i love him but my parents dont. Is it wrong?

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how much older? i got a crush on a guy whos like 40 and im 20

If you love him I wouldn't worry about what your parents think. I love my boyfriend and my dad hates him just because he's half black. Its like you love him so be with him. Shouldn't matter what your parents think but how much older is he than you?

psh , screw what your parents think! if you love him go for it!..... atleast he isnt dieing. i mean your parrents have no right to choose who you can and cant love.

hun im the same situation forget ur parents

I think it depends on how old you are. I believe that you should respect your parents, and at the same time, they should respect you. Your parents should respect your decision, and you should respect what your parents are trying to do for you. It's cliche to say that they know what's best for you, but it is true. This guy you're dating, I'm sure you love him. But unless this guys gonna ask you to marry him, he may not be someone as constant as your parents. If marriage is not the likely course in your relationship, this guy wont last as long as your parents. But I wish you luck :)

I agree with JoeyAnne .. you should respect your parents..

And considering an advice a married woman gave me (I'm 19 btw).. your parents know what's better for you; when they say he's not the one for you, they mean it. They are your parents, they want you to be happy and they don't want to give you away to someone who would bring you troubles later on. Maybe they saw something in that guy that you can't see? It's totally normal cause you're in love with him. Plus something that I Truly believe in. They were here first.. they experienced this life before you and they know alot more than you do. (I found it hard at first cause I thought that my situation is always different, but it's all the same story)

It saddens me cos I let go someone I truly loved but I left him cause it would have never worked out in the end cause my father hates Pakistanis (Although he was such a good guy). But, it wasn't just that the reason.. But, anyway my father's opinion pushed me to let go of it. And I discovered later.. like after 2 years of the break up.. that that guy was never good for me.. But, I still love him anyway. But being crazy about someone doesn't mean that you have to be with him. Another story a married woman told me .. that her sister was so in love with a guy .. her parents did not agree.. and she insisted on him and refused any other. She got married to the one she loves.. And then they got divorced after 2 years of marriage. It's only an example.. But, there are those who could be married till the end of their lives.

All what I'm saying.. Listen to your parents.

In my opinion true love is hard to come bye id say GO FOR IT

Well you've got a good point. I have a similar situation. he guy i love, my mom hates. ugh it makes me mad. but i think you should stay with this guy. love is a really strong thing, and if your in love with him then dont let him slip out of your fingers :]

i mean *the guy i love*

whoops. ;P

i'm 31 and still care what my parents would think of a guy i date. for example they wouldn't accept different race, religion. and i know this about them so i don't go against this.i stick to a certain criteria when looking for a guy.