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I hate my best friend - 70% Normal

omg, this might sound wierd but i HATE my best friend, we have been friends since kindergarten and now everything is falling apart. i will call her C. c wrote the nastey not to me a couple of weeks ago saying how much she hated me and that i cant have any other friends that she doesnt have. etc etc. last thursday we were at soccer practice and we were battling for the ball, she tripped me and i fell and broke my wrist, now i am too nice to go and blame everything on her (because her mom is a HUGE b****).

and now c is acting all nice too me and helping me out, acting like she didn't write that mean note or anything...

is it normal to hate my best friend??
Do you think it's normal?
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wierdo_yes (20262)
2009-02-15 11:40:01
wow
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violent10dency (10988)
2009-02-15 18:33:19
My best friend threw a knife at me and stabbed me in the foot when I was 14 so yea I guess it is normal to hate her. Just find new friends because she is jealous of you obviously.
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SunD3R (20284)
2009-02-16 02:55:56
it's obvious that she is jealous of u. are u better than her in some things?
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Ritsudono (20127)
2009-02-16 03:10:40
yeah, it's normal to hate her after what she's done to you.
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tornwithin (18040)
2009-02-16 13:45:03
ya i had a best friend for years then she turned into a bitch and wrote a note about why she hated me and showed it to all our friends and she wouldnt allow me to hang out with our other friends, i still did and shed be like "i see you guys are best friends now eh??" and it was so lame she still tries to be nice to me 3 years later saying i was always her best friend then my other friend said she was talking trash about me a week before so ya ppl like her arent worth it.. please find new friends!
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lovenug (20471)
2009-03-08 10:32:34
@: tornwithin
You should talk to her and be like listen your acting really immature, we have seperate lives were not always going to have the same friends and whats up with that note you wrote? If you guys cant agree or she's still a crazy bitch then tell her its over and find new friends.
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brockleygirl (20694)
2009-03-19 07:47:40
sometimes i go through phases of actually hating my friends to an extent where i cant actually be around them any longer...it comes and goes every so often. .i think it is comletely normal
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Relapse (21623)
2009-04-05 06:16:59
Sometimes long term friendships do breakdown especially early in life as people just grow apart. It sounds like you girls are ready for some new BFF's, I'd recommend that you keep things civil and don't have an all out war, which might require some tact, and a gentle chat given her dislike of you making new friends.
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dramamamma (21827)
2009-04-10 16:04:03
@: Ritsudono
totally girl. You should distance yourself away from her. Get other friends. IT may not be easy but it is beter then being with C.
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Poppyred (22938)
2009-05-12 14:56:14
Your friend sounds like she's getting insecure about losing you. If she hates you, then why would she be so upset about you having other friends? You should give her a chance, try to find out if there is a reason for her behavior. Perhaps you've recently started hanging out with some new people and she feels left out when you're with them?
And are you sure she tripped you on purpose? It could have been an accident. The note was a very immature and nasty way of communicating with you, but perhaps she finds it difficult to talk to you face to face about this.
Give her a chance, but if the situation doesn't improve then you need to move on to your other friends.
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HairsprayQueen (22487)
2009-05-16 10:15:31
Well i've just discovered i hate ALL of my friends now, it's not weird, and i know it's hard to get knew ones, but i'm going to try and avoid them, maybe you should do the same with your best friend?
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Loveybabe1213 (18078)
2009-05-17 08:13:59
Yeah I thought I was the only person who did'nt like my best friend. I know she is jealous of me and it's the same thing with her; I can't have any friends that she does'nt have. Like all my friend s frome middle school that I like to keep in touch with she is always saying that I should'nt because they "are so in the past" but I know she just says that because she did'nt have any friends in middle school.She is definetly jealous of you.
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Andrewxisxcool (26471)
2009-08-29 04:16:59
Yea it's normal, me and my best friend are no longer friends anymore cause he blames me for lying to his girlfriend when he was lying the whole time
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-10-05 06:14:33
Its normal to be pissed off with her under the circumstances but I'd say make an effort to save the relationship before you decide to move on.

Talk to her as a friend to help her grow up around her insecurities. Tell her you were hurt about the poison pen letter and tripping. Let her know that you can be friends & have other friends. Be clear about what you expect from her.

If that doesn't work at least you tried. But it is worth the effort for someone you have known for years, and may for many to come.
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