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I like a girl but i dont know how to talk/get along
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Well, i've always been in a boys only school, there are only 3 girls in my school and i dont like them. I'm not allowed to go out, but i'm 18!
But that's not the worst, becouse my friends know that and they it's ok for them.
I take music lessons, to play with a few people and there is a girl, same age, and i like her.
But i do not seem to be able to start a good conversation etc. Can anyone help me, becouse i have not much experience with girls, i never kissed, or got a serious relation.
Do you think it's normal?
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azelchi (35194)
2010-01-20 16:37:20
you sound like you spend way to much time up in your head if you where 12 i woul understand but dude your 18! get some confondence and pratice talking with girls, see a chikka that catches your eye who works at the local coffe shop,book store whatever chat her up lean in to binine topics like local happenings or clebertys then coment on something she is whereing, go from there,
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IsitAbnormal (35110)
2010-01-21 07:45:23
You don't have to be a "Don Juan"... or to try to impress her... just be yourself. Talk about anything: family, school, music... don't have to talk for a long time at first either, just talk to her a little every day.

Talk a little bit about "whatever subject", ask her opinion about it (girls love when you value their opinions), make positive comments on her answers... laugh, agree, disagree... etc... just make sure to be yourself, don't TRY to impress her by being someone that you're not.

Also, start to give your parents a hint that you're 18 and would like to "start" talking to girls... and maybe later on going out on dates. Just MAKE them know that you're a responsible guy that wouldn't get into any trouble.
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BirdyMojo (35244)
2010-01-21 12:12:18
Girls are naturally drawn to guys who are kind. Guys are more drawn to physical beauty, girls are attracted to guys who speak kindly, intelligently, and with much insight. My advice is to say "Hi, I'm ___, how are you?" Then give her a compliment like "You look very nice today" make her feel confident and good. Eventually it will lead to conversation and you can talk and see what you really think about her and what she thinks about you. After all, the only way to find out is through interaction. Take a shot at it. :)
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starjam (35169)
2010-01-26 06:34:39
thanks guys, i'll try it :p
my dad is ok about girls but my mother...
i asked her if i could bring a girl to have dinner with us and thats not going to happen (softly expressed)
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velvetp (35666)
2010-01-28 00:20:43
by some porn, then at least you wont be SO clueless...then just go talk to her...im sure you will feel like less of an ammature if you at least know what women look like, naked...she probably feel the same way about you and is waiting for you to grow the 18 year old balls your supposed to have and talk to her! trust me, im 18...thats too old to be sexually clueless...its time for vagina!
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mixedraindrop (36833)
2010-02-17 08:51:57
and velvetp your smart huh lol not being rude to you either i think that most guys shud do that
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