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I idolize my friend
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basically she's prettier than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, more normal than me, nicer than me, and has a boyfriend
everytime i'm around her, i hate myself, i compare myself to her and feel like i'll never be as good as he
i don't have a bf but i really want someone to talk to about this
Do you think it's normal?
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PureKorean (23974)
2009-06-24 05:25:56
You know, I feel just the same except if this is a Female/Female I'm the opposite lol. I'm a Male/Female. I like this one girl, but I feel the same way, that she is better then me, nicer, funnier, smarter, has a bf, etc,.

I think that this is normal though.
We all look up to people don't we?
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hello_there (25152)
2009-07-07 20:34:53
its good that you have someone to idolize, but don't put yourself down in the process.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-10-16 05:34:22
Are you sure its just you? Is there something unhealthy about this relationship whereby you are put in the position of propping this girl's ego up at the expense of your own self esteem? Doesn't she ever compliment you, say something nice, be supportive & encouraging, introduce you to other boys - in short - be a FRIEND?
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