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I hate everything! I mean it, everything. I hate the way people look, the way they dress, their facial expressions, the words they speak, the things they buy, and on and on. I find very few things enjoyable, I feel it is just a sham. We as human beings are so fake in everything we do and say. I figured out early on in my life that everything boils down to sex, money, and power. That's it. They are the root of everything. You can even take it a step farther and say the money and power are to get the sex. It sickens me. Humans are a plague. I hate all the suffering that all animals endure, from the manatees getting run over by boats to the poor dogs mutilated in china and so on.. I hate religion for all of the wars and death and suffering that has been caused in it's name. If there ever was a god, it left this place a long time ago. What god could let a child die of cancer? I am considered the black sheep of my family, I am the grumpy a**hole because I don't conform. But why? I hate the fakeness of it all. I hate the way my mom says she doesn't care what people think but slaps on the lipstick and makeup and cleans the house and freaks before people come over. Because god forbid her 5500 square foot house doesn't look perfect or someone won't be impressed by her richness. Is this normal to hate everything. I know some would say that I should start taking prozac or something, but why? I see the world the way it is. Why drown it out and pretend these things don't occur. So I can conform? No, this is me. Is this normal. Do others feel this way in one way or another? Please help!
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It definitely isn't normal in the sense that everyone goes through it, but it isn't actually that unusual. It's probably not emotional trauma, definitely not being emo (and people who think that should seriously try looking up 'emo'). Forgiveness doesnt help. You just came to the same conclusion as many others before you: humankind sucks, and even though your hatred is justified, most people will just try to mock you with their holier-than-thou attitude since they can't figure it out themselves or because they live idyllic lives.
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classicalman114
You are experiencing complex emotions. You feel trapped, right? You can't decide what is real and what is not. There are many outlets in which you can express yourself. Have you tried writing poetry/lyrics? That's mine. I would say half of all human beings are shit, and the other half are geniuses/geniuses in waiting. Perhaps even listening to music like Slipknot will help you through these dark times in your life. Stay strong. One day you're time will come, and those who mistook you for a whiner or looked down upon you will pay their price in some form or another.
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Oh come on.

I dont really believe that you hate everything, come on, there HAS To be something you enjoy, something you admire, something you can connect with, something that makes you smile or laugh.


Trust me, you are NOT the only one with this mentality. Sigmund freud, mark twain just to name a few had this pessimistic view on humans. I hate people too, those maggots,

but! I dont let that hate consume me, for a long time I did, and i just wasted my teens doing it. Its really not healthy for you.

Chill. find something you can do with a passion. surround yourself with positive things and you will feel much better, regardless of how this ugly world carries on.
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hmmm..... perhaps you should leave the human world and go live in the wild, you know, like Tarzan or something.
I'm only half joking though. I understand where your coming from, people suck, and i respect your refusal to conform and become numb to it all. I can see looking at all the hypocritical people in this world is killing you inside, it used to do that to me too, and then one day i was like... they are so stupid. Let them be stupid, and just laugh at them and realize that everyone is messed up and weird and hypocritical and just like the person above me said FORGIVE THEM. Sucks, i know. and if you can't forgive them, go escape into the jungle and live with the apes. Nothin' wrong with that.
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Fuckin' RIGHT! I HATE EVERYTHING too, and it makes me feel damn good. gives me power. hahahaaaa.... but i dont think there is anything wrong with me. i just hope for apocolypse.
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i agree death to all people and anything living which agervates me
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Personally, i believe what you feel has stemmed off of a bigger problem. I went through this problem, i literally hated EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. I hate how most people in this world are completely fake and only god knows how they really feel about you. My family sees me as a complete a**hole and claim that i "need help with my issues" when they are the ones lying to themselves everyday thinking that their lives are perfect.Now i dont necessarily hate everyone, i just hate ignorant people. But other than that, im a pretty swell kid ! :D
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To who ever posted this topic, I agree with you 100%. You have discovered the the truth, which not people many do. It's a burden and blessing, but living in truth is far, far better than living a lie like a so many do. I'm so glad there are people out there like you that understand!
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im dead serious about this but smoke some weed.
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I read this and instantly I knew. You are a child, possibly 15-17. You don't know what it is to hate everything. Try a life were you cannot stand to wake up and go to two different dead end jobs. Try working 16hrs a day and getting 4 hrs a sleep a night then comeback and tell us what you think. You're still young, you have no idea what's its like to have your intelligence, strengths, loves and passions all used against you. You are a spoiled little rich kid, go enjoy your free water and electricity and free rent. Go enjoy eating the food out of a fully stocked pantry, watch the cable you don't pay for and wear the clothes you didn't buy. You are just bored, go ride your bike or talk to a girl/guy, go run for ten miles and see how you feel. You are just bored and upset because you have never done anything that anyone will truly remember. I hate you so much that I got an account just to tell you,"I HATE YOU!"
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ehm...shit...do I know you?Have we met before?
Are you reading my mind?Are you spying on me?
Jesus Christ!You sound like my lost supposedly dead twin. :o I'm shocked and confused.
Suspiciousness aside....
I'm so with you.Badly enough for me,
I reached the high end of low.
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You really are miserable aren't you? I'm sorry that your mind only harps upon the negative aspects of life.
I would also say, you should move to someplace much more remote and remove yourself from the media and entertainment industries.
Also..... I'm sorry about this but... you're kind of whining about everything that's wrong without actually doing anything to make it better.
If it's broken, fix it, instead of wallowing in your own self pitying misery.

I'm sorry that I can't really relate to you. I love life and love to love and to be loved. I enjoy being happy and thus, I am happy. I don't think about sex, money or power much except in the context of fantasy written to relieve boredom. Also, I surround myself with people who are almost completely honest and sincere. (I would say completely but I don't believe in absolutes)

I'm also sorry that I can't relate to your family wanting you to conform. My parents just laugh and say that I'm weird and hug me. (same with my friends) They're happy for my happiness. It constantly surprises me.

I'm not excluding myself from the human race either. I believe wholeheartedly that I'm an egoist. I find it quite fun to think highly of oneself.

And I go back to the start now and say once again, if this is what you are feeling about the world, if you see pain and suffering and wrongs, then DO something about it. Do something about the problems because they upset you and because there are ways to help. Change what can be changed into something good for the world.
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violin97
@: Ayame
Pardon my offensive comment, but he can't "fix" you or anyone else being a damn bastard. Sorry, but hey, it true.
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Well, yes, it is normal when a root of bitterness has entered into someone's heart. It appears you might have been emotionally damaged or traumatized somewhere in your life. Possibly by several people. This is the hardest thing to swallow because I have had to learn the same lesson myself. I completely understand you. I used to think just like you. But the only cure is.....forgiveness. UGH. Yes, such a difficult thing to do, but the only way you will heal and be able to care and have compassion on the world rather than be so bitter about it is by forgiving even when people aren't sorry. Being easier on others. You are therefore releasing yourself. It doesn't condone wrongdoing, it just frees you from the tormenting emotions that live inside of you. Then from there it is practicing genuine unconditional love to people even though you don't feel it. Choosing to not speak ill of others even though you don't like the way they act. You don't have to like what people do and it is good to speak up when things are wrong, but to do it out of bitterness just continues the cycle of being just like the rest of society that you hate so much. The heart will soften over time. But it is choosing to change the attitude about others because the world isn't going to change, and no one can make up for any wrong doing done to you. Only you can change and then your heart will heal and your view of the world won't be 'bitter' it will be 'better' and you might be more inclined to want to do something to help with a loving heart.
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You need to see a shrink and get some meds like Cymbalta make you feel gooddddd maybe that is what you need!
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sometimes i feel this way. but i just live. dont kill yourself, even if you want to. remember good times. cry. yeah, life sucks, i just dont know bout it anymore, just live.
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replying to myself, umm i kinda changed opinions cause right now i feel like i do hate everything. even if its just a little, i do, and i hate it alot. i cant explain it but i wish i could just kill it all. i even hate the things i do and how i feel and how i look. but i just live. i dont even know what the point is but i live.
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nice i know a bunch of people that feel the same way. you must have a bad life like i do to hate everything.
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this may be an out stretch, and I don't know if its aloud, but I'm going to quote something from halk Nelson. you can find the full song on you tube if you want, its called things we go through.

these are the things we go through. lets take control and be our selves.
lets not take time wondering about, how your going to make it out.

this song basiclly talks about what allot of kids go through in life.
its one of the songs I turn to when I feel just like that. hope it helps.
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You are better than normal! if normal is to exist either in oblivion through stupidity to the evil of mankind, or aware, yet ignorant by choice, then normal is not something anyone should long to be.
You are not alone. There are many people out there who do not hide from the truth and I urge you to be strong. Do not simply try to ignore what you know in your heart. Society is evil, it is wrong. We let ourselves do so many horrible things while ignoring the suffering of others. We build our own personal empires while shutting out any thought of aiding those outside our immediate world. In this society we are raised like slaves to this fate. You are smart and strong enough to see the problems of humanity. Do not hide in fear. One day people like you will rise up and force change upon this world. You may not be able to convince many people that your view of the world is right, but there is a saying: "a weak man hides from the truth, a strong man seeks it"
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you've got to find something that makes you happy....food, music, art, a book....something to live for if you do want to live....because wallowing in such negativity is parallel to not wanting to live and you wrote what you wrote because you want help....you want somebody to help you find a reason to be happy and live....you sound like a teenager--its normal for teens to feel this way, but YOU have to want to live and YOU have to make yourself happy....find something!
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You know what?
FUCK normal,man.The amount of definitions there are for the word normal is the same amount as there are trees in the park.Which leaves us with the question:"What is the be-all and end-all definition of normal?"
The answer?Normal doesn't exist.It's an opinionated value created by mankind's sometimes surprisingly redundant mind,one that is both a hypothesis and assumption.It's not something that "simply is" because it's not a set,proven,concrete law of Nature.Nothing is "normal" or "weird" in life.
The fine print of life,though,the ultimate fucking irony is that EVERYTHING is,however,fucked up.
Everything I just typed is the perfect explanation as to why I will probably never return to this site.
Thank and fuck you for reading.
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you are so very right and completely normal. the people who aren't normal are the ones who are blind of the truth or ignore it. people telling you to get on meds are whack jobs themselves and are probably on 10 different meds just cause they are told by their doc that they need them. conformist much? people still use the word emo? hahahaha, the most used word by ignorant people. come up with something new. emo comes from the word emotion, obviously. everyone has emotions, so does that mean everyone is emo?? emo is a kind of music, not a kind of person or a lifestyle. also, there is not one person on this Earth that is not depressed about something and a lot of you hide who you really are and can't express your true feelings or thoughts. go down a beer, talk about the American dream and be as corrupt as most people and institutions are. most people are incredibly stupid; they harm/kill animals, rape/murder other people, molest little kids, rip people off, destroy themselves through drugs, believes anything the media tells them and so on. for whoever posted this, my thumbs are way up on this question.
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I share your pain, I have the same problem. It is not normal because the norm is ill. They have forgotten what is important. But you are awake unlike the others. Now you have to decide if you want to help or move on. I myself am nearing my end, Im searching for love but cannot find it. I only find ill woman that have forgotten what love is. I try to make the best out of my life but I only get hurt. People dont want my wisdom, they dont change whatever I say whatever I do. They keep thair illness. I hate everything so much that I can only try to change it but it is so frustrating and causes me only pain and sorrow.
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How do you know you hate everything if you don't like anything in contrast? If you never liked anything then you would assumed that you liked the things that you hate the least.
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This is the way the world works. Sure, people torture and hurt animals, but I have news for you. Animals aren't saints or martyrs, either. Have you never seen a nature documentary? They kill and torture each other all the time. You like dolphins, right? Everyone likes dolphins. Well, you know what? They sometimes go after baby whales of smaller species for no reason other than to torture and murder them. Google it, it's true. Everyone is looking out for their own interests. Philanthropists, volunteers, homicidal sociopaths, CEOs, all of them do what they do because it makes them feel good. Mother Theresa. Sure, what she did was great, but you know why she did it? Because it gave her a feeling of accomplishment and made her feel good about herself when she lay in bed trying to go to sleep. So congratulations. You had some clarity about the way the world works. Everything on the planet is motivated by self interest. Now, figure out what is in your best self-interest, and do it. Just try not to make it anything shitty like hurting people.
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i know exactly how you feel about people/fakeness and the world we are living in. It sounds exactly how i would explain the way i feel about everyday anxiety-depression.Well, at least the only times when i feel this way. I am well aware of everything that is happening all the time. I know things, and it bothers me because i cant make any changes. The best thing you can do, is to just relax. Because there is no changing the way you are. This has already been formed into your personality and people suck the life out of you no matter what you do. People are a gift of god, hard to believe isn't it? But, its true. The worlds standard of normal is well above what anyone can handle sometimes and not all people but it affects people in different ways, to different degrees, peopel jsut have a different way of showing it. All you need to do is CHILL OUT, stay calm. Have fun, laugh,keep your mind off the negative,stay positive,live well,wish people well,pray for your problems,your sins,be better, live the way you know is right. Dont live like other people if you think what there being is fake and phony, its there way of blending in and making it out there in the world. so you msut understand that too. They were raised a certain way maybe you just absolutely cant stand the fakeness that is fine. I have been through too many bad experiences with people, rumors,being made fun of,not changing for them etc..I never wanted to change my attitude. some people naturally are more persuasive and other just aren't. they dont know how to fake it. they know how to be real and that is what they know to be exact. Just know that there is a god that exists and he or she, it loves you. people are a gift as i've said. Dont worry about that, maybe there's a good reason why they are like this. It's okay to be different. Going back to what i was saying I have been lied about by many people why? you might ask. Well, because i dont know how to play there games..I can play but, i dont want to. there is hope around the corner. Just keep your imagination alive, always forgive people because you dont know what theyve had to deal with in there life or how there day went. Alot of bitter people so let god judge them. Just find what you know you can do well give people a chance. Dont worry about haters or people you cant stand with there fakeness its all apart of the process called life. You sound like youve been overloaded with crap by people. You are what the world calls "introverted". It is maybe a sign that you need to get away? You need to change something. I will not lie to you though, the world seems real fake to me a lot of times but, its partially ingrained into people. The way they were taught and raised,its not always a bad thing. Just get ahold of yourself. The world makes you feel like your head is going to fall off, everything is blurry,and mixed up. LOOK for the Beauty. I would say get on some good anxiety medication. Get a heating pad! omgosh! Getting a heating pad and wear it when your sitting on the couch or on your pillow for sleep. That will take your headaches,anxiety stress AWAY! far far away! wear ear plugs when your b/f,g/f, famiyl is watching noisy television..this blocks out the mental pain! Either ignore them or join the them i guess? I have sat back and yes, they will talk because your not saying/doing/pretending to do anything. there will be rumors though. Just dont let it bother you. You are the type that is smart enough to realize that something is not right and there needs to be some kind of change. Dont feel like your alone in this world feeling this way, because your not.This is the way life is but, dont let it get your down. It is actually a good thing that we all dont think/or act the exact same. What would the fun be in that. Dont give up on people just put your head into a good book and thats really my advice. I have yet, to come by people i actually can say i thoroughly enjoy enjoy being around and talking to and hanging out with. Besides my significant other even then he can be a pain in the behind. life is harder for some people but, DONT let it get to your head it still is no excuse. We all have to deal with hardship and have our set of problems to work through every day.dont ever start doing drugs because its not the way, or gods way. live a clean,healthy life. Get a couple animals,plants to take care of that is always fun! Its good to not feed something that isnt right for you, it could lead to disaster. maybe this helped you maybe not? heck thats too much judgement im done.
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I feel the same way sometimes but then I think I found an Easer way then hatred. We are all ignorant to our own opinion corrupt by our selfish nature. So my solution screw it screw everything I only care about what cares to care for me. Man kind is selfish as hell and it won't change. So just do what you find entertaining or what you are passionate about. man kind will kill it's self in the end. There is always a judgment for the selfish and unjust. Good will come to those who do good and bad will go to those who do bad.
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dude, you are way too negative. go listen to caramelldansen or hug a kitten, geez.

and besides, you can't hate the dogs being "mutilated" in China, they're not being mutilated, theyre probably just getting eaten, and though you may think this abhorrent, people in india frown upon us eating cows :
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violin97
@: Mew93
It's wrong to take advantage of living beings. Eating a dog that can't speak for itself is like eating a new born child. I hate myself for loving steak, but my selfishness is too strong to overcome my guilt.
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its probably because you are highly observant and notice all the disgusting things in the world. when imersed in a society built on greed corruption and power its easy to begin to hate things.

try to focus all the hate from your entire life into one moment of pure swirling hatred, until it becomes so intense it begins to draw in all the hate that exists in the entire cosmos. now by this point you should have a massive unweildly ball of hate, filled with so much negative energy condensed, its on the verge of imploding. now cut out your heart and replace it with this ball. feel better? or do you still feel like a person with a tiny black heart of condensed negative energy? try upgrading to either a dead hamster in a rusty wheel, a small fist of sawdust or a cup of old chip fat.

seriously tho. i get how you feel. try smoking a fat joint and watching the sun rise. take joy in breathing and try to search out the infinte beauties in this world - inner and outer.
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violin97
I may only be thirteen, but half of my personality completely agrees with you. I believe humans are stupid ignorant fools, even I can be sometimes, and no offense, but you too. I do feel bad for you though, because if you think exactly like I do you must be kinda lonely, even if you have tons of friends. Do you believe in God? I don't, but just wondering. What I really wanna do when I grow up is rule the world. I'll make it good again. Because when ya think about it, people survive because they've been brought up in the mentallity that a better place was waiting. When I grow up, I'll live in the woods. I'll live in nature, the only thing that humans can't screw around. Idk, but maybe you should try camping some time, spend some quality one-on-one with your surroundings.
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you have some serious problems. if you hate everything whats the point of living? you need to get a fucking life and by the way, this is not normal. this is called emo. go get some friends or something and stop hating the world.
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im afraid that ill have to agree with this guy
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I agree with y'all too...emo much?
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You're a grouchy old bastard
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