i have a small penis 4 1/2 " erected. i am always embarrassed about it. my friends laugh at it. i avoided sex, and am a virgin at 22. though i think i am average looking, and have no trouble socially. but my esteem on my sexual ability is killing me.
is it normal?
Also, if it helps, a lot of your friends are probably lying about their size.
But it's true that size doesn't matter. As long as you know how to use it.
That might backfire. It's not unknown for inexperienced folks, even girls, to turn to porn for advice, and we all know how THAT goes...
A 3 inch deep vagina? Mate, stop fucking kids...
Seriously, I know what this guy meant to say. The first 1/3rd of a girls vagina is the most sensitive and like other people have said 4 1/2 inches can do the job so I just wouldn't worry.
Or go back to russellnb's idea, fuck a child! they're easy to pull, won't know any different and they'll make your dick look bigger!
I hope this site has a sense of humour...
If you're still worried, then try finding out ways to make girls cum without using your penis. Every male should know these techniques any way, but if you can make them cum happily every time with your mouth or hands, then penis size wont matter and you're lovers will actually enjoy being with you more.
Try stimulating the clitoris and learning about the G-spot. Learn how to give oral and what effect playing with the labia has. But above all, find out what your partner likes and where her most sensitive areas are for arousal.
You have to understand that men like what they see and women like what they hear, so if you can be nice to her all day, work on some sexy games for foreplay, then she'll be humming like a well-oiled engine and the actual sex part will be relatively painless, even if you don't think yourself adequate.