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I haven't had a girlfriend in about 2 years and now im really nervous around girls.I have trouble talking to them let alone asking them out. What should I do?
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Not that I am an expert on women or anything, but people can almost smell a person who lacks confidence.

Confidence does not necessarily mean that you have to be bold all the time either. I am a shy person, but I don't have problems talking to anyone, including women (or asking them out).

Just practice talking with people, all kinds, either sex, everywhere--about anything...the weather, the news, etc. Then work on the little things. Establish and maintain eye contact. Really look into their eyes, really listen to what they have to say (while maintaining eye contact). Smiles are contagious, and imply confidence. Be seen. Do this often.

Next go to places that interest you, chances are you will find people there that share the same interests. Talk to them. Share your interests. Once you have established an easy going friendly relationship then you can expand the relationship by grabbing a coffee at Starbucks or something, then lunch, etc. you will find that it will grow from there. But it is much easier to ask women out when there is some modicum of a relationship (however fragile it may be in the beginning).

Cold, just ask-her-out questions out of the blue only works in the movies.
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how old are you? you can go out with me! =)
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Lol
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Look bro be yourself laugh smile joke tell stories whatever tree them no different than you buddies and when you're alone with a girl weather they're just a friend or have girlfriend material remember this one thing girl love cock and you have one if they like you it will be fun if they say no ( by the way don't ask just.make a move) be goofy about it or turn the mono up
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Man up
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It is normal, but not healthy. I have not ever had a girlfriend (I'm 23 years old). You just feel that you suck (and maybe we do). But the fact is that you must recognize that you're not very skilled in the gf department and work on it. I'm still without gf, but at least I've overcome the shyness. Don't start with anything big. Start with something small.
You can't talk with a girl you like? Try to at least say a passing hello smile.
Can't start conversations with a good looking girl? Start conversations with regular looking girls.
Can't get a date? As a female-friend for a friends date. You'll get experience and fun.
Can't get a date with the girl you like? Just ask her out (ok, this is a very advanced one for us who are very shy).
This has helped me a lot. I hope it helps you too.
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You should Go out and try.....
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I feel the same way with guys. Haven't dated in FOUR years. Ummm just be bold and go for it or become friends first with the girl and see where it goes from there?
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i have never had a proper bf i can get really nervous round gys esp the ones i like but you must forget about the fears and go for it you may regret it later
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You might want to check out the seduction/pickup community. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_community
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Im the same
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first do friendship.. and slowly trying to make a relationship with a girl into well gf material. if you take things slow, you'll be so comfy. that you'll barely be nervvous
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Yes, but don't be too friendly or you will end up in the awkward friendzone want to be more area.
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Just fuk it and do it TALK.
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april15055.get-any-girl-system.com
Check out this site. It gives mens and womens perspectives on the subject.
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Does every girl you talk to mean you need to ask them out? I hope not. Maybe you should find a friend that's a girl. Honestly, if you've had a girlfriend, you're quite capable of talking to a girl. If you can't...you, my friend, need help.
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We all have our downfalls, don't go around putting yourself on a pedestal.
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Why on earth you need a girl ? ha?
YOU KNOW WHAT, BOYS GO AFTER GIRLS ULTIMATELY TO GET THEM IN BED AND PLAY !!!
BUT THEY SAY THAT, THEY LOVE THEIR GIRLS AND FEEL THEM, THIS IS ALMOST LIE FOR EACH AND EVERY RELATION !
the thing is to DIG THE WARM-HOLE !

DO YOU HAVE A SOFA AT YOUR HOUSE??? BUY A CONDOM AND TRY F U C K OUT YOUR SOFA/PILLOW !
BYTE YOUR OWN HANDS ......iT fEE1s LIKe doing , trust me !!!
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