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Hey,
I REALLY REALLY HATE MY BROTHER...i mean..not just sibling stuff ..like i wish he would get hit by a bus and die! HE IS THE MEANEST PERSON ALIVE! WHEN HIS GIRLFRIEND COMES OVER HE ACTS ALL NICE!!! I HATE HIS GIRLFRIEND TOO! HE HURTS ME . AND IS IMMATURE AND RUDE!
PLEASE HELP ME ! IS IT NORMAL THAT I HATE MY BROTHER THIS MUCH?
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I SUPERRRRRRRRR HATE MY BROTHER TOO! He's my youngest brother btw. I know I should be mature and stuff but I couldn't help hate him. He's so DISRESPECTFUL! He never respect me, my younger sister, mom and dad anymore. There are times I just wish he'd disappear.
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omg dude i feel exacly the freaking same except he doesnt have a girlfriend i wish he would die sometimes
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Animefreak
he's a bastard just like my brother ignore him and dont try to kill him ..like me
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Totally normal. I was an only child til I was 8 when my mom got married because she got pregnant by her boyfriend. They are still married, but their hell spawn has made my life miserable. I'm 30 and he's 21 and I know I should not stoop to his level, but he such a smart-mouth-know-it-all ass! I hate him. I tell him to his face I wish bad things because of the mean things he says that cut right to the core. Maybe I don't wish he would die per se....I just wish he' move to Africa and join the Peace Corps or that he would join the Army and be captured by Al Qaida. I really don't ever want to see him again in this life or the next.
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ok its normal cuz i hate my bro 2 he is so an idiot he act soonice when we are with the family or with a cute girls that he likes oh like bewww i realy hate him and all my family say ur evil and he is like an angel like they know me very will oh my god i realy hate him when i ask him for a fav and iam beging him and say plz and ppl whatching he say noooo like 10000000000000 times oh my god i hate him and i hate all the girl friend he did have he is just an idiot like them
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fuck my brother to hell!! i have same prob as you. he's always beating me up. some day he will break ten of my bones and go to jail. (that will be the best day of my life
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My brother is really an asshole.. he really doesnt care about me. Okay im Gay and HE MOCKS my sexuality in front of me, he gets drunk all the time, onyly thinks bout girls, gets all aggresive and hes real immature. I just wish he could get out of my life forever. Maybe not die but maybe just move away PLZ GOD... I already have much in my lifeto deal with so i cant deal with my brother anymore
Hes not my brother.. i wont call him my brother ever again. and yes i just wrote this after we had a fight but it doesnt change cuz he always makes me feel bad and i think its enough... and I cant do anything about it since my mom is so incompetent that she wont do anything about it just to talk to him
He goes egt drunk,get laid, play with girls feelings and do all this shit and I HAVE NO IDEA WHY... Just die Diego... go jump of a bulding, get ran over by a bus that goes to coloombia and never get in my way ever agaain..
ny the way hes 19 and im 15 years old... omg. i just hope it could stop already!
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im 19 and my brother is 17... i got to be honest when i say this... i think i would have been better off if he was never born. he is by far the most self centered, hypocritical, D-bag, pussy, communist, ceap, roid raged, asswipe ive EVER met. he thinks hes such a bad ass but in actuallity hes just a pussy. but he plays it off like nothing. and what really makes me hate him is this shit of my parents prefering him over me. they havent seen the real DAN yet. when i join the army and they are stuck with him... they will finaly realize how much of a shithead he really is. im not gona lie, if we lived in the 1800's or like a MAD MAX world... i would have killed him 3 years ago. i cant stand him and when i join up i never plan on speaking to him again. even when my parents are on there death beds and we are both going to be in the same room. i wont even acnoledge his presences. and its not like he pissed me off today and im saying this. ive hated him since i was in the 9th grade and that was 4 years ago. i legitamently hate my brother. shit, i have freinds that i concider more of a brother than my blood brother. really i hope he has fun dying byhimself when hes a old man... cuz with his shit attituded... there aint gona be no one holding his hand when his final hours arive. so is it normal to hate your brother... yeah if hes like mine it is.
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I am guessing you are in your teens? Perhaps I am wrong, just my guess. I too felt like you do about my brother. He was downright nasty, physically abusive toward me and got away with a lot of it being much larger than me physically and because my parents were incompetent in dealing with him and ignored much of it.

Looking back, I am glad I never did anything that would have been permanent to him as he moved on, married and raised a family of great kids. I admit I considered acting and was close to carrying it out, specifically what I prefer not to disclose.

So you ask is it normal? It is not unusual to have sibiling rivalries, but when it comes to sibling abuse, it is the role of the guardians, usually the parents, to step in and regain control, to put a stop to it. It does happen far too often.

Unfortunately, many parents/guardians are incompetent as role models and enforcing rules. Or, in other words, they do not protect the ones they should.

If your situation is intolerable, or becomes intolerable, I suggest you confide in a relative within the family and express what you did in this story. Sometimes parents/guardians do not take us seriously until we take action. Please don't use physical action against him at this time, as it is likely counterproductive to your own advancement and happiness. You would have to exhaust all other avenues before using force that could become permanent.

I do know and can relate to your story. I've been there, done that. I wish you well and hope things go smoother for you.
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clizza_mate
i feel the same way he is an arse i would kill him but i dont want to go to jail. he hurts me all the time and yet he lies and gets away with it! i want him to go to hell. hee does the sane thing but with the girlfriend part he dosent have one(cause he is 2 f***en ugly to get one) he has his mates that allways come round and he is mr.nice in front of them so he makes me look like the sico one cause when their there he trys to hug my but i wont hug that barsted.
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I FUCKING HATE MY IDOT BROTHER HE IS A GIT
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hey, i am the one who wrote this story i am 14 and he is 17.
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seriously... this sounds EXACTLY like me! I showed my friend this story and he seriously thought it was me who wrote the story. Even the ages are the same.
I hope this feeling is normal..
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I am in a similar situation I totally hate my brother; he is a dick he thinks he's all that. He is sooooo fucking annoying. We hardly have any connections and I am glad he is like not living with me no more. But on top of that, I actually don't have any strong ties with my sister either. I just want to like cut ties with my whole family. I wish I could just leave but I can't I feel like I am stranded and stuck in this world; I haven't been out to experience life because I have been so sheltered and now live with my "mommy and daddy" who are grandparents now. I need some freedom and I can't live with my annoying parents; it is soooooo irritating ugh.
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i guess how i know how most of you feel as i have 3 brothers 24, 21 and 19 im the only girl am the youngest :( all the time i was growing up i was been verbuly and physicly abused by all my brothers and because my mum never saw them do anything back i was the one to get the blame when i was 14 my brother (1 year older then me) broke my ribs for no reason what so ever im now 18 with a job and trying to get my new house but my brothers are always putting me down :( always saying i will never be anyone and i'll get knowere in life.
my eldest brother (24) is still liveing with my mum he hasa no job he's an alcoholic and is always beating me up my brother at 21 isnt so bad for the physical abuse he has a job still liveing with mum and my brother who's 19 again still liveing with mum an alcoholic, smokes canabit and take cokain and is always abusive toward me and has once beat my step dad up because he couldnt get his own way but i guess they learn from there parents my mum and step dad are also alcoholics :( witch leaves me to clean the house do the shopping walk the dog pay the bills ect im 18 now by the way :) my quiestion why am i nothing like my family?
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OMG I have exaacctly the same problem just like u.

My brother just uses everything I have, ( the stuffs that i bought with my own money). Onetime I slept over at my friends house then tommorow my ipod was broken. Then when i tell it to others they dont believe me, they believe my stupid Shi**TY brother. He even drink, smoke cigarette, and took my money (which was in my closet). He said he would kill me if i tell it to my parents.

WHen i tell the truth to my parents, brother just comes into the room and lies to them and pushes all of his troubles to me. So I end up being guilty.
He is just an asshole, my life is just sooooo terrible that i wish to commit suicide.
If god was real, then he would pop up in front of my parents and tell them the real truth. ....LIFE IS SO miserable. god damit.
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I had the same problem too. My fucking eldest brother always hit me when I was young. When I was playing the piano, he accused me of dirtying the floor. After tired of reasoning with him, I called him non-common sense and he pulled my ear until my ear ring drops and bleed. Told my mum when she returned and she laughed at it. From then on, He always hit me when I don't listen to him. I'm so crossed with my fucking mum for supporting his action. My mum has always sided him and protected him no matter how wrong he is. As the years grow, he became more and more hopeless and violence. He's jobless for years and always failed in his exam. But my mom always looked up to him and scorn me with bad words when she's upset, like fucking smelly vagina (I'm a girl), bad woman etc etc for 20 years.....and that time I was a medical student, yes I'm a straight A student and my brother is a failure in everything. AT one time when I was having turbulent times in my university, my eldest brother would never give me space and time to recover but instead always dragged me to his room and have discussion, almost 3 times a week and when things go wrong, he would hit me as usual.I still have the scars, physically and emotionally. Both he and my mom always tell lies. I got so scared with my brother and eventually I failed my exam. My mom and dad never tried to hep me financially, they gave him the money to get the car in cash and I didn't have nay opportunity to study. He sold the car and went for a trip and luxury meals with friends.
I got so crossed with my mom and brother nad dad that I yelled and throw things at home and we all fought physically. Everytime, I was the one who's physically hurt.

Then my fucking eldest brother and mum called the police and told so many lies. They did the conspiracy when my dad is not around, as he knows the truth. Ok, I didn't get into trouble at all, but I am so crossed they omited the true stories that my mum had been so verbally abusive and my fucking eldest brother was physical abusive to me these 20 years. At one time, I wished I could exchange my life with theirs so as to teach them a lesson of being a continuous liars and physical abusers.
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I used to be like that too.. sometimes I still feel that way! Anyways, when I was younger, I was too weak to fight my brother, but now I can sort of defend myself. I used to plan different ways to kill him (not even kidding), but now I just stay out of his way and accept the insults and whatever. Make him feel bad! btw, I'm 16 and he's 19.
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burgerfood
my brother used to be like that. like he would punch me and call me names. i really really hate him and i wanted him to die. then he turned gay as in liking boys and now hes really nice. he takes me shopping and stuff its really funny, cute and awsome.
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my brother is younger than me and i know i should be a good role model but i cant help that i legitimatly hate him. i feel like i torture him and make his life hell, but he does it right back to me. he'll do certain things that he KNOWS will piss me off, and not only that, but he'll like freak out when i try to tlak to him. I think personally he needs psychological help and im the only one that thinks so. my parents are in denial that my brothers messed up and needs help. i wish i had a great relationship with him, but i cant stand him. once i move out of my house, i wont be talking to him ever again. as sad as that sounds, i cant wait till teh day i dont have to see him ever again.
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blazegirl007 ... You're not alone on that ... my brother is exactly the same and he causes all sorts of problems in my life. I honestly think I'd be better off if he didn't exist. I'm glad to know I'm not alone with this. MY parents always take my brother's side, no matter what I say and he has been causing fights between my parents and I. I am counting down the days 'till I move out...
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Do some self defence classes and if he tried to hurt you again you will be able to defend yourself, what also baffels them is everytime he says something mean, smile, say thanks and keep busy as too disstarct yourself from getting wound up, he'll get freaked out! I hate my brother with a passion also. Good luck!
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wat is happening is he is angry with the world and when you do something he don't appreciate he unleashes all his rage on you since he dont have teh capacitay to unleash it on da world
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And just today, while I was here at home and was preparing for my work, my mom knew I need the sleep, but she went and had the usual argument with my fucking eldest brother for being jobless for so many years. My fucking eldest brother turned the topic to my personal matter and insult me with lies and my mom laughed out as usual. I couldn't bear the lies and went to have argument with him, he kept on lyning and lying and at last, I was so crossed I started call him fucking bastard. He hit and hit and hit and hit and hit me on my head and kicked me for some time. My mom pulled him away and blamed me. my eyes injured and I had to go to see a doctor to have the foreign body in my eyes removed. Again, I had to lye and said I fell off as I knew my mom would be supporting him and twist the story as usual. My dad came downstairs and my mom provoked him and said it's my fault.

I don't understand what is wrong with my evil mom and fucking eldest brother. My brother is already 37 and he is already at a stage where he's jobless, having bad personal work records for hitting his colleagues, having debts and requiring my family to pay for his new car loan,my mom cooked for him everyday, he just sleeps and watch tv, and when hings go wrong, he would start lying and hiting people. And my fucking mom is still supporting him and make him look good and make me look bad.

No one would ever guess one could ever graduate as a doctor in this kind of wrecked family and injustice.

The two of them should just go and die. Sometimes, I just wished my fucking bastard eldest brother would pay for his wrong doing. And I hope m evil stupid mom would realized her wrong doing too and changed. But a person never changed and I've noticed it for 31 years. He is living a hell life now.... but I want more and a slow torturing life as the years go by...... for his and my mom's punishment.

If I knew this is the life I'm going through, I would rather DIE. I hate them forever.

I felt like vomiting when I have to deal with them again. I wished I would DIE
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Well, you're a doctor now. Maybe you can afford a place of your own. That's the only way you will be free. Nobody can force you to stay with them. You are free.
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He sounds like a real fucking asshole tell him to smarten up or your going to kick his pussy ass while his girlfriend watches.
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lol dude you are so freakin right thats exacly how my bro acts like except he doesnt have a girlfriend
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I'm with the OP on this. I'm certainly not a teen, I'm 46, my so-called brother is 49 and I wish he was dead. And his fat bitch wife and his ugly fucking daughters. The world would be a better place without him in it or his fucking DNA. Luckily I'm not related by blood to this worthless piece of shit and I've had many years to pin him down for exactly what he is - fucking scum. Fat, greedy, cunt that he is.
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i know how you feel i hate my brother he is a piss artist (drunk ALL the time!!!) every time he comes home its the only thing he thinks about!
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my youngest brother is the worst person, to exist. he physically(i have burns and scars from him) and mentally abuses me. On several occasions he has tried to kill my dad. and when ever u call him up on it he just gets more angry and tells u more stuff about how bad i am. :@ :@
all my friends agree that hes the worst brother. even the ones with drugo's
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there are likeable people and there are detestable people, some are our family and some are somebody elses. i left home way before 18. i hated my mom for leaving my dad.
i was poor i was hungry i got persecuted.
but i had my freedom.i totally loved it.
i hate my brother for moving thousands of miles to find me. time and time again.
and now that i am home again.
i hate him madly. i also hate police for protecting the protected and abusing the rejected. and for wanting to place minors with their families. for assuming that there is a place for them. and there isn't
minors who hate their families for every valid reason. i also hate the law for asking so much money for driving fast and anything else that dont hurt anyone. now it turns people get hurt when they try to enforce speed limits where there isn't.
its not human. its terrorism.
laws like seat belts exist only as an excuse to terrorize. and steal money.
i never felt good to see the police.
and every time they look at me it costs money.
ok i am not sociable.
i have a lot of enphysema and i dont like to talk.
but why should i have to see them when i do no wrong.
and i hate sosiety for putting up with police.
and for calling them to destroy inocent lifes.
and i hate them for always supporting the one who calls them and destroying inocent lifes.
nobody can deny that.
USA totally guilty as charged.
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@: methree
I hate my oldest brother, I wish he was dead because he has done nothing but bully me all my life. I am someone with Learning Disabilities and I find it hard for myself at times. I have another brother and I get on very well with him. He is my favourite and always will be. If I'd die before my two brothers, I'd make sure that my middlest brother will get what he deserves in the will and my oldest brother will get nothing.

My oldest brother has hit me before and I am registered Handicapped. I just wish I had a magic wand and have him disappear.
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I had the same problem to. My eldest brother would always hit me and others and my middle brother wouldn't. My mother always supported my fucking bastard eldest brother that's why he became like that. The two of them would manipulate stories in the public to make me look bad and make him look good.

Sometimes, I wished if he was born with mental handicapped. At least I have a reason to tell the public that he's mentally insufficient, that's why he likes to physically abuse!!!!!!!
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i get how frustrating it can be...just tell him to get lost...take karate lessons so you can kick his ass!
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I didn't know so meny feel the way I do I'm 28 my brother is 30 an I hate him I wish he could move to a different country he use to pick on me as kids broke my fingers always telling me what to do still he puts me threw hell says mean things about me talks bad to my family an always puts me down I'm so sick of him hurting me my mom like favors him he's a asshole an nobody can see it he has Schizophrenia an he always uses that to defend him self on why he treats me so bad! It's to the point I cry evern my mo I tell her all the things he says an she only says you know your brother is sick an like WTF so that gives him the rite to be mean to me nobody cares an I'm to the point that i will not talk toy family or spend holidays with then because of him I tried to plan a holiday outing with my family he went behind my back an told everyone he has money an why can't we just eat in an an not go out that was the finale straw he new how much it ment to me but he did it out of spite an I hate him an wish he would go away I wish he was never born
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i hate my stupid ass cousin named Jerry He. he needs to go to hell. he thinks he's all that. his sisters hate him a lot also. he's always talking shit and acts like a woman. he just won't shut-up and always threatens to move out, like who the hell cares. he's not like most brothers. he doesn't even act like a civilized person.
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Ok, never mind, they want me to keep quiet to make them look good. I bear the resentment for till today. I don't understand how can GOD turn an innocent smart academic students who hardly verbally or physically abuse anyone to the police and let the guilty stupid fucking uneducated jobles man of many years and a stupid mother who has been verbally abusive for 20 years get away????? No doubt nothing happened but where is the justice? They tell lies but were not in anyway physically hurt but I am. My ear rings fall off, my ears where bleeding, my 2 teeth fall off and my mouth bleeds,I got so many bruises and minor cuts around, I got sever headache and permanent dizziness due to my fucking brother constantly hitting my head... He hit reallllly reallly hard each time and it lasted for at at least 10 minutes continuosly. I got so mad at them for the 20 years and everytime I see injustice going on me and if he hits me again and I saw my mum supporting him, I would slap my mom. Yes, I have been bearing the resentment for 20 years.

There is no justice. Never judge a book by its cover. My fucking eldest brother was a constant liar, physical abuser and he also likes to steal, from family and the public.

Ok...down the track and I went overseas for education and everything went well since I don't have to deal with fucking brother and liar mother. I'm a doctor now. He on the other hand had been jobless for a cummulative 6 years. He's 37 now, no job no qualification as he kept on failing his exam. Apparently, I heard that he lost his job because he hit his colleagues.
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I'm a Christian who's been taught that to hate your brother is unGodlike... but I can't help it; I hate my brother. He has made me hate him so much I feel it is killing me from the inside. I can't think, I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't be happy or normal when he bullies me. He is over 30 years old yet he acts like a child. My mother has always indulged him and my father has always criticised him and he takes it out on me. I've been criticised by both my father and mother. Nobody is on my side. Nobody believes me when I try to point out that my brother is psychologically abusing me. He is nice to all our friends, even my own best friends like him, even more than me, because he can be charming when he wants to. But at home he turns into a monster. There is no escaping him when he gets into one of his moods, you just have to sit there and take his abuse, otherwise he will just hunt you until you acknowledge him and he has one goal in mind and that is to break you. He delights in breaking me down all the time because he's jealous. He's fat and lazy and selfish and ugly and he takes it out on those he sees as being smarter than him. He never has smarter friends than himself. All his friends are worse off than him because he doesn't like to feel inferior. I hope I can save some money and buy a house of my own and move out and finally get away from him. If I have my own house he won't be allowed past the door. I will get a restraining order against him if I have to. He is not my brother in spirit. He doesn't care if I'm happy. I will not let him into my life unless he changes and accepts the wrong he has done me and my parents and apologises and really SERIOUSLY changes, for good. I hope God will help me in this. I have no time for snakes in my life, I want real siblings who will support me and not envy me. Life is too short and precious.
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same here. i hate my brother too. everyday i wish he will get run over by a car. at night i with his house will be on fire. when he goes on trip i wish his plane will crush. i would be happy if he dies this very moment.
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I hate my brother he always makes fun of me, takes everything i love and smashes it and he gets away with it scott free. This happend a few weeks ago my asshole brother wanted a game for my playstaion 3 (which i never get to play) and i was with my dad when we were getting it (BTW he treats my family like shit) and he asked for the game and he gets its for free he dosent have to work it off or pay him back he just gets it. imagen this every second of every day of every week of every month of every year for the past 5 years you get made fun of taunted and hurt. he will never be anything more than shit looking like a human.
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I hate my younger brother too. Even though I'm 7 years older, he doesnt respect n he hits me. And the worst thing is my parents behave like nothing happened. He hits me n then my mom cooks for him, my dad takes him out playing bowling while I'm crying in my room alone. And in the end they say "you dont behave mature!" I mean..come on being mature is turning my face to him when he hits me or not replying him or smiling at him like nothing happened? Sorry but I can't be that much patient I am not a prophet ok? I wish he has an accident and dies....
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This is amazing! Not that everyone hates their brothers, but that I'm not the only one. I can't stand my wanker of a brother...the bastard has bullied me physically and mentally my entire life and I hate him with every part of me. I'm 23 and he's 27 and he's a loser bum who leeches off my mum and I'm nothing like him, hes been jobless for years and never does anything for himself. I live with him and constantly cleaning up after him as my mum has spoilt him disgustingly the bastard cannot do anything for himself at 27! My mum has left the house to live with her bf and I'm stuck with him and it's even worse now. My mother has supported him throughout anything and she has never set him straight about the way he has treated me, she's tiptoed on eggshells around the prick as if he's god. She has turned a blind eye for years whilst he's beat me up and called me names like'fat' and 'ugly' and I've lost alot of confidence. But now I realise he's a loser that knows hes such a waster and he does this shit to me to feel better about himself. What a knob-end. I just ignore him now, my mum has left us together in the house and I am currently looking for a job as I just graduated and when I get a job I am out of here in a second and never want to see the prick again. I wish he would leave the country and never return.

So my advice is, ignore him, pretend he's dead and don't let is words get to you. Forgive ur parents for letting you down and not doing whats right because at least it teaches you never to stand for this behaviour when you have kids. And most inportantly, the first chance you get- get as far away from him as you can.
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I don't know what you mean by your brother is mean. Do you mean he abuses you, or just doesn't share his mac and cheese? Mean is a relative term and so is saying, "He hurts me." No one knows what you mean and it could mean anything. It's not normal to make broad sweeping statements about abuse, unless you explain yourself.

If by hurting you, you mean he leaves marks on you, or torments you psychologically, then that's a threshold he's crossing that may be considered abuse. If you're talking about just something silly, like he takes more pudding than you, then relax, it will be over soon enough. If, however, you think he passes the threshold for abuse, then you need to seek help and don't worry about the normalcy of your feelings.

Step one, talk to your brother. See if you can reason with him. Tell him what the boundaries you need him to respect. Pick a safe word to communicate to him when he's over the threshold, and tell him you want him to stop when you use the safe word. If you can reason with him, then you solved the problem.

Step two: if he is not reasonable and he is mentally or physically abusive, then make an appointment with your parents for a sit-down meeting. Describe the situation. Tell them what you've done to work things out with your brother. Try not to get emotional.

If your parents are not persuaded immediately, don't expect or demand that everyone to be on your side. It's a normal part of negotiation for people to express opposite sides. What you're telling them might be hard to hear. Expect some resistance. But just calmly tell them what's going on. Repeat as clearly as you can exactly what you want to happen as an outcome. (Wanting your brother to get hit by a bus is probably not going to be a good outcome to ask your parents for, but asking for private space, or time out with your mom and dad once a week/month to discuss your concerns (or go bowling) would probably be reasonable requests.)

Step three: If that doesn't work, then talk to a counselor at school. Explain all sides of the situation to your counselor and each step that you've taken and the results of each step. Remain calm. DO NOT mention buses, killing, death or any words like this with your counselor. Present yourself as a rational, calm, and concerned person. Show concern for your brother in the things you say. It will make you sound more objective.

Step four is to get the police, social services, and child protective services involved. Don't do this unless you really feel unsafe at home.

Good luck. I hope it's just the pudding sharing problem, and not the abuse problem.
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why are you so obsessed with food??
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Hey look next time you older brother picks on u in front of his girlfriend u punch him in his nuts an then sock him in the nose and make sure he knows your no punk. and if he keeps going tell him his girlfriends a fat hoe an u saw her at the mall suckin some bum up in the back dont ever back down to this guy and get big friends....
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i think that it is normal to hate your brother i have herd of brothers that are 40 and when there mother died they would not even sit next to each other at the funeral which is quite hectic but i think you should not have to like each other just because you related what differrens does it really mack if you related or not
ps i find it helps to eMeagan large objects landing on his head
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I HATE MY BROTHER.

He always comes home very late ...and with his loud, disrespectful friends. They don't care about us who are already sleeping and the worse thing is that they even watch adult movies in high volume. It really pisses me off and I even confronted him, only realizing that he's drunk and not in right mind. He doesn't even have a job and he spends my parents' money for cigarettes and booze. i wish he would just disappear. Right now, I can't go back to sleep after being disturbed by their loud voices. I hate him so much.
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I hate my fuckin annoying brother.He's a dick head. I'm a nice person but my brother pisses me off all the time. He follows me eveywhere even when i take a shower.He is 6 years old and barely starting school.I have an oldder sister that is fuckin mean and everything.My stupid ass brother makes me in trouble by lying.He's driving me insane.He shouts,lie,humps.He's even gay.My fatass brother copies me all the dam time.My brother sucks balls at everything.He asks me to do it for him.I am fuckin tired of it.I wish that he was dead.
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The caps make you sound mature, really they do.
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i have same story expt of my brother is 20 and has no job so hes home ALWAYS! makes fun of me , criticises what i do!!i hate him so much!! >.<
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I hate my brother too. I literally wish he would just die. He's a year yonger than me and living with him is hell. He's a compulsive liar. Steals my, my 4 year old sister, and my mom's underwear. Says the most preverted things. Has absolutely no conscience. Tortures my cats and my neighbor's cat "because it's fun." Treats our adoptive parents like shit even though they took him in and adopted him when no one else wanted him. Destroys everything that anyone else gets so they can't have it. I'm just glad to say that I'm not biologically related to him. Heck, I don't even claim him as my adopted brother. He's nothing to me and that's how it will always be.
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i soooooo hate my bro all he eva does is make my life hell. if i do something he trys to do it better. her calles me fat all the time and tells everyone all my secrets. i got so sick of him beating me up that i pushed him over the flower pots and landed on his back i had realy hert him but now he makes my life even moor like hell. feel like running away. dont want him 2 die or anything but dont want to see him ever again.
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ha i hate my brother too... i would be happy if he gets hit driving by a drunkard and ends up retarded also if he got captured by those al quid-a terrorists and gets tortured to death =)
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my brother isthe same freaking way.i mean seriously he is a complete ass and hes all nice around my dad but as soon s he leaves he goes bck to he SOB he really is! help what do i do
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Its completely normal.. hell if it wasn't i'd need help..
my brother is 18 and im 21. all my life he's got away with every little thing. i have to do so many chores; make tea, wash up, tidy up, hoover etc.. AND im responsible for feeding and walking HIS dog.. he's never had to lift a finger in his life. He's always a git to me, calling me names, swearing at me, shouting at me for being in his room (its an awkward shape so i always knock, wait for him to say come in and stay as close to the door as possible; one time i went in with a takeaway i bought him for him and his friend, and he told me to leave the food and get the 'f' outta his room..) my parents say they dont have a favorite but this is far from the truth. they ALWAYS take his side! no matter what the argument in our house, or who it's between, it always comes back to me.. even if ive not been at home! today was the straw that broke the camels back for me. my bro lost a ten pound note. he swore blind he put it in his wallet. i got all the blame (even though i'd been sat in the front room with my parents the entire time) a massive argument followed and none of them believed me when i said i didnt take it. i came to my room, slammed the door and refused to speak to them.. 2 mins later, my dad comes in to tell me he found it on my brothers floor under his clothes he'd just changed out of.. the kicker.. they STILL think i took it!!! so yeah.. after that rant. its completely normal to hate your brother, because hell.. i hate my whole family.
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I feel your pain. I don't have each and every vendetta assigned to its own place on the shelf complete with dust cover, instead...I have said "whatever, let's move on". What they do I cannot change, ever. Sure they make me angry as hell but I have to be responsible for my own actions and thoughts because any negative feeling will only hurt me. More than likely they will aggrevate others outside the family circle - maybe one day someone else will throw the golden punches for you (you can live in hope). I try limit my time with them, I am a big girl now (30) so can do what I want and bask happily in my own space. They can waste their energy playing games, poor, insecure people. Must mean they are jealous and cannot control those feelings. Shame isn't it? BUT there are nice people out there, no perfect people :) I'm afraid, but definitely people nicer than "toxic family members". Sounds harsh and unsympathetic but only you can choose to not react to them. Only you can step away from the games and say I don't want to participate in this. Now let's all be happy and think about better things like cheesecake :)
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I also hate my fucking drug addict brother. This fucker is fuqqed-up on pain pills 24/7. He is a self-righteous asshole who complains about everyone but in reality it is him that is the real problem...he can't get along with anyone. Yes, in today's world I believe that fucked-up relatives...be it brother, sister, cousins or whoever must be accountable for their shitty behavior and it is OK to hate their mother fucking guts if their actions warrant it.
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i thank you shood see a psychiatrist
like SargentSeijiReed find his file and
see wate has to say
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