First of all what you should all know, Is that me and this guy are very good mates,...
Were not really "allowed" to be though, you see he is my friends, sisters, boyfriend. And they know we talk but they don't know how close we are because we don't think that they will understand....
Anyway he called me up one night and said he was going to a club with some mates, the club i always go to. So i convinced my friends to come with me and we went...
I really wasn't planning on anything happening. Honestly i do fancy the pants off him but was scared about ruining our friendship plus he's in a very serious relationship. Anyway the night wore on and we were both very drunk, talking about us liking eachother it eventually came out that we were both attracted to eachother ... long story short we ended up kissing... Alot.
He loves his girlfriend i know he does. but when we spoke after that he said he did like me but he loves her and that our friendship is in no way ruined....This is all great news. But what are we doing having these feelings behind his girlfriends back! we talk to eachother every day :( what does everybody think?
no guy deserves to have his "real gf that he loves" PLUS his bonus girl on the side that he's attracted to and can hook up with. that's unfair not only to his real gf but to you too! you deserve a guy that is devoted to you! friendship is fine, but if it keeps crossing the line and getting into this weird inbetween state, i think you should reconsider exactly what he is after.