, try to join soem club and practice sports to get to know knew people,thats not normal!!

I pratice sports already but ill try to join a club.

Thank you for your time! XD
Have a nice day

There's nothing weird about that. Socializing is work. You have to use strategy, you have to seem a certain way, while actually thinking something else, etc. Some people say 'just be yourself,' but that's a bunch of bullshit. Once you get sort of comfortable navigating your way around social situations, your real self will start to emerge, but the bottom line is that socializing is not like breathing or eating. You have to get off your ass and do it...then you'll be even happier when you finally do it!

you suffer from social anxiety... get medicated with benzos... youll be fine

Thank you for your comment. do you have some tips?

You obviously don't like being anti-social, so get off your ass and make yourself go to some parties, events, etc. At first you'll seem stilted and nervous, but that's the price you have to pay. Just keep going to more of them. Don't just stand around, either. Go up to someone and talk to them. Groups of people tend to ignore introverted people. If you're really desperate, come up with a list of 'openers' you can use with people; little conversation subjects you've thought of in advance. Don't practice around people you see every day. Go to some parties/events where nobody really knows you first so you can make the big leap without having to worry about consequences if you screw up. Just keep doing it, and try to get peoples' phone numbers so you can call them and hang out with them. If they reject you, just go up to the next person and try again, etc etc. Eventually you'll get good at it.

Thank you so much!!!!
I dunno how i will do that, but I dont wanna be alone all my life.
A friend just invited me to a party tomorrow. Ill try your tips
Have a nice day and thank you again

One more thing - don't even think about acting obnoxious, rude, or judgmental in a group situation. Don't act like you know everything and you'll be fine. You'll notice that some of the most popular people will break all these rules, however. This might confuse you. They'll say "fuck you" to someone, and then they'll hug each other or walk around smiling afterward. This is more complex social dynamics, and just stick to simple stuff at first. Learning to make rude exclamations in public without pissing anybody off is a difficult skill, and like any skill, some people were born with a natural talent for it. They also probably had many siblings to practice with as they grew up. All the best

Ok, thank you for the advice
XD
I cant imagine myself in a party, im nervous!

GOD DAMN
12h53 Am, im still at my appartment alone doing some math problems...
I cant go there lol
Maybe its not for me all that social stuff.
is it normal that im happy alone and I dont need to go out? The only problem is that. I have no girlfriend... Nobody needs a man whos socially retarded -_-. I think im sick, dunno something like the avoidant personnality disorder. Maybe I should see a therapist?
I cant imagine myself in a party. I cant imagine myself speak to a stranger. I walk everyday at the fourth floor to avoid every1 at school. Im stressed everywhere. I hate to have any kind of attention.Im embarrassed when they sing to me at my birthday. I didnt go to graduation party at my high school(every1 was there except me)
I dunno why! Im not ugly or something like this.
I think ill stay virgin all my life lol.
with this fear, I cant find new friends or date with a girl.
Im probably not the only one with this problem. It would be nice that I find a girl like me XD

What do you think?

Plz be honest!
what do you think?

I think you should go shoot yourself or something you pathetic loser...who the fuck gets embarrassed at his own birthday?

You're one of those...what do you call it; "trolls." Get a life douche bag