When kids dont behave they really piss me off. I understand once in a while that kids cry and that they dont understand everything in an adult world but some kids are so awful. They dont listen and they are horrible to and disrespectful. I actually hate them sometimes and then I feel bad because i know they are children so then i hate their parents b/c i blame them. I have a brother and a sister each with 2 kids who are great, when they act up now and then it doesnt bother me much at all...I have another sister with another 2 and I cant stand her or her kids. They dont listen, they dont care, they are annoying and she seems to make it all worse. I swear I get like this deep anger it makes me want to scream. Its not just her, I see brat kids at the park or their day care that just wont listen and I get so agitated. No I dont have any kids and I know people will say "when you do you will understand" but if my kids act like that I swear I feel like I would deserve to have people hate me and not want to be around me. Im not counting babies or teens. Im talking bad kids 5-12. Ugh. Maybe I'm mean...but I like kids JUST NOT BAD ONES!
some kids are worse than devils !
I certainly do not advocate beatings, that is harmful. But a swat never turned anyone into psychopaths.
I was spanked, I'm not depressed or killing anyone. It taught me some valuable lessons. Not that a consequence meant to be hurt, instead that what I did was wrong and I shouldn't do it again.
Maybe you have had an overdose of kids. Maybe when your sisters visit they are looking for a break so the kids act up. Maybe you need "time out" from them so you aren't pushed past your limits.