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I hate myself. - 47% Normal

I hate myself. I was not like this before and I don't know how to go back. I use to have morals and boundaries, now I don't care enough to have them. I got married to young, dropped out of school, won't get a job, and sit on my ass wasting away. I want to better myself, but I just hate myself so much I don't see the point of even trying. I honestly think I'm a sad excuse for a human being and wish I would drop dead. How do I get out of this state?
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4gettit (20359)
2009-03-08 06:13:34
you sound depressed. find a doctor
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latinbonita (6484)
2009-03-09 23:49:05
yeah i would do the doctor thing. But maybe it would help if you gave yourself a reason to live. Set a goal for yourself. There are so many people who wish they had half as much as you do , do something about your pathetic state. ( i mean it in a nice way )
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rose_japan (21063)
2009-03-18 11:07:32
You are not alone, I'm the same, it just that you have to find yourself, do things you life to do, try to obtain new interest, dicover the world has many beautiful stuff
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plugy (22776)
2009-05-07 23:20:10
do what i don't (which is post my problems on these computer sites)and try to fix the source of the problem.
okay so you seem depressed.
symptoms are natures warnings. contrary to popular believe depression is a symptom, not the disease.
i suggest looking inside for answers.
I am not married and i tell you i feel lonely at times. you would too if you weren't married.
I think life has pros and cons, its your choice which things you focus on and how you use your time.
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AnitLove22 (22791)
2009-05-08 10:31:07
Well the first step is recognising it so welldone no you start by seeing what your good at and dont say im no good everyone is good at somethin when you have found that try and get a job realated to it go into studies for it meet people who are also interested i what you laike and take it from there !!!!!!!!!
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samadams (23601)
2009-05-29 08:12:54
I've been down that road. It seems like I go in and out of phases. Find something, ANYTHING, in life that you care about and better yourself for that cause. OR think about how much better life could be if certain aspects changed. Anything good in life is worth fighting for
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PureKorean (23974)
2009-06-09 14:19:02
This kinda sounds like the movie 'The Boxer' He wants to make a better life of himself...because he's an ex-con...so he goes for help from his family FIRST, and since that didnt work... he went to go find a job, but later becomes a boxer to make a life of himself :D

seek help
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russellnb (23816)
2009-07-28 11:08:11
You need to find God. He cares about you and wants you to do better for yourself.
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manimal (26052)
2009-08-01 04:44:21
I would say just think of what would make your life happy, a dream or goal, and imagine yourself in that happy state. Then put the wheels in motion to make it come true.
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