i hate it when girls say there ugly

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She does it because she doesn't have much self esteem. She just wants to know u care. Tell her she's beautiful, not just when she says shit like that but all the time!

i know a girl that is soooooooooo beautiful but she says shes ugly too

ya most girls have this problem just tell them they look good but not all the time.

Thats a problem she has to work out herself. Also, take a look at the friends she's listening to. Chances are, they're probably even worse when it comes to their bodies.
But honestly, since the beginning of time, women have always been self conscious about their bodies. Even before the media, even before celebrites, women have always felt insecure about their bodies in one way or another because they're so used to having strange men stare at them all the time. Eliminate the strange men and the bad friends, and you've got a girl who has nothing to worry about.

Get another girlfriend. I don't care about what I look like, or what other people think about my body, that's stupid. I cover myself for moral reasons, but I actually like looking in the mirror at myself.

what if she is really ugly?

Why you get mad?
Some girls do this so the guys would tell us repeatably that we're beautiful.
But yeah it is annoying ... but hey ...

yeah well tell her shes beutifull anyway :D

Tell her she's ugly and she'll never find someone else that's willing to put up with her Terry Schiavo looking face. This will keep her in line while you bang multiple skanks.

It probably is frustrating, but she is 1 of 2 girls:
1. She honestly doesn't have self esteem, and she really thinks that
2. She knows shes pretty, and she likes to hear compliments.

Some girls are best being treated like shit and told they are worthless, because at least then you both agree on something. Get a real girlfriend.

UGH!!! I totatlly get ur point.I know this girl who just says she's ugly cause she wants people to build her up and tell her how pretty she is...ugh!!

thats f*cking annoying.I know a lot of people do that. I cant stand that shit. Its her self esteem. She just want you to say shes pretty thats all.

i think im good looking but i dont think that other people feel that way about me, sometimes if im curious about how they feel ill say somthing stupid like i think im ugly just to haer their opinion obviously i dont expect them to tell me i'm ugly but some times the way they word the responce can let you know how they really feel like "ohh no your not that bad" means ya ur butt ugly but if they say "give it up your gorgous" its a total confidence boost. sometimes a girl just needs to hear shes pretty cause most girls even if they think they are dont beleive you do too

Have you EVER looked at pictures of what guys consider to be hot these days? It's enough to make a beautiful girl cry. We don't think that we can ever live up to that. Just let her know that you think she's more beautiful that all of those girls, but it's not attractive when she says that stuff about herself. Maybe she'll give it a second thought.

I tend to think everyone has thought that about themselves. I know im not perfect and id surely question why a guy would pick me. If they thought it was annoying, as you do, id want them to tell me so i can stop..
The last thing i wanna be is annoying. :/

agree with her see what she does

to be honest (im not sexist before you complain) its because shes a women, everywomen in the world doubts themselves in too many ways to count, i dont know a single women without self doubt and it winds me up too, just be brutal about it and tell them they are absolutely stunning and dont let them deny it

Attention wh*res...
That's all they are.
They call themselves ugly, fat, smelly, etc.. and expect you to respond with wonderful compliments to reassure them of how nice they are. To be frank, I'd just agree with her. See how she responds to that one.

If a guy honestly said "Give it up your gorgous" I would melt.

well I think some girls say that for attention and know that they are not ugly really, they just want you to tell them how pretty they are. OR they have self-esteem issues

some girls say it for the attention, or they do feel that way, but say it to hear what you have to say, a guys oppinion mean alot for a girls self asteam, trust me i know, (im a girl) i do the same thing, ive been pretty insecure, and hearing a guy say your gawjus make you feel alot better.

ugh yes I also hate when people do that. especially if they're pretty and they say they're not. and I'm just like dude look at me and look in the mirror and you call yourself ugly, you're also indirectly insulting me

make love to her infromnt of the mirror to allow her to see what you see

tell her that the body she has is nothing compared to models and actresses

tell her shes not and that shes a beautiful queen in your household and that the world is hers if she asks for it


then kiss her and tell her shes all the beauty for you!

We're like that - we're too thin, we're too fat, our breasts are too big, our breasts are too small, our legs are too long, our legs are too short, our eyes are the wrong colour, wish I looked like X (some boring standardised Hollywood product). In fact, we're all beautiful - just that some girls are more beautiful than others. Just remind us now and then. By the way, my breasts are far too small and my buttocks are flat and...

I hate girls like that. I call them Fishers. Because to me they're just fishing for compliments. They'll say "omigosh I'm so fat," just so people will say, "what?! Dude you're like so skinny and pretty!" When my skinny friends say that I'm like, "yeah dude you're totally fat. What happened to you?" That shuts them up. Of course there are those who really do have low self esteem. I don't pick on those girls. But usually you can tell the difference.

i really don't understand why u mentioned this. most guys in this situation would be flattered if girls say they r lucky to have you. you maybe kind of guy who doesn't want girls drooling over and being less confident. get over it, its really not a girl thing but a guy thing we r talking about. Also i think you r really worthwhile if you say u think your girlfriend is beautiful, why dont start telling her by how beautiful she is, it will sure boost her confidence. and maybe she will like a lesson on confidence, which if u really care can tell her casually.

i say that to my boyfriend all the time because i think im ugly.. - check out my profile picture and you'll no wot i mean - and he starts shouting at me.
i dont think i dun anything wrong lmao x

i used to be like that.
look in the mirror and say im ugly.
i do it sometimes still, but that just might be when my cover up is off and i have gross pimple.
but other then that i dont care. i look in the mirror and im just like k, but i dont say im ugly to anyone...no one really cares either :P

She is just an ass. Sorry, but really, I have been a girl I know this stuff, she knows she is pretty, she just says she's ugly so that people would compliment her, that she is so beautiful and so on.She likes when people say she is beautiful and to be in the center of attention, tell her she is beautiful (if she is) and she should get over her childish needs, grow up, it won't hurt her feelings if she really cares about oyu, she will bring herself together for you, again if she cars about youu, if she doesn't she will be mad and brake up with you, that means that she just wanted a way out.

most girls are just looking for compliments.
i actually tend to do it, too.

I'm totally guilty of denying a compliment but I usually do it cause I'd rather disagree than say yes I am totally hot and sound full of myself.

girls like to fuck with our heads

she jus wants you to say she's pretty and stuff or she has a problem every time she looks at the mirror. jus try to catch her alone if she says it to herself and you would really find the truth.

I'm a girl, and other than being paranoid, i think they believe that insulting themselves is a compliment to others? i dont know, i';ve never been one of those types.

it is really, really annoying though...they may just be fishing for compliments

many female's have low self-esteem, or self confidence... tell her she looks beautiful every day!! okay i know thats not realistic... but dont forget to tell her often!

Buddy they say that so you'll say. "No your not, your beautiful". Next time she says it or any girl says it say . You got that right! of course you wont be getting much action after that

Most girls do it because they like the attention and people saying they're sexy

So agreed... It pisses me of like nothing else when my girl keeps saying she thinks she's ugly! And then if tell her she gorgeous or whatever she starts fucking arguing!

they say that so that you will tell them that the are pritty

i have that problem, i had to go to therapy for that problem
sometimes its deeper then just, a girl wants to hear they are pretty
for me its cuz my father left, i never felt good enough for him
and my first boyfriend lied about having lung cancer, and he always told me how pretty i was
so once he lied, it all became a big lie to me
and i cant trust anyone about anything

The other day I had an emotional breakdown infront of my boyfriend and ended up telling him why I was depressed, sometmes it feels like life isn't going anywhere so it makes you feel worthless I guess. He just told me I was silly because I was intelligent, pretty and can go far etc, but it didn't make the situation any better. There could be a reason she doesn't feel pretty and I hope she can find it and turn it around because many pretty girls don't feel they are because of maybe experience or home life

Do you wanna know why girls feel that way? cos guys always chose the pretty girl, they never wanna get to know a girl. They want the ones with the nicest bodies, again, never wanna get to kno a girl.

all guys on here can tell me that not all guys r like tht but i'v never met any guy thats not like this.

If I were a girl, I would be so devastated at your punctuation (or, more accurately, lack thereof) that I would write entire dossiers on how ugly I was just to infuriate you further.

[LOL, lrn 2 punkshu8]

It's just a matter of self-esteem. I always think and say I look ugly too even when people say otherwise. I just can't help it, I can't believe anything other than my own opinion of being ugly

some girls do it cos they dont wanna say there pretty or think there not ugly incase people think there full of themselves and stuff like that.
I hate it when boys think girls are fishing for complements when girls say there not attractive and stuff it just means girls dont think alot about themselves.

yeah it does my head in too
i knew a girl who got depressed when u complimented her and annoyed when u abused how she looked lol
i couldn't win :|

You arent the only 1 who thinks they fish for comments... Lucky for me i have a girl who doesnt think like that

I knoe some of the prettiest girls, & guys go crazy over them, & yes the girl loves the attention, loves dressing up & loves staring at her self in the mirror. But she will constantly say negative things, that i do not understand at all. Normally a girl just say shes ugly for you to tell her shes not, but if shes doing this stilll then its a problem. You need to tell her shes pretty randomly, not when she says "im uglyyy" tell her when you first see her, or just tell her something sweet. Dont say the same thing every day because its hard to believe something that is overly said it starts to sound fake, even when its not. Your girlfriend might just be unhappy about something, & hearing you compliment her looks maybe it makes her feel better. & saying she doesnt deserve you idk why shed say that, either to make you feel better, or maybe shes hiding something. i honestly couldnt tell you exactly thats just my thoughts.

Yes, it's a case of bad selfesteem. She needs to hear someone else say that she's pretty/blahblah because she doesn't think so herself.

Tell her shes beautiful and that she is really worth it. Tell her your not to good for her and that you are here for her and only her. Tell her that you love her no matter what she thinks. And tell her that you will always be there for her and that she is the most wonderful person in the world.

I am so sick of this. I know so many girls like this, they always say they're ugly, or fat, or stupid, or something that sometimes is true. Then, somebody who is way too polite to say "You're right", says "That's not true, you're gorgeous/sexy/brilliant!" They always fish for compliments. It's so annoying. I sometimes even say "Yes, you're right. But you've got a leg up because you KNOW you're ugly/fat/stupid, so you can fix the problem!" That makes them flip out.

marry me. now.

Unless we are unfortunatley unattractive it's either a) we want you to tell us how beautiful you think we are to be all 'yey' b) we just want a bit of reassurance on what we are wearing/doing etc. or c) it's our time of the month and we feel as fat as an elephant and as like we fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down. So if you know which one of these it is you can just tell her she's beautiful and that you won't here anymore of it! :)

Sometimes, when a girl says those things, she just wants to be reassured that you love her and you think she's beautiful.

Girls say this so you compliment them.
Compliment her more randomly when she's not even exspecting it and hopefully she'll get over being such sterotypical girl.

I hate it too! No one wants to listen to someone rant about their imperfections

As a male, I have to agree with you. However, is it really what guys like, or is it what the media makes you believe guys like? Just because a particular-looking woman appears in a skin magazine doesn't mean that most guys will find her attractive. As far as not being as attractive as supermodels goes, well.. yeah, you may not be. The difference is, your girl is YOUR girl, and that makes her more attractive than anyone else, or at least that's the way it works for me.

I'm the same way. No matter how many compliments I get each day, my mind keeps telling me I'm ugly. I can't help it, and sometimes I just say it out loud to get my feelings out. I don't care if someone says "Oh, shut up, you're gorgeous!" I'll still feel ugly. I always feel like people are looking for compliments when they say things like that except me. I don't care what their response is when I say I'm ugly. Sometimes people get annoyed and just say, "Yeah, you are." I just don't give a damn.

OMG, I FEEL THE SAME WAY!

beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

In our ass-backward society a woman isn't considered "attractive" unless she conforms perfectly to a computer-enhanced stereotype of feminine sexuality that has visually and subliminally bombarded her 500 times a day ever since she was barely able to say 'mommy' and stand upright. What else do you expect her to think? "I'm beautiful just the way I am?"

Nothing turns me off more than a perfect 10 who just stands there in her perfect sexy outfit, radiating beauty and sexuality, who refuses to say a word because she feels so wretched that she dare not make a sound...

Just tell her she's a beast and you only stay with her because you're waiting for her to die so you can sell her back hair as a pelt for big money.

Ugh gross, a friend who needs constant reassurance. how annoying. You need to tell her that you can't constantly be reassuring her of her outward beauty. that she needs to start doing that herself before getting on your nerves making you do it for her.

look in the mirror every morning, tell youself how beautiful you are and how you are worthy.
And it doesn't matter if she believes it or not. she just needs to do it.