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I love it when people hate me.
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I seem to thrive from the harsh words of others. I love it when someone hates me for just being me. I tend to be loud, and act out of the norm alot. Because this seems to be what gets them upset.

Example: Last year in school, there was this one girl who i knew couldnt stand me since the first time i looked in her direction. She would always talk about me behind my back (little comments like fat ass, lesbian w****,) it was always so plesant for me. It was like every time i smiled she got a little more pissed off. Everytime i answered a question in class she would glare daggers at me.

Once i was talking to one of the teachers aids because she saw me in a fabric store. The aid asked me if i could sew, and I told her yes and right when i said that the girl whipped around in her chair almost knocking the desk over just so she could yell "SO!" and glare at me. At that moment i felt so happy and I didn't know why.

I constantly try to keep an extremely high opinion of myself just because it seems to make others mad. I dont know why or if other people are like this too but I dont seem to be able to help myself. It just seems so easy to irritate someone with just a smile.
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Comments (73)
are you fat and are you a whore? do you like it in the asshole?
shut up mall goth you don't keep trying to be different but guess why your not
nigger
it is true that every person reacts to a situation differently; this would explain your reactions to negative comments/reaction. were some-people would avoid such reactions, you seem to dive straight in, this could be because the chemical signals in your brain are sending the wrong (or in your case the right) signals about how to react.


and the other girl in the story is just pissed because you are enjoying her torment (most bullies/sluts/bitchs hate to be ignore, because it shows them that they have no power)
It would be great to get with you in the bedroom Im sure you would enjoy a nice afternoon of submission to me your cockmaster now shut the fuck up and suck my cock you filthy fat dyke whorebag. Just an example of the fun we could have
WoW that is impressive usually when people treat me like that I blush and look down at the floor b/c I'm such a softee, but sometimes I lose my temper just depends on the situation. good for you!!
...as a matter of fact....
you're such a lovely girl and yet have such low esteem. You need a real man to help bring out the lovely woman inside of you. It isn't about sex, or even love. It's about another person getting who you are.

Believe me, I've looked a long time for the right woman to set the real man in me free. Yes i've had more experience than most, tons really, but when it comes right down to it, im just looking for someone I can spend all day with and not feel like leaving. someone i can tell my stupidest thoughts to and not feel like an ass brush. someone who i don't need to pretend for. someone who i KNOW, deep down, and who knows me. do you know what i mean or am i just spouting like some pissed cow off at the local wankabout?
No, I get exactly what you mean, someone you can just be yourself around, and not have to worry about what they think about you. Someone who has similar ideas, dreams, and standards. I do think I want someone like that, but sometimes I wish I could just find someone who I liked just enough to settle for long enough until I can find the right man. I guess the reason why is b/c I want someone by my side, someone to talk to, but mostly someone to keep the pervs from talking to me. =)
a bonnie lass will alway attract attention. The thing to realize is that most of the weirdos are actually AFRAID of you which is why they have to come at you so hostile and aggressive-like. If they approached you in a normal manner they might face rejection for real, or for some of them actually get to go out with you, in which case they wouldn't know what the bloody hell to do.
well i have hadn't had that happen yet, maybe i'm just too picky.
no you aren't too picky, its probably that where you live are a lot of hicks with lots of hair in their nose and not lots of teeth in their mouth. i know the type, i bet you remember daddy's little pooltoy? he'd be the kind you probably run into every day - or maybe you wind up with some Emo creep like flikr which is almost as bad.

no, keep your standards up, otherwise you end up with a bunch of little rugrats with hair lips no chins and IQ's same as their waist sizes.
You are very right. It is always older men (some hicks) or teenage kids who try to talk to me. It's like am I ever going to find someone who is atleast 25 but not over 35. No, of course not they all are married or have girlfriends. HA! it's cool though I'm sure I'll find someone when i least expect it, but that's what everyone tells me, I'm not really sure what to believe. Sometimes I think I may be or may have been Asexual, because I keep reading about it and I was a late bloomer, I never wanted anything to do with sex as a teen, and I only lost my virginity to rebel against my church at the time. Now I do have an increase in libido and I am attracted to men, but i'd rather satisfy myself. I just want a preppy, clean-cut guy is that so much to ask? LOL.
oh please. =)
i aint trying to woo her you twerp, I'm trying to help her-she's living in some hellhole of a trailer park somewhere around the parts they shot the movie "deliverance" and she has to be damned careful.
i don't believe you are asexual, i think it might be that you either can't get damp over these brown toothed rednecks you run into in your everyday life or it might be that you need to explore your sexuality in different ways. might it be that you have a kink you haven't explored yet?

Now relationships, that's another whole ball of wax isnt it?
Where do you live? I remember reading in a different story that it was in the bible belt. However, you talk alot about creepy perv types. I always assumed everyone in those parts were all "family values"?
It just seems like you do it because it is easier to hurt others than to deal with being hurt by them.

Next time someone hurts you try saying this, "Hey, that hurt me..." It is okay to simply feel it. This will help you deal with it instead of lashing out to get a false high.
spam you sound pathetic
i think he means twat
now wait twarp is a small person
@: Bobert
This is going to be long....but I hope it will answer mostly everything.... sorry


Well I live in in the outskirts of Beaufort, North Carolina, it's by the water, near Atlantic Beach. This is the Bible Belt however many churches here have become pentecostal, or what you would call a "free will" baptist church, and some churches have even joined forces with other religions to just make an all religious church. For instance we have two churches around here called The Refuge, and another one called All God's Children Church, and they have a come as you are, and live as you please attitude, which is fine by me as long as I don't have to go to them. Unfortunately we still have the set in your way, independent, funadamental, bible-believing baptists churchs around here, and those people are the ones you have to look out for. I grew up in that type of church, ya know the no pants for woman, skirts or dresses to the knee, no slits in your skirts, have to wear panty hose every friggen day, no make-up, only one earring in your ear, no loud jewelry, can't watch pg-13 movies, can't listen to any type of music except what they approve. You know all that bullshit that completely drove me away from religion, but I still believe in God, and some christian priciples.

I live in a fairly new mobile home park, with mostly double wides and 2-story manufactured homes, and we have a lake right behind me, and we have a pool here, it's very nice. So I don't really live around hicks. We do however really have a lot of redneck people, but seldom are they the ones who bother me. Infact, if they were a little more intelligenet, not saying they all are stupid, and had a friendly personality, I would consider dating one. It's always random, like if I go to walmart at night, or if I always have some trashy, scraggily looking guy ask me out where I work. I rememeber one time at work I had this older man say "Hi, I'm such and such and this is my friend such and such" and I was just like "ok" and you could tell his son was irritated that he did that. I just always have guys flirt with me and they never are the ones I'm interested in. It seems like every once in awhile a nice guy that is actually normal does notice me, but they are too shy to approach me. It's like sometimes I wonder do they think I'm just not pretty enough, or what is it? I know I'm not drop dead gorgeous there has to be something I'm not catching. My friends just say I look different, WTF is that suppossed to mean?

I think I am Asexual and I'll tell you why. Through my teenage years you know the puberty years I was very behind everyone else, I was smart, and did a average in school, even though I knew I could have done much better. I drew a lot and watched cartoons, played on the computer, and mostly stayed in doors. My friends were always going out with guys, and I never wanted anything to do with that. Although I did have crushes but I never thought about having sex with them, and I never wanted to "experiment" with them if they wanted me to. I lost my virginity and never felt this sexual urge, or sex drive, not once did I look at the only man's body that I've ever had sex with and want to have sex. Also when I was younger, and even now I hate to be flirted with, or googled by a man, I know I have a C sized chest, but that doesn't mean they have to look!! haha. I guess sometimes I do get flattered, but only if I think a FEMALE is jealous of me, it makes me laugh so hard inside. In other ways I do feel bad when a guy is trying his hardest to flirt with me, and I just stare at them like they are an idiot.

I feel a lot comfortable now, beacause now I have a reason for why I shutter at the thought of sex, and hate the perversion in men, I understand, and it's so liberating almost like coming out of the closet.

I know, I know what a waste of pussy, huh?
all i want to know is how big are your tits?

I was scanning that long post for that info and couldn't find it.
you stutter during sex?? that's hoooot
"shutter" you moron, she shutter's at the thought of sex
how on earth did you end up with a baby thats the punchline to your life story
spam just likes to use lingo from the 90's still
so basically you think your better then everyone even though you can't find success/happiest in your life so you lie to yourself saying your better
he's kept a low profile since the police started digging up his back yard.
random
UHHHHHHH NO I don't think I'm better than anyone else, and you are an absolute moron if you think I said that. I'm just happy that I finally figured out what is "wrong" with me. I ended up with a kid because I was stupid and didn't use condoms or get on birth control, but I'm glad I have my son, because I do not think I will ever get married or have another boyfriend again. So now I won't be alone, and I'll have someone to love and someone to love me....for who I am.

This is the life I have chosen for myself if you don't like it than you can kiss my ass asskisser!!!!!

Why do you always try to start shit don't you have a fucking life?? Haahehehaaaaheeehoohaaa fucking HAHA!!!
o.k so let's dig more into this you had your son because you did not,want to die alone that's being clingy and dependent on a 4 year old,you posted YOUR COMMENT ON Public POST so even if you did tell me You shouldn't have post if you couldn't take the criticism that will go with it "for some reason people don't get that And when it happens you seem shocked" and unlike 95% of the people on here i give a Real responds to the post unless it fake so i could care less about Your Life It doesn't affect me at all but if you post your life story i will Comment on it and all i see is a weak person that took way to long to get her life under control
YOU ARE FUCKING STUPID!!! LMAO. Dude seriously I didn't have my kid so I would have somebody around me, so I wouldn't "die alone". I didn't know I was going to choose this lifestyle at 19. I just chose the wrong guy and got knocked up, I'm not going to glorify that, and say it's ok and happens all the time, but shit happens, and I shouldn't be critisized for the rest of my life for something I did almost 4 years ago.

I'm SAYING....now I have decided to go a different route, why can't I do that? Since I have a baby out of wedlock, does that mean I have to choose to be a whore for the rest of my life??? Maybe I should go out like the rest of them and have another baby by a different "baby daddy" maybe even 2 more. Yea and I could go live in the ghetto, and get on welfare, and be a loser for the rest of my life too.

I shouldn't even try to explain this to you, because I can tell right now no matter what I say you still won't understand anything I'm talking about.
The sad thing is I will always have to deal with people like you, who will always judge me. What difference does it make if I got married before I had my kid, not all married people plan their kids, and most people get a divorce now. Perhaps this is why I don't want to be with somebody, because I don't want to deal with the drama of a relationship.
no your so thick head you can't stand to be wrong or to even listen to anyone i could care less about you being a prom whore and then getting pregnant YOUR LIFE NOT MINE but am 100% Sure Your son will grow up miserable because of you and your stupid choices but your way to pushy and that will drive away your son I'll bet money on that but whats the point your just going to respond like a monkey anyway
"I'm glad I have my son, because I do not think I will ever get married or have another boyfriend again. So now I won't be alone, and I'll have someone to love and someone to love me....for who I am."

sorry, i hate to agree with ass-dicker but i think you're really gonna mess your kid up big time. you're turning him into a substitute for adult relationships. how you gonna feel when he meets a girl who takes YOUR place in his life? That's assuming he's even gonna develop normally.

oh shit, here i am sounding like some twat psychobabbler. but it needs to be said, sweetheart.
I'll be happy, and accept her into the family. I would like grandchildren you know. =) I think you are wrong, because I am doing the best I can for him, and maybe I do have a bad choice in men, so it would be better for me to date when he is older, atleast 8 or 9.
You're a jerk. seriously a real asshole and I bet MONEY you will treat your wife and kids like shit when you get older.
no because they won't be pushy retardeds that have their heads up their ass and am not a asshole the retardation that is on this website turns me into one so sorry that am not being nice to you but god dammit you need to get use to it
I think you need some counseling bro.
the bodies of young boys no doubt
pay no attention to asslicker, he's suffering from a rare toxic reaction to the plastic in blow-up dolls.
You get off on making other people miserable? Sounds like a sadist to me. You've got some issues, I suggest seeking help from a psychologist. It's just going to get worse and worse and one day you're not going to enjoy having no friends and being hated by everyone. Making people happy is much more fuffilling
It's interesting to hear the family values of a man who is the spawn of siblings. It's good you can give your opinion here and you're not too busy hassling travellers about their "purty mouths".

"you posted YOUR COMMENT ON Public POST so even if you did tell me You shouldn't have post if you couldn't take the criticism that will go with it" - There's a difference between criticism and insults, and you're simply doing the latter. Plus, no one here wants to hear the opinion of the pond scum of an already shameful gene pool.
@: Bobert
first off thats how it works around here she knew if she post that someone will say something insulting so even if you didn't what my opinion you got so and you don't even know me and and i know i thing or two on how the mind works
@: P00LTOY
no am way to busy making something out of myself to do that unlike a racist spammer p.s thats you
@: Bobert
hey bobert how about you get new insults the ones you are using are getting a bit old
"hey bobert how about you get new insults" - Yes, because you like your insults like you like your children; young and juicy.

Also, you should really work on your criticism seeing as your insult 'gold' seems to go along the lines of:

"your so thick head"
"prom w****"
"pushy retardeds"

At least mine make grammatical sense.
@: Bobert
no yours have been said thousand of times and mine comments go with the post not just comments that don't go with the post
I'm confused as to how the density of ones skull, an illegal high school career, and forcefully aggressive mentally disabled people have anything to do with the post.
You rock. = P
You love messing with people's head.
Is better if you keep doing this, don't give that girl much of your attention.
She's a cunt with nothing else to do anyway.
u sound young still u dont know shit about shit watch out if u piss the wrong person off in my neighborhood u can get snuffed real quick watch it !!!!
pissing people off is fun. i say we cut people off while driving and just drive slowly and speed up randomly! hahaha
well this kinda remindes me of me lol...
always had that i want you to hate me or/ i dont want you to hate me i want you to wanna hate me :P
I am like that too! I hate a lot of people, and they hate me back. And just saying the perfect thing to them to get them pissed off makes my day.
I would say its normal :]
@: emilyf
im like her actually, but im a guy, people hating me makes my cold stone heart warm up, it brings me joy, i love it and no theres nothing wrong with it, lol
I know someone like that. He gave christmas cards to everyone that hate him (including him because I can not stand the sight of him) and didnt give cards to people who liked him. He smiled everytime someone got annoyed at him and he looked like he was enjoying himself.

I think its normal to try to piss people off that you hate or that hate you. But once you try to piss people off for no reason then its annoyin nd just weird
oh! We're kinda the same too! I laugh when people hate me too.

Like, when my mom would be really really pissed at me for who-knows-what reason, then she calls me stuff like, 'you stupid piece of sh*t' or 'you damn a**hole' or something like that. I giggle to myself, silently of course.
I do that too, sometimes back in high school some asshole would be talking about me calling me a nerd or telling me I'm lifeless, so I just laugh it off because they're stupid

they're the ones who are failing courses while I am pwning them.

you're pretty much like me
Oh My God! I do the exact same thing, but only with certain people who i dislike, or if they are wicked creepy, i make sure they don't like me so they leave me alone, i threatened some kid earlier, because he proposed the idea of picking my pocket (there was only 2 pencils, mostly gone gum, and my bus pass card in it) and that kid is a bit creepy, but afterward (once he gave me one of those "you are an awful person" glares) i felt so satisfied, so i know what you mean...hmm, i'm gonna say that it is sort of normal, but somehow i think most people would disagree
But then again, them disagreeing is a good thing...isn't it??
woots! we're the same! I like it when people hate me too...but I envy you that someone would really do that. That's funny...haha...
I love this. When people try to insult me, I just become as insufferable as I possibly can. GOOD JOB!!!!
you probably just like the attention. i mean, you've got to be memorable if people hate you enough to talk about you behind you back.
its like the smae exact thing for me, but intead of talking back, when some one tries to talk rto me or calls me white boy or haole kid i just stand there and say nothing. i dont even look back, and every one is really pissed at me now. hooray.
If it's true that 90 percent of humanity should be culled as brain dead then it'd be also true that their affection is meaningless and one'd be far better off with their hatred -- at least that way they leave you alone. "If people can't love you at your worst.. etc.."
I am not the way you are, but i understand what your saying. You are the way you are you cant help it.I think its funny that you just smile & that girl is all mad. Honestly people are probally just jealous of you, or maybe a guy someone liked you got instead you never knoe a lot of things lead to that. Maybe you have a pretty smile & she doesnt. haha you never knoee. but you are how you are your not gonna change so live it up :)

i hatee youuuu ;]
happy? lol just kidding
Are you a sadist? do you thrive on people's sorrow. if that's how you behave then so be it. otherwise you may be too good at things and people are jealous of you and want to do the things you do and that's the reason they get angry at you and you get prouder. lol
I think it's hilarious to have people hating me.
Just hilarious.
You sound a bit like a masochist, if you get happy when people humiliate you. But I like when people hate me because I channel it into art.
great one more single parent. hey, that was unfair sorry. I don't know you. but a child should at least have some form of male figure in their life. don't you agree?
it seems like ur probably just a jerk. i don't make these conclusions very often but... ech.
seems you have too much time on your hands to be thinking about others and pissing them off. mabye you should start focusing on how to make your surroundings better, and what really matters in life. you are not the only person on earth, and i doubt people give a shit as much as you make it seem