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I have small boobs and my boyfriend likes big.

Why is he with me then? I mean, before we even got to know each other, he saw me and he could clearly see that I had small boobs (I don't wear padded bras or any false advertising). Years passed until he let it slip that he likes bog breasts better. I asked him (stupid me) if he'd like mine better if they were bigger and he said yes. And his celebrity crushes include Monica Bellucci and Katy Perry.

I feel so self conscious and sometimes I feel like not having sex with him, but i know that would be counterproductive. I hate my breasts now, they're too small and I keep looking at other girls breasts, and if they're bigger then I get really envious, especially if said girls are more petite than me. I hate my body, I'm not hot like the girls my boyfriend like, because I have wide hips (even though I'm not fat, it's just the bones are wide) and I have't got much up top. Plus reading posts here I've realized that guys like big breasts better, they just "accept" small ones. They don't like small ones.

I hate how I look, but I'd never get surgery because I don't have that kind of money and I've never had any kind of surgery and it scares me a lot.

Is it normal to feel like this? Honestly, guys, when you have a small chested girlfriend and you prefer big boobs, what do you HONESTLY think about hers? Do you wish hers were bigger? Do you fantasize about other girls during sex? Do you wish you could be with bustier girls you see around?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (12)
honey you sound just like my wife. be proud of who you are because your man should love you for what is inside not what is outside. no matter how samll the boobs he should love you, if he dont dump him. i never seen you and i love you already
The bigger deal you make about it, the less attractive he will find you. Have some confidence. If you honestly think your boyfriend is only with you for tits, then you shouldn't have a boyfriend at this point.
I agree with Jen of course... there is alot more to a relationship than comparing your partner to the figures of starlets. Guys like me are not too particular about boobs. I'm more of an "ass" man.
I like boobs lightyears more than I like an ass but your still fine.
Don't worry, Most guys hate fake boobs because they look so ugly and weird. and boobs aren't everything, I mean if the only thing that kept my relationship together was boobs, that would be a pretty lousy relationship I would think.
My girlfriends boobs are just an average size I guess not big anyway, but I never look at girls with big boobs and wish I could be with them, they're just strangers I don't know them...but I don know my girlfriend and I do love her.
This is coming from a 15 year old guy. A lot of guys like big breasts because they think they are all macho and they always say stuff like "I like em big". You really should not be afraid to have sex because you say you have wide hips and thats means you ass is probably pretty nice.

If you are good at sex and can please a man it really does not matter what size your boobs are. Don't be jealous about how other girls boobs look because they are definitely not everything a guy looks for in a girl. Keep your head up and stay strong.
I to suffer this fate, but believe me, get a guy who is WORTH something and he will love you for YOU, not the size of your breasts!

Took me awhile to reach the point I could say that...

Small bust = Big Heart!

October - IIN Diva
I'm in your shoes. My boyfriend said the same thing. When I was pregnant he just adored my tata's and now... they are back to tiny barely B cup size and I know he loves me for who I am but he always makes comments about girls who have nice boobies and it makes me sad. BUT I KNOW HE LOVES ME.. and could care less about my rack.
size of breasts dont affect who i like. if they can keep a conversation going, kind, and fun to hang around, those are the qualities i look for (i'm 21, i'm not sure what younger people think etc etc)
Small boobs are hot. Natural is best.
I like small boobs
a wise man once said that everyone looks good naked

probably applies for you

if it's any consolation implants often look terrible, best not to risk it