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I have small boobs and my boyfriend likes big.
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Why is he with me then? I mean, before we even got to know each other, he saw me and he could clearly see that I had small boobs (I don't wear padded bras or any false advertising). Years passed until he let it slip that he likes bog breasts better. I asked him (stupid me) if he'd like mine better if they were bigger and he said yes. And his celebrity crushes include Monica Bellucci and Katy Perry.

I feel so self conscious and sometimes I feel like not having sex with him, but i know that would be counterproductive. I hate my breasts now, they're too small and I keep looking at other girls breasts, and if they're bigger then I get really envious, especially if said girls are more petite than me. I hate my body, I'm not hot like the girls my boyfriend like, because I have wide hips (even though I'm not fat, it's just the bones are wide) and I have't got much up top. Plus reading posts here I've realized that guys like big breasts better, they just "accept" small ones. They don't like small ones.

I hate how I look, but I'd never get surgery because I don't have that kind of money and I've never had any kind of surgery and it scares me a lot.

Is it normal to feel like this? Honestly, guys, when you have a small chested girlfriend and you prefer big boobs, what do you HONESTLY think about hers? Do you wish hers were bigger? Do you fantasize about other girls during sex? Do you wish you could be with bustier girls you see around?
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I really feel terrible about this but I have to get it off my chest.. excuse the pun..

I have been with my girlfriend 18 years and have 2 kids.....
I have always loved her unconditionally..

She has always had issues about her incredibly flat aaa chest....
Just over a year ago she had implants.. nothing big probably like a decent a or something... I dont really know as I'm not experienced in these matters..

The trouble is I hate the fakes... they dont feel right... sort of like plastic bag feeling under the skin... when we hug I feel like there are tennis balls between us... i no longer feel her heart beat... At first I thought i would get used to them in time but now I find my self not fancying her so much.. I now realise I actually like small chested women..

It seems to me like she cared more about what everybody else thought and not me...... What about us blokes that actually like small breasted babes..... its bloody stupid... ridiculous...

Before long all small breast babes will have stupid fakes and be with some shallow chap that doesn't actually give a monkeys....

Sorry but thats how I feel.
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@: craigio
Omg please marry me!! Lol
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Maybe I should... Xxx

Thanks
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if you like your boobs (esp if you liked them before your bf fucked with your head) don't get a surgery. big boobs are gross anyway and if you never had an interest don't get them just because your bf. there's *plenty* of guys that like small tits. don't do something so severe for a guy, he sounds kinda like a douche for telling you that in the first place.

who tells their significant other that they don't like something about them and they should change it? that's fucking prickish.
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This is coming from a 15 year old guy. A lot of guys like big breasts because they think they are all macho and they always say stuff like "I like em big". You really should not be afraid to have sex because you say you have wide hips and thats means you ass is probably pretty nice.

If you are good at sex and can please a man it really does not matter what size your boobs are. Don't be jealous about how other girls boobs look because they are definitely not everything a guy looks for in a girl. Keep your head up and stay strong.
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darkmagic
this made me feel like shit just thinking about how sad you must feel.its ok i like big boobs myself and before you think that im gonna be an asshole hear me out you sound like a nice girl if i knew you i wouldnt mind dating you you know what screw the boob size you sound like a cute and sweet girl :)
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Ms_October
I to suffer this fate, but believe me, get a guy who is WORTH something and he will love you for YOU, not the size of your breasts!

Took me awhile to reach the point I could say that...

Small bust = Big Heart!

October - IIN Diva
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I'm 22 and i haven't watched tv in about 2 years. Now I can't even stand it. Feels like their trying to tell me what to think. But thats why i can proudly say I'm not influenced by medias, i use to think fake boobs were nice when I was a teenager. But now having experienced the real thing... Sry for all who got surgeries but dang it looks ridiculous and soooo horrily fake. I LOVE real naturals. And with experience I realised that when i fall in love with a woman i actualy start to get adicted to her body. My girl has C, big hips and i LOVE her body. I think of it all the time. But medias got guys to think like they show them to... Just to say that men actualy truely prefer the REAL DEAL. An all perfect 36/24/36 blond actualy looks prety unapealing to me... I prefer girls who look real >.>
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The whole reason I found this post is because I'm going through the same thing. Everyone's comments are really sweet and very supportive but I know exactly how it feels to read these and say "easier said than done". It sucks to have the person you love desire something (no matter how petty) other than the way you are. I hate how it feels and I've found that if you focus on the positive side of having smaller boobs (like how they won't sag and how they don't get in the way, they don't cause back pains, you can wear backless shirts without bras) then it helps ease the pain of such insecurities even just a little.
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You should dump him. seriously if he doesnt love you for who you are than get rid of him. no sense in wasting time with someone that makes you feel that way.
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Have you eliminated the possibility of personality? The world isn't THAT shallow... yet...
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Kgbstar21
thats crap my girlfriend has small boobs and i like em (: they are cute just like her (: idk why guys would hate that
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anotheruser1
honey you sound just like my wife. be proud of who you are because your man should love you for what is inside not what is outside. no matter how samll the boobs he should love you, if he dont dump him. i never seen you and i love you already
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Aleks85
Keep your small boobs, get a man who appreciates them. To me, fake tits are a turn off. I'm not very picky when it comes to boobies.
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Screw him dude theres someone out there that is dying for a girl like you they wouldnt change a hair onyour body because the would think your perfect from the get go and if he doesnt think that of you then you could probably do insanely better.
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Don't worry, Most guys hate fake boobs because they look so ugly and weird. and boobs aren't everything, I mean if the only thing that kept my relationship together was boobs, that would be a pretty lousy relationship I would think.
My girlfriends boobs are just an average size I guess not big anyway, but I never look at girls with big boobs and wish I could be with them, they're just strangers I don't know them...but I don know my girlfriend and I do love her.
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That's not true. We don't hate fake boobs, and we don't think they're ugly... I'm not saying that you need to get fake boobs either, just be confident in yourself.
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youwishyouwasme
Having a natural body is the best. Surgery just makes me puke.
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size of breasts dont affect who i like. if they can keep a conversation going, kind, and fun to hang around, those are the qualities i look for (i'm 21, i'm not sure what younger people think etc etc)
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Your boyfriend chose to be with YOU!
It's your personality he is in love with , not your boobs!! (otherwise he wouldnt have chosen you, out of everyone else in the world he CHOSE you)I have big boobs and I'm jealous of people with small boobs! I'd love to b able to swap with you! Not all guys like big boobs, my ex likes small ones and said he would like mine more if they were smaller! Try b happy with what u have and I'll try b happy with mine
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Small boobs are hot. Natural is best.
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Dump the fucking heartless fool.
Small tits are best
I hate great big sweaty tits that flop about and get in the way
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a wise man once said that everyone looks good naked

probably applies for you

if it's any consolation implants often look terrible, best not to risk it
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POM
As for your questions:

Is it normal to feel like this? Yes the fact that this feeling popped up once or more is normal.
Honestly, guys, when you have a small chested girlfriend and you prefer big boobs, what do you HONESTLY think about hers?
I think they still are pretty. They're just different. Most of the time smaller tits are better shaped also.
Do you wish hers were bigger?
Sometimes yes, just because people generally like what they don't have. But mostly not, 'cause I love small tits.

Do you fantasize about other girls during sex? No.

Do you wish you could be with bustier girls you see around?
Sometimes, just to see the tits naked once and squeeze them, or maybe just to fuck with these girls for once. But no genuine intrest, because it's just not that important!
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Loads of women with big boobs wish they had them smaller too, it's just the way it is. Everyone has something they wish they could change, some more than others.

The fact your boyfriend has been with you all these years shows that it does not bother him, just like women stay with their man with a smaller penis size! He loves you for who you are, which is the sign of a good man
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Small n natural boobs are most beautiful so u should b proud of ur bombs.....N dont think about surgery because normal people have fake boobs!
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I like small boobs
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Once I decide I like you, I dont give a crap about breast size. Tell the guy to bugger off, you will have no problem getting another man.
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I know exactly how you feel because i feel the same since a long time. I think it's totally normal to feel insecure about it. I can't really answer your question because i'm not a guy...but i know how hurtful it is to have it thrown in your face everyday how greater big boobs are. I think some men do it just to look macho or cool tho. I think some men are shy to say that they like small boobs because it's not in the ''big porn star boobs trends''. Sometimes men prefer big boobs for real..but in some situation it's just very superficial and it's all about bragging. This is what my boyfriend told me anyway :P. O
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Tell him he is too small (Hung like a rabbit)and if he is unhappy with your relationship he can hit the road, your a beautiful strong woman and can find a man that loves you for what and who you are. Just by the fact that your here and telling the world whats going on in your life proves your not a timid spineless slave that will determine her own outcome.

Be strong, honest and happy with who you are and the right man will find the perfect woman.
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If your boyfriend stays with you even though you have small boobs and he likes big, he obviously doenst care if they're big or small. He likes you for you. So don't think about your boobs.
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nickiminaj1
id rather my boobs were smaller cause most boys only go for me cause of my boobs, appreciate them they might grow!
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The bigger deal you make about it, the less attractive he will find you. Have some confidence. If you honestly think your boyfriend is only with you for tits, then you shouldn't have a boyfriend at this point.
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I agree with Jen of course... there is alot more to a relationship than comparing your partner to the figures of starlets. Guys like me are not too particular about boobs. I'm more of an "ass" man.
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Budthewise
I like boobs lightyears more than I like an ass but your still fine.
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zii
I'm very skinny with Big Boobs, size 34E. I hate my boobs so much and wish I had smaller ones. I get negative attention, stared at constantly (by men and women), they are heavy, cause back problems, I cant run. In high school I loved them, but now that I am older (24) I wish for smaller breasts and I wish I had a big butt. I think women just want what they cant have. I will probably get a breast reduction after I have kids. I'll do it for me. I don't care if guys hate my scars OR my small boobs, I just want to be able to be comfortable, and reduce the pain. I say if you feel like you want surgery, get it. But believe me, big boobs suck.
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I'm in your shoes. My boyfriend said the same thing. When I was pregnant he just adored my tata's and now... they are back to tiny barely B cup size and I know he loves me for who I am but he always makes comments about girls who have nice boobies and it makes me sad. BUT I KNOW HE LOVES ME.. and could care less about my rack.
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I'm man if my girlfriend want my pines smaller I can't get other pines to be good with her vagina she should love my pines because she love me that is the natural life each girl must be proud of her boobs,ass,vagina size and each man must be proud of his pines size and tall
every pines can go throw any vagina
and every mouth can kiss and suck any boobs
OK
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@: hisham
Pines? Like a pine tree? What the fuck are you talking about?

Every pines can go throw any vagina? So any set of pine trees can throw vaginas?

Dude... work on your English PLEASE.
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if he really cared about bust size he wouldnt even hook up with you or hed dump you and go out with somebody with big boobs. I think it is great you dont want a boob job, because i think in a lot of cases cosmetic surgery is expensive, painful and sad that people feel so bad a bout there body. I reckon you dont have to like your boobs, but move on and get past it, your giving it too much attention and head space. You shouldnt compare yourself with celebs, but if you must then Kate Hudson is absolutely gorgeous and also very small chested.
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I don't want to look so cheap and like a whore.I have to pay so much money for bras and swim tops.Of course guys staring at my boobs.But I don't want to be with somebody who is with me because my boobs or my body.I want to meet somebody who will like what he sees inside no outside.So you should change your boyfriend and look for somebody who will love you as person no as object.And my friend has very small boobs but she doesn't care because she knows she can offer something other and for me she looks very hot.
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ok first of if he loves you he wouldn't care if your bust wasn't large he will have to respect your wishes
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I came here because I'm having the same problem and it's really making me feel like I never want to have sex with my bf again. It makes me feel like shit, then he tells me he loves me and he likes my small boobs but I know he's freaking lying to me and it feels awful. He said in the beginning that he likes boobs. So if he likes boobs how can he actually like me if I don't even have boobs?? He assures me he doesn't care but I know he's lying. If makes me freaking CRY!!!
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I prefer small boobs, more than a mouthful is a waste :P
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My girlfriend has a C I think (its what she told me at least) and I guess that's kinda big? Boobs are awesome, I won't lie. But I didn't fall in love with her chest I fell in love with her personality and her eyes (sounds cheesy but whatever), I don't get why girls think that guys only go for looks, if anything I'd rather be with someone with a nice personality than someone with huge boobs, he loves you for your inside not out.
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Dont worr about what your bf says about your breasts they are perfect just the way they are dont get surgury if he cant accept your size breasts i think he doesnt deserve you and your better than him
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my bobbies are small and i hate it I want big bobbies so much but is there's a way??
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From a guy in your partners position: My girlfriend has small boobs, but this does not bother me, she said herself she would prefer them larger and asked for my opinion and i agreed. mainly because SHE would feel more confident about herself! I love her more than life itself, and though i would prefer them bigger it still doesn't/ wouldn't change how i feel about her! sometimes i feel really guilty but im sure its just manly urges! so the point being, if you dont want to know stuff like that dont ask! you said it yourself if he really felt that way why would he be with you! and heres the kicker, i can guarantee, after dating quite a few small chested women, that the worst thing with girls with small breasts is how THEY feel about them, there's nothing worse than a girl constantly worrying and obsessing about it! that is what will put in your partners mind "if i had a girl with big boobs, she wouldn't be going on about it all the time!" CONFIDENCE is the key a confident girl is sooo attractive regardless of a girls shape, if your confident we pay attention, if your trying to hide something chances are were (men) going to want to know why/ what.
so chill out if he loves you he loves you just learn to at least like yourself because that's what will kill it!
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He isn't a true boyfriend if he doesn't make feel comfortable with your own body and looks. Its completely normal for females to feel insecure about themselves but your boyfriend is supposed to love you for how you look and who you are. Your boyfriend shouldn't have you questioning about your looks or second guessing yourself. He should be complimenting you everyday and always reassure you about how beautiful you are to him.
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Hello there, I'm a 23 yr old male currently in a relationship with a woman who I'm in love with who has a very flat chest. I however am very attracted to large breasts and my gfb has expressed out loud how she does want her breasts to be larger as well. But even though he bra size is limited to her nipples basically it doesn't change the way I feel about her and I'm willing to bet your boyfriend feels the same way. I'm sure he didn't mean any harm when he told you that he enjoys larger breasts more but just felt as though the relationship is song enough to be that honest. More than anything else I think you are letting some of your own insecurities wreak havoc on your state of mind.

At the end of the day these are the facts, he was honest with you, he obviously cars about you regardless of bra size, and you can't lump your boy friend in with all the pigs of men on the internet. A question like this really does setup a witch hunt for people to judge your bf and assume the worst. The important thing is to understand he's with four a reason and not just settling and that you need to be happy and confident with your body and sexuality. A nice pair of DD's has nothing on a cute girl with a flat chest that is comfortable with her body and is sexually confident.
Hope this helps.
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i was searching for same thing and i came across this post. i feel the same way all the time :(.. i guess there are more people like me....:(..
just try to be positive and accept that your boyfriend loves you for who you are and be happy....thats all i can say and thats all i have been trying to do.
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girl i think u should dump his srry ass.and maby get with a girl.trust me grils dont care about tits,viginas,assor lips sizes at all they just enjo the girl in front of them im 28 and i tryed all sorts of sex and humans and grils dont give a shit about brest size.
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Just enjoy your breasts, mine are small and pointed. Maja hoellrigl veka group.
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I was a B cup until I was 18. Since I liked to have my boobs played with and sucked on, I tried to get the all of the attention I could. By the time I was 21, I had DDs. I love them and the guys can't get enough of them. Win-win.
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i like the big or medium boobs because i can catch this boobs in many way and interest with it more and kiss it more, my girlfriend has medium boobs that i love it and if your boobs girl is medium then that will be good for the men.
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darkmagic
just be happy with yourself
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I am with a beautiful girl with small boobs. While I love her, I do wish her boobs were bigger. At first I didn't care but she always comments on them because she doesn't like them and now I'm wishing she would get fake boobs. She never will though... oh well.
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why are u commentin ...2 b a wanker??WANKER
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Fuck off, your negative shitty input is not needed. You clearly don't love her, you shallow fuck. She probably wishes you had a bigger cock, but you can't help that, now, can you?
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ya true dat
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