When it comes to people needing a shoulder to cry on, or they need comforting, I'm just not good at it. I hate when people cry in front of me because I have no idea what to say or do to help them.
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OP-I don't think people in need of compassion seek out those who are incapable of giving it for comfort. But if you can't share this with a partner, you have some serious issues. And how often do people just come up and start crying all over you? Maybe you are better at it then you think. You must hide your discomfort well if they continue to do this.