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I haven't had sex in Ten years
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Yes I'm 32 and I haven't had sex in ten years. I used to live in chicago on the south side. I got up with females here and there but none of the relationships lasted six months. I then moved to columbus,Ga; where i got up with this shurm head and that was the last time I had sex. I later moved to plainfield,IL; where I'm surrounded by white folks. I'm african descent and don't make that much money. There are pretty much no females my age around me and it seems like I'm in my own personal HEll on earth. Can anybody who lives a normal sex life help me out.
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you can blame it on many things but it is actually cause your a negro. that is your problem.
Don't listen to the guy above. I know a few black guys, and none of them have ever had any problems getting into relationships, with either black or white girls. The problem is probably, as you said, you don't know very many available girls of your age. The only thing you can do to remedy that is get out there and try to meet new girls. If you're not into the club/bar scene, just join any and every group that is even vaguely associated with something you're interested in. Even talk to some people online to build your confidence up.
And when you start talking to a girl, don't automatically get nervous because you haven't done anything with anyone for a while, chances are a nice girl won't mind if you treat her well.
Awwww man I'm sorry I had to laugh at that first post. Uhhhh I think you should go to community college, because maybe you could get a associates degree and possibly make more money, and you could meet a nice girl your age there. =)

Just remember though not everything is about sex. You're 32 not that I'm judging you but I think it is high time you find you a wifey there buddy.
Goathammer makes me spew. Some girls like brown skin, some don't. I do, but it's skin-colour, not "race". There's no such thing as race. It does rather depend on whether you want a steady girl or just a few to **** with. If your place is full of Goathammers even the girls who like you might fear to be seen with you - they have to live with racists. I'd try to get out of your place to where decent people live.
Many girls especially white girls say they would date out of their race but never do. Not that that this should discourage you, it is sadly just how it is.

My advice to you would be to try internet dating, maybe then you can meet someone your age with similar interests, or at least someone receptive to dating you.

If that doesn't work plow some slut to recharge your Mojo. It maybe something chemical or just confidence based, but I think Mojo is real. Shoot man 10 years is a long time, I mean we all have dry spells but 10 is long. Recharge the Mojo!
10 years? Come on! That's plenty of time for you to get some TRIM. There are plenty of things you can do to get a good girl. You can try dating sites, try going out places cafes, libraries, church, clubs, rec centres, movies etc..etc.It's your fault why you haven't had sex with anyone in 10 years. Also the fact that your constantly moving. You need to settle yourself and get out more! New career or second job will help as well.
Sounds like you need to move somewhere you like people and share your style and interest. Maybe a big city would help...like Atlanta or New York.
I hope the reason is just that there aren't many girls your age around. It would make me sad if it was a race issue. As a white girl, I know my best sex ever was with an awesome and hot black guy ... I mean as much as we try to deny it ... well sometimes bigger is just better. Anywho ... hopefully if you get yourself out there more, go to bars or something where there might be women your age, you'll find someone. Good luck!
Start wearing a turban like mine. I have found in America chicks dig them.
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You do not see many opportunities where you live to just have sex, much less move beyond the short lasting relationships of the past. There are suggestions to circulate more. I think you could also consider moving. But its not just about sex, you need to meet people & develop relationships, wherever you are.
I'm 19 and haven't had sex in 2 years since I broke up with my GF. I thought that was bad. Thanks for making me feel a little better. Anyway, I've been to IL and it's not exactly the center of the universe if you know what I mean. Move to a city or somewhere where there are lots of different people and stuff to do. That's my advice.
I'm 19 and haven't had sex in 2 years since I broke up with my GF. I thought that was bad. Thanks for making me feel a little better. Anyway, I've been to IL and it's not exactly the center of the universe if you know what I mean. Move to a city or somewhere where there are lots of different people and stuff to do. That way you'll probably be more likely to get laid and find someone you get on with. That's my advice.
i haven't had sex since i was born and thats 2008. this sum bad azz reefer
its because u're poor
try to get rich like snoop dog or tupac
that'll help
Why does it bother you so much????
what bitch what do being a negro gotta do with anything you little racist bitch
just don't be picky
Go for the fat chick. Easy gettins.