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I know that I'm not the first person to post a story like this and I won't be the last..... I'm a Black woman in my thirties whose been attacted to White guys and other men of other races since I was about 19 years old. For some reason, I'm just not as attracted to Black men as I am to men of other races, and somtimes I feel sorta guilty about it and sometimes I feel like a "sellout" because of it. Despite my attraction to some white men, I don't think that I'd really feel comfortable dating one of them because I'm afraid that I'd meet one who was racist and would only want "one thing" from me and not like me for who I am as a person. Can any of you out there relate to this? Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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brothershamass (380)
2006-06-23 06:59:55
I think this is more of a confidence issue than anything else. To be honest, as a man, I can confirm that most men (if not all) are after only one thing.

You don't have to sleep with someone straight away though do you?
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Anonymous
2006-06-23 08:36:26
So you haven't dated any white guys yet?! Go on and do it, what are you waiting for?

I don't think the racist type would even consider dating you, so why worry about that.
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seventh_shot (1935)
2006-07-25 11:02:43
Second guy's right, if a bit tactless. If someone doesn't like a person of your race, they won't even see you as a potential date. You'll be all right. I think that above all else, you should do what makes you happy. If you don't like black men, then date some other type. You're not selling out or hurting anyone by making your own decisions, and remember, you don't owe anything to the black community.

And hey... as a white girl who's dated black men before, I can warn you that you may be in for pressure from both sides if you decide to do the swirl thing. I've had white men I don't even know call me horrible names, and black women have given me filthy "Back off bitch, he's ours" looks.
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Ishkabible2.0 (3597)
2006-09-04 22:21:26
@: seventh_shot
"And hey... as a white girl who's dated black men before, I can warn you that you may be in for pressure from both sides if you decide to do the swirl thing. I've had white men I don't even know call me horrible names, and black women have given me filthy "Back off b**ch, he's ours" looks. "

I believe that people should date whoever they want regardless of their race, but it seems like some chicks only date black guys because they want a big penis. It shouldn't matter what race you are, what you look like, or how large your penis is.
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Godsapineapple (3870)
2006-10-07 08:59:20
Well. Im a white guy who lives in Hicksville, USA, and im not racist. Racism isnt as prevalent as it used to be. Take a chance.
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Mandyw190 (3677)
2006-10-22 11:25:04
i feel the same exact way!
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dalfaceNY (4054)
2006-11-27 21:50:11
yeah, im egyptian and i never considered dating white dudes either bc i always felt ppl who do are sellouts likeu said...its like as minorities we gotta stick together and shit. even when i got w a puerto rican dude, all my friends seemed disappointed and one of them said "what africa's not good enough for you?". I used to think i wasnt attracted to white guys but honestly i think i just never considered them as possible partners so i didnt even ever check one out.
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smithee (4389)
2006-12-26 13:04:36
i want to have sex with you.
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mimi (1554)
2007-01-01 02:46:12
Hey smithee, How can you wanna do a woman that you've seen before? In attractiveness, how do you rate yourself from 1 to 10??
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-06 04:24:50
Whats wrong with being attracted to anyone?
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DefetedGirl (5745)
2007-02-07 16:28:42
I don't feel guilty the least bit if I like other guys, whether they're white,black, hawiian(especially hawiian), or anything else. Many people in the world are from mixed cultures. I'm mainly black and white, but also british, cherokee, german, and spanish (back then, people from spain were white, like columbus, u know.)
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-02-22 17:11:23
Who got jungle fever?
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Shavemeslowly (5177)
2007-02-23 12:28:49
You are not a sellout. If anyone tells you that, then they are a purist or a racist and not worth your time.
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Mars13 (6795)
2007-03-20 22:16:10
don't worry about having interracial relationships... i may be only a 19-yr-old female, but i'm black as well and i've ALWAYS seen the beauty in any nationality, and have never dated a black guy. dunno why. i just like variety =)
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T.I.juicygurl (5894)
2007-04-03 09:40:43
awww dont feel like a sellout the samething is happening to me! but i am white and i love black boys and i refuse to go out with white guy ever since i was 8! you will no if the man you go out with is racist. but it is very hard for me to go out with black boys i dont know why! but if thats not normal than im not normal so that is perfectly normal dont worry girl and remember..."LOVE HAS NO COLOR OR RACE"
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Hairy-stick-nipples (7861)
2007-04-22 11:54:35
@: T.I.juicygurl
You thinking your a "sellout" just because you like other races shows that your an ignorant bitch. Infact, thats more or less saying that you shouldnt go out with other races cuz your better then them, well fuck you nigger, this is how the hate starts.
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DoonDoon (7460)
2007-05-29 17:30:06
@: Hairy-stick-nipples
why dont you shut your fucking ugly mouth. hate starts with you u stupid dick.
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mimi (1554)
2007-06-07 16:52:23
@: Hairy-stick-nipples
You're one ignorant racist stupid, Bitch/S.O.B. and the only nigger that I see on hear is YOU HATE is caused by people like YOU.

..."AND TO A COUNTRY AND WORLD SICK WITH RACISM,GET WELL SOON". ~JJ
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coolcat101 (9708)
2007-08-15 00:28:21
*yellz out sell out* lol if you in ya 30's you should already have a man damn and you coming to a forum for help damn lol nothin going for u in life???
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mimi (1554)
2007-09-26 01:41:54
@: coolcat101
to coolcat101

Looks like u dont have much of a life either 'cuz your on here as well, btw you're ignorant, illiterate, and you can't write worth shit!!! (PS - i know that most fifth graders are smarter than you!!!!*yells ou HOLLA*!!
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