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I hate penises!
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I'm not gonna hang myself or rape little kids or anything.
Im just, a little traumatized is all...

My only sexual encounter was with him,
And I will be thirty in four months.

I've had plenty of opportunities for sex.

But I haven't done it, because I am afraid of penis.

I've seen them in the flesh before. When I do, I get really nauseous.
I have watched porn movies to try to get over my fear of penis,
Which has only made it worse!
Ewww!

One time I tried to have sex. When I was nineteen, with my boyfriend. I closed my eyes, I couldn't bare to see it.
But when it touched me, I broke down into tears. I cried for days. Whenever I saw him, I started to cry.

So obviously I've never been in any successful relationships.
I've had three since my boyfriend when I was nineteen, two of them cheated on me.
They couldn't handle more than one vagina-less month.

And before you say "So why don't you just go lesbian?"

Gross… other women's vaginas disgust me, too, nearly as much as PENIS!

I am attracted to men, but,
I HATE PENISES!


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Penises are very ugly.
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Penises are just about the ugliest things ever... but you shouldn't be afraid of them. You should probably look into therapy.
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Castiel93
@: Kat444
Dont hate the dick
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Beware of the evil penis
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NinjainmyCereal
lol
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Awesome.
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i agree with you i have a massive fear of penises. its much worse than your fear though cos im a guy so i see it everyday, going to the toilet is a daily nightmare, so sometimes i wet myself just to avoid looking at it and i dont take them off for hours cos i know ill have to see my penis. you should feel lucky youve only got an icky vagina
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Umm... Its one thing to be uncomfortable about ones body, but quite another thing to literally fear any portion of your body. I honestly think you need to get help. I don't mean that in a cruel way, I'm just trying to help out. You need help.
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I DONT NEED ANYONES HELP
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Seeing as how your fear of penises would indicate that you are heterosexual, that 'icky vagina' is something you will spend the rest of your life trying to get close enough to to touch.

Men come out of a vagina when they're born, and spend the rest of their lives trying to get back in one.
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Theres no place like home.
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---lol? ironic a guy is scared of his only pride. theres a syndrome for that isnt there? or was it some sort of phobia...anyway...masterbait...it works and its part of your body anyway...why are you scared of it >.>...its not like its gonna come alive and start nibbling on you or something.
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LMFAO!!!!
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don't blame you-horrible looking things. I have to accept my boyfriend's despite thinking he'd be peferct if only he chopped it off
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Not normal, but lets face it penises are pretty damn ugly.

Im a guy, I like porn, (though I do try to stop watching it with mixed success), and when I see a girl giving blow jobs I always just think "how the hell can u do that?"
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If you dont like either sexes genetals then you dont like sex and are an a-sexual just like me. A-sexuals are people who simply dont enjoy sex with other people its perfectly normal dont worry about it and find a person you can be with that is the same or doesnt mind a sexless relationship.
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What about vibrators? Can u/have u used them?

I feel so sorry that you are so traumatised by them, its really horrible cause its preventing you from enjoying that aspect of your life.
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1. masturbating is the best way to become more in touch with your own sexuality.

2. you need to get to the bottom of why penises are so distressing to you. maybe you were molested as a child? maybe you associate penises with something (power, being tied down by marriage, having babies, etc) that freaks you out? You need to do some soul searching/see a counselor and get to the bottom of what's going on. I am very confident that you can and that you will eventually not be so disturbed by penises. Hang in there girl!

Also...if you never do end up being ok about penises...NOTHING wrong with a penis free life, I'm sure a girl out there could make you happy!
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Get a dildo and practice your reaction to a real penis, I was afraid too. When I first saw my boyfriends penis, I screamed, but I got over it
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listen to me, if a man really TRULY loves you.. he's going to be with you for company, and love. not for sex. he's going to understand your fear and accept it. not cheat or dump you. don't worry about it, penises gross me out too. just take life as it comes, and try to stay happy :] xox, awesomechick
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I have had a fase like this, but it turned out that it's a lot less scary when you have the guy wash it first. Then you don't have to feel dirty or anything. It'll help you get over. And it is very normal to ask a guy to wash before you touch.

Good luck!
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hahaha I could never get the nerve to ask a guy to wash before ... even though they should. I dont think they realize how disgusting it is when your trying to do stuff down there and it smells really bad. lol!
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I think I read about this once. It's called Ithyphallophobia and maybe it's rare but you're not alone.
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Have you tried dildos?
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One thing you didn't mention was whether you have a sex drive or not. Most people will say it's not normal to lack a sex drive because people are stupid, narrow-minded, and animalistic. But for some people it's completely normal. Research "asexual" and "demisexual."
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I'm terrified of them too!!!
Their so fucking nasty>_<
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*is masturbating* lolwut?
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Flunken
I hate My penis so much that i have sex vith an vacuumcleaner ...
So it sucks My cum and i dont have To take ceare
Of the mess...
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You need to find out why you are scared of penises, as it may be due to an incedent you went through. I wouldn't say I'm scared of them but they disgust me, I can't look at one or stroke one without feeling slightly sick or weird.

Take one step at a time
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Find a boyfriend, and talk to him about it. Then just sort of, do it a little bit at a time, step by step sort of... I hope this helps.
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According to your username
I Am Pretty Fucking Epic.
Once online someone said they almost choked on popcorn, and
I Laughed the entire match XD.

(Its a sexual joke).
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I wouldnt say i was scared of them. They aree kindaa uglyy thoo. Thiss might bee your prob too?
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Gems
"Phallophobia" is the name given to the fear of a penis particularly an erect penis. This phobia can develop in both males and females. The fear may have developed during childhood if the person was raped, if they were raised in an environment that taught that sex is somehow wrong and even sexual thoughts are a form of sin. A person may be embarrassed about an erection and want to get away from it. When early anxiety attaches to a person’s unconscious a phobia can develop. A person with this phobia may avoid social situations which can interfere with healthy relationships. The phobia may continue long after the person is away from the original cause.

The Phallophobia can trigger when the person sees, thinks about or has an erect penis. The anxiety symptoms triggered can include nausea, vomiting, dizziness, shaking, shortness of breath, heart palpitations and panic attacks. Sometimes the person has symptoms severe enough to need medical treatment. The person will maintain phobic responses even if they are aware that the fear is basically unrealistic unless they are able to make a commitment to change.

It should be known that Phalloophobia is an anxiety disorder that can respond to a variety of treatments depending on what will seem to meet the patient’s needs. This phobia can be treated in a clinic which deals with anxiety disorders, by psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy and hypnotherapy. There are even short term online programs for treatment of Phallophobia. During treatment, a person will learn to understand the fear, and develop coping methods to deal with and perhaps eradicate the anxiety related to the fear of an erect penis.
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Ask to be abducted by aliens. They put things in your bum but their not penis'. So you get the pleasure, without the fear. Yumm
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I wonder if you somehow had a son, would you hate his penis? Pretty strong words for something that is natural and healthy. You have some serious issues. IT's not the penis, it's you.
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Seeing a penis in the flesh....hehe, that made me chuckle
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I was afraid of having sex too until I masturbated. You could try doing that.
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you hate penises. and now, you're telling us this in the hope that ONE of us will know how to slip through your well established neurotic defenses and convince you to take that first step and see a therapist. But the first step isn't the hardest. The hardest step is THE SECOND STEP.

But you have to take the first step to get there. Me, I don't think you were molested. At least not physically. I think this is an attitude thing that PROBABLY came from your mother. Let me ask you something. Do you have a phobia against spiders?
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dontcarewhatyouthink
IMSA PENIS IMA GONNA GETCHA!!!
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I used to be afraid of the penis too... I was like "stick it in but don't let me see it" lol. But, I mean - porno penises are intimidating and very above average! You just need to take it one encounter at a time - express how you feel. If the guy is into you he will take it slow as well. And they come in all different shapes and sizes - I finally got COMPLETELY over my fear of penises when I got to meet the perfect one haha. It's like meant for me. Anyway, you'll get over it.
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And, poster, obviously something traumatic occurred in that one sexual experience you had. Possibly try seeking therapy, or an outlet of some sort...

You may just have pent up emotions, or something deeper, that you haven't truly overcome.

You might just look into trying to pinpoint the cause... And working through it, once you have.
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I'm terrified of them!
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You're getting a lot of misinformed responses, so I want to stress once again that sex is not nearly as important as people make it out to be. At least not for everyone. Most people are just so sex-obsessed that they can't fathom anyone else not being the same.

Do you crave sex physically, but can't bring yourself to follow through? Or do you feel pressure only because you think you're supposed to have sex? It's very important to make a distinction between the two. If it's the former, you might need to see a therapist; if it's the latter, you need to stop trying to force something that you don't want. It's perfectly normal to remain a virgin if that feels natural to you.

But honestly, it sounds like the guys you dated in the past weren't worth having sex with, and I'm glad you didn't follow through. I wouldn't even think about sex until I found someone worth giving myself to intimately. Someone who would value you for you, not as a sexual commodity.

Maybe what you really want is a loving relationship, and you mistakenly believe that sex is a necessary part of that (which most people do). Maybe you even equate sex with love, which it is not. Again, research "demisexual." It could explain why you're attracted to men romantically but might not have much of a sex drive. People who are demisexual fall in love the opposite way of most people. They have to have a strong enough emotional bond first, before they're capable of lusting after that person.
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I hate them too! Maybe your an asexual! Just because society tells you to have sex and you don't want to doesn't make you a freak! I don't see why you care if its normal, just be who you are and don't force yourself to live by "civilizations" standards!
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Nataliaaaaaaa
Im a girl i love pussy, try it, its hot ;)
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fab4ever2.
Me toooooooooo! they both creep me out!
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Im not going to lie, when I was like 15 ( im 20 now) I used to think they looked sooo gross. I couldnt believe people would put them in their mouths or anything ... and I would worry that I would have to become a lesbian because I wouldnt want penis. lol.

But now that I have had some time a lone with a penis lol.. they are not that bad. I LOVE THEM! lol..
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Mabey your a lesbian? Or just you havent found the right penis yet.
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i simply can't imagine why any woman would hate a penis! My God, I love them. I love the way they look, feel, taste, just everything about them. And I certainly never realised that there were that many women out there with issues about penis's either. Jesus, what are mothers teaching their daughters these days? Are we still living in the frikking middle ages? Girl, get help, you are the problem, not the penis. I'm sad that you have this issue about something so natural.
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I know a certain someone who won't get her genepool perpetuated...
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And.....? Is it that important to perpetuate your genepool? If you think that's all life is about, I feel sorry for you. Because that's only a base instinct, and no one has to give into it if they choose not to.
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I can help you with this problem call 1-800-johnson. Trust me.
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No its not normal.I think you have great problem and simple people cant help you.See the doctor please its not normal
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Just put it in your mouth,swallow and get used to it like that
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Mel
Not normal at all, sounds like an irrational fear/phobia. I think counseling & going to see your doctor is a MUST. Otherwise no guy is going to deal with that, unfortunite for you.
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Seriosly - why have you not approached your doctor about this yet?!
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go see a shrink.
a penis is best served hot. in a womans mouth. or ass.
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Become horny
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I love penises. My husband's penis turns me on more than anything. I'm not sure if maybe it's something in your past that's specifically traumatized you or what, but like some others have said, try using dildos. They don't have to actually look like a penis, dildos are manufactured in all kids of fashions nowadays, believe me. And then, if/when you feel comfortable with it, you could progress to one that looks more like an actual penis, and then a little more, and then a little more, and so on and so forth.

Honestly sex is just a part of your relationship with your partner. I don't care what anyone says, sex is necessary and it's a beautiful thing. And so are penises. Embrace the penis and you will discover the happiness in brings!

Best of luck to you.
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@: wtfbaby
"Honestly sex is just a part of your relationship with your partner. I don't care what anyone says, sex is necessary and it's a beautiful thing."

False. Just because it's that way for you doesn't mean it's that way for everyone. For all you know she's asexual, and the only reason she has issues is that society (people with your attitude) tell her she's supposed to want sex and to like penises.
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Um.... that is kinda wierd. Go see a doctor if you wanna have any good relationships.
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You don't need a man to have "good relationships"!
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Penises are beautiful.
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some are ugly...but they are scream masculinity...and if you don't find that attractive you might be asexual. or whatever...i am a horrible person to be commenting on this topic because i love penis.
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I would love to have one stuck in me
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