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Hi i am a English girl and I love Turkish men so much, and no a lot of Turkish men. I don't no why i love them so much, they have really nice accent and dark hair and are so sexy...
but am i normal for this because people tell me they are aggressive over their girlfriends/wives and very controlling. Please help me no more about these men!!
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Hi, I'm a Turkish guy (like it matters - stupid way to start a response by the way) and do you have any idea how stupid is your question is?

I'm not even arguing about how racist it is, but you've got to understand that it is like asking "I love spanish man am I normal? I love chinese men am I normal? and so on...

And the responses... We are talking about human beings from a certain nationality, not dogs in general. Everybody, literally every individual is different from eachother. You can't just judge Turkish men in general by something you exprienced in your summer trip.
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Thats right...not all Turkish men or Filipino men or whatever nationality have the exactly the same attitude...we are all human being,who has individual differences...
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I m want say this,people say example ohhhh if u blonde an english an white u get problem in turkiye,well I an 5 8inch tall long black hair blue eye an white as they come,I had plenty of male an female turkish attention an I an nerli 40 okay,but I took at jus that friendliness not ohh becoz they turkish,I an mix lebanese arab blood born in uk,bein turkish or any middle east is an attitude not just a look,how u fink turkish women manage to move around everyday from a to b on turkish society if men are that bad,sweet talking jigalos as some women say,thay are jus men humans like any ova man an shud be treated as such,b confident wen out an about in turkish society,and don't b afraid to shout a man down in turkey if he touches an u don't want it,locals will help an he will run away feeling all eyes killing him,locals always come to a womans aid,thas y they don't do to turkish lady they know wat they will get, sorry long post peeps. Nadia
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born in uk who gave up the primary school!!
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You say that you were born in Uk. Although I am a Turk and my English is advanced I have never seen such a bad English speaker. Stupid Idiot Learn English !!!!!!
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Well this comment by roland3tr might be a point proven how turkish men are..or maybe just him
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Hey my ultra humanist and most probabyl leftist so called "Turkish" dude, She's got some taste and she is "epicurean" dont be that jealous, someday u'll find a nany to take care of you. now drink your milk and go to sleep.!!
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@: ELTURCO
Why do we Turks always mix everything with the politics?!!!!!
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This guy is the typical "summer guy" prototype in Turkey.His last sentence is his confession.
Girls beware of this guy and his prototypes.!!
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hi

am from northern europe,woman,2 kids,thank you for your comment,have met people from different countries,father of my kids is from Nigeria.When i started dating sites on the net(try to find someone(man)) met people i was interested in but when i said their father is from Nigeria ,they said don't want any problems,nigerians are this and that....and Igbo's are worst.

Don't have anything bad to say about Igbos,lived with nigerians few months in UK.There is good people and bad people in all countries.

Have heard even about my country(everybody is this and that)

Generally am interested in different cultures


me from somewhere
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Hi, I'm Naida from Sarajevo(Bosnia and Herzwegowina) part of Balkan.. I didn't know how to reply to this girl who asks is she normal, but I hope she will see my comment here. Turkish men are adorable, really. They are carring, friendly and they are family types.. You will probably hear bad expirienses from the girls that was on the South because there man can be inpolite, but that doesn't mean that all Turkish guys are inpolite.. They like when a girl is different from their turkish women for example if you have white tane, blue eyes, blond hair, they will like you.. And they will probably think that you are easy because Turkey is very visited by Russian girls and 90% of them is easy.. But don't worry that's very normal, you have idiots in every culture, I love Turkish guys too and Turkey and their langague.. Everything.. Turkiye seni seviyorum :)

I Hope I helped
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hi i am turkish man it is so normal but you should know every turkish man is not good :) take care you
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Shit! Learn English mate!!!!
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Im dating a very beautiful Turkish man. And I can only tell you from what I experience. Turkish men are very Romantic, Gentle, Kind and thoughtful.On the other side they like a women to be somewhat aggressive not like a man but as a women should. They enjoy aggressive love making a women who is strong in her own way a fighter. Turkish men are Born warriors and they die warriors and they expect a women to be as strong they do not enjoy weak women. Turkish men are not really controlling they just prefer you dont put yourself out there. Like dont dress to sexy to get another mans attention. Its perfectly okay to do it for your own man but dont dress overly sexy to get attention from other men then they will become jealous. If you can respect your Turkish man, Treat him as if he is your king he will treat you as a Queen. They are PERFECT Friends & Lovers. Good Luck!!
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you said about me : )) ?
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not beutiful man!!!!! A handsome man !! Wtf!
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i love turkish men..well most of them..
some of them can be soo nice and other can be jerks like the same as other guys lol..
i had my first love of a turkish man when i was 16 and on holiday but when i got home after a month or 2 i ended it he went mentel erm done things that i can never 4give him for...so he was one o the jerks but hasnt put me off them ive grown up more...so just be careful not just around turks but around all men and be careful what you do (sorry for the long comment =D
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Hii, just came across your post. and i'm exactly the same. I love turkish guys. The tan, accent, their charm.. you name it :P

I've also had a holiday romance with a waitor who worked in the hotel i stayed at, and i thought everything was great until i found out he was cheating, and yet he still tryed to deny it.
But now ive met another turk, he seems really genuine and not like other turks i have gotten to know. He is currently waiting for his visa to go through so he can come over to england to go to university. He says he really likes me and would love to meet me one day. So i agree with hazeltopping when saying the intelligent and sensible type of turks are the oness :)

sorry for the long message xD
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@: rey619
I've met a lot of turkish guys, fell in love with all of them... there's something about them.. but unfortunately all of them CHEATERS! Their charm can get them anywhere so I think they take advantage of this... so be careful unless you just want to have a good time and feel like someone cares about you (ignoring they do the same for 2 or 3 more lol)
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@: rey619
HAAHA COME TO TURKEY WERE WELLCOMED MİSS
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I've recently started dating a Turkish exchange student at my school. He is so gorgeous that I can't believe he's actually attracted to me and we talk for hours and hours on end. He's so gentle and sensual and pays attention to what I say. I guess I could also say that we do have a natural chemistry. But aside from that, he is always wanting to spend time with me and he doesn't blow me off to watch football with friends or play video games. Plus he enjoys taking me out to dinner (which is rare to find in a guy in college).

In fact, he told me that he's an atheist and actually wants to move to America someday. He doesn't want to marry a virgin Turkish girl. Or any virgin for the matter. Considering that I'm in college, our relationship isn't going to go to the next level but I'm going to miss him so much when he leaves and I wish him the best. He has been nothing but kind and genuine to me. And I'm not one to trust men easily either.
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thank you for compliments.it is really nice feeling to read such words about us.but just want to remind the that which places in Turkey u go mostly small cities and only being crowded in summer time.i mean that city's economy depend on the tourism and young guys in there are mostly uneducated and some are from villages.so don"t think the all Turkish guys are just like them.
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@: Tenshhi
brava brotha
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completely normal.
I am brazilian and i also love turkish man,
they have all that macho way to be, the color of the skins, the eyes.
but you have to be smart! they use much sweet talk. Like I said, i am brazilian and i am used to it, bur it you are not, they can take you on their conversations.
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I don't necessarily think it's a nationality thing; there are lots of men who are controlling over their women- they aren't Turkish.
From my experience Turkish men are very sweet (but rather cheesy when it comes to romance- classic roses, silly pick up lines- but it really just adds to their cuteness and charm).
Me and my Turkish man are getting married soon- I can't wait! I love him so much, I've had nothing but good times with him. Tall, dark and handsome- not to mention sexy and romantic. He surprises me with gifts and love notes everyday.<3 I'd say it's pretty normal to be attracted to Turkish men, heehee.<3
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congs
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I dont think there is a true answer to this question. Its totally not normal if you like any Turkish man cause of his nationality. But if you get to know a Turkish man and liked him or loved him, its totally normal. Its love, you cant decide who to love, really, I couldnt.
And I didnt want to start with "Im Turkish too
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Hi,

I am a Turkish man. I think, asking that question isn't that normal. Why should be loving Turkish guys not normal? Of course there are lots of jerks between us, near to good men. You have to pick the right man. He can be Turkish, British, Arab, Japanese...

Only try to find someone, not ignorant. And try to understand that, being jealous about the person you love is normal and cute. Because yes, we would like our women to pay attention to their clothes. Personally, i would be happy to see my girl wearing respectful clothes. That's all.

If you are young, don't rely on only your feelings. Use your logic as well.

And good luck.
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She simply means she has some kinda obsession on Turkish men.Here u're talking about education!!
Yeah man there aren't any ignorant Eurpeans,Americans Brits on the earth. They all have min. graduate degree.
She's got sellective perception that's all dude.
Yeah education is a must!!
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Well, I'm a Turkish guy, and most of you have quite true info about Turkish man, but the main difference is education, if you read turkish_ottoman guy's unnecessary comments, you would understand the difference easily.Then if you ask me to describe a educated Turkish man, I would tell you just 3 words: Loyal, lovely and brainy.
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@: Tolga95
Hay eğitim kompleksiniz batsın sanki MIT de profsunuz aq.
Sanki dünyada cahil hiç bir batılı yok. git bir usa ya gir harleme, uzan texasa gör redneckleri hepsi Harward mezunu aq.
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I love turkey, been about 6 times now. young turkish guys can be a bit pervy but on a whole, very nice people
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well, i am a turkish man, ive been traveling around the world since i was like, 15. ive seen enough people from different nations to comment on this. Turkish men are romantic, emotional, macho and smart. they might not give you the greeting you wish but he will run for you if you take one step towards them. "they will have sex with western girls but marry Turkish" is(pardon me for this expression) bullsh.t Turkish people look up to western cultures, and having a western girl as a wife is usually something to brag about for us. but education makes a HUGE difference in their attitude of course. i read something here which fits %100 : "they want you to treat them like king, and if you do, they will treat you like queen" cheers!
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@: manpoya
Education makes a huge difference on any human being not particularly to Turks dude.
I am so suprised to see how many educated dicks we got here lecturing to Foreing girls on Turkish men.
I smell some inferiority complex in the air with the emphasis of education.. snif sniff..
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The problem with certain Turkish guys is that they are so used to getting what they want from English girls, whose fault do you think that is - they end up thinking all girls are the same.

They know how to sweet talk believe me, Ive been going there 6 years, and they learn this early on from books, "you have beautiful eyes" etc. You have to sort the wheat from the chaffe and thats not easy - dont get sucked in by the sweet words or the attention, I know its easy to do. Sit and watch how they operate I have done for years, it will open your eyes, and you will see who are the genuine ones and who arent. Dont make yourself to readily available to them, like most girls do.
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@: s4ndy
yeh i did that wen i was 16 it was my first time over there didnt know anything about the country and guys were all sweet talkin with me n i falled for it but 90 per cent of them are only after 3 things
1)sex
2)money
3)visa iv learned all this from the past 6 yrs iv been goin however u can find really nice ones and bad ones just dont give into them to easily dont hand ur body on a plate then lets see in 2 or 3 days later if they still want u
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@: sara10
you came here for holiday and saw poor uneducated kurdish hotel workers sunshine, come to istanbul one day and ill show you how we do :O)
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Don't say poor kurdish hotel,nothing wrong with kurdish,I was married to iranean for 13yrs with 10yr old son,now 5 yrs I have kurdish iraqi boyfriend,kurd is kurd whether iranni kurd turk kurd or iraqi,they work hard 16 howa a day in this sunshine u talk about I am english born but am half arabic hence my name,consider u fink uself so educated u have insulting tone,wats istanbul,lol
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nadia, i wanna drink whatever you drink to be such high lol "poor=broke=skint" this is reality, i didnt say anything wrong with kurdish, i was just trying to picture a situation and im not racits.God bless your son.
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Born in UK and look @ her English grammer and typographic mistakes on her comments. LOL really LOL.
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Excuse me sorry,but u found this opinion from were,can I ask u pls,u name samyellow,u r male or female,I kant tell which nationality u been scorned by,that only reason u would talk such nonsense ahhhhhhhh turk is forward most in world an so is english woman,this wrong u say vary wrong,
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I'm a Turkish guy and i understand your question. I think those Turks who got angry with your question also got your point but they don't wanna accept this.

There aren't just one type of Turkish guys. You should find the ones who value love and stuff if you don't wanna get hurt. Btw the new generation is getting way better about the attitude to woman.. But it's not easy to destroy freaking stereotypes..
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i have never controlled my ex girlfriends :) everybody is not same about that.Yeah,you r right, sometimes they want to be controlling over their wives or girlfriends.But i think its normal.
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Hi Santiago I totally agree with you. Turkish men are proud and if they feel deeply for their partner they are protective of her not controlling, a little kiskanc is good but not too much. It is their culture that they look after their women, take care of them and protect them. No one should every generalise.
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Yea its not controlling its called respect. MY Turkish finance expects me to act like a lady for I am his lady. To always be careful how I dress or speak to another to not make a guy think I like him. I do this not because He "Controls Me" But because I love him and I respect him and I honor him. He is my king and I shall be treated as his queen. But your words Very True too
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What do you mean, is it normal? They are people just like everyone else. You like the accent, you have a preference for dark men... It's a matter of taste. I have been saying this a lot around here lately but who's to say your soulmate is in the same country/ethnicity as you? That's as arbitrary as saying you can only be with a curly haired person. It's natural to be attracted to people, it's normal to have preferences.
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Everybody attacking this poor young girl for ask this question,get with the programme guys,she ask is it normal ,it being the predominant word here,I think she meant is she normal to be so obsessed with one nationality,not attack on turks,y so sensitive jeez,it is wat it is wat it is,advise don't attack,this forum I see is very passive agressive,educate not persecute,
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I hope this wasn't directed at me, because my reply was not an attack. I'm actually agreeing with the poster and validating her feelings. My response to her was, yes, it is normal and to stop being weird about it and enjoy some Turks. Not passive aggressive- I think it was pretty straightforward.
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She is got some nice taste, dont get offended and jealous if u're not a Turk.!!
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Thank for all the compliments ladies, but i wanna tell you something.I heard many stories about, between :cheater greencard greedy turkish boy and innocent brit (or other nations, doesnt matter but mostly brit girls) girl" even from my english girlfriends.Girl comes here for holiday, meets the boy,boy tells lies then she cries.lol cmon girls, ive been livin in London(islington) i met many amazing brit chicks, they were amazing, but i met many gypsy girls from north london too,they were so poor uneducated and greedy.what im trying to say is, i saw diffrent kind of brit ladies,from all around the city,poor,rich,educated,uneducated, but you just saw most uneducated and poor ones in holiday places.All they wanna do is fcking as more as they can in summer time, coz when winter comes they trip around unemployed, 5person livin in same room,horny.(mostly %95 kurdish ones) im not a racist i love them all and respect them but this is the realite.If you wanna meet a real Turk Man, better visit here in winter time, Istanbul is cool place.and no matter what we love and protect our woman like other guys must do, thats right, but we dont let them down.
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nyx
I would say anybody can fall in love with anybody in the world. It is a choice made individually.
As for Turkish men, education makes a lot of difference. You can really divide them into well-educated and non-educated really. It is somewhat extreme. Not all Turkish are tanned skinned or dark eyed, dark haired but these are majority. Uneducated ones are somewhat aggressive and macho, but educated ones are mostly romantic and caring. The first thing you have which uneducated ones go after will be your body while educated ones try to win your emotions. They (all of them) don't avoid using brute force on the other men that try to get near you because of their jealousy over you. The reason of their jealousy is said to be based on their love for you, nothing else. Uneducated ones are mostly talkative while educated ones give priority to listening to you first. You probably cannot find educated ones if you come to Turkey only for holidays lasting a few weeks. At holidays you will most encounter the uneducated ones who will be after your body. You can find educated ones in universities in your own country from exchange or graduate students. But they are nearly the most elite ones of educated ones that you cannot compare them with the educated ones of your own country. They are mostly smart and care more about feelings of a woman. They will even not try to have sex with you before a few months/years. They are mostly patient and wait for you to surrender emotionally (I mean to fall for them). The only thing that makes them get cold with you will be your lusting over other men. They never forgive this. And they are mostly suffer from obsession of aiming for a virgin girl. They think of this as a necessity for pure love. Well they seem to be mostly virgins themselves. So there seems to be nothing that will be inequal.
These are actually the statements of my turkish boyfriend. He considers himself in the educated group. And by the way they don't care about your religion if and only if you believe in the God. I came from a family that is a fanatic catholic. I meet my boyfriend at the university library. He says he is fond of my eyes and blonde hair. I don't know if it is the cause or not but he really seems to have fallen for me after the confirmation of my virginity after dating for about three months. It is somewhat embarrassing. But I am extremely happy with being near him. It feels safe and warm. There have been nobody who really struggles to understand me and my needs before him. For his physical features, he is a year older and a bit taller than me, has brown hair, white skin and green eyes, and a slightly muscular body (clear under a tshirt). He says these are rare for Turkish men. His occupation is in the engineering field and he expects me to become a teacher. We will marry in a four months time after his graduation.
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@: nyx
1 st of all congs and good luck. education just does not work for Turks only. What do you call an uneducated American person in English? Ignorent or should I say redneck?
And ignorency isnt just smt particular for Turkish men right? The ignorent Americans I've ever met in the USA highly exceed the number of ignorent Turks that I've ever met in Turkey. So should I say Turks are more educated? Hell no! Generalization is always wrong including this one..
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hewal
hey thats pretty normal.why shouldnt it be? i am not saying that just because im a turkish girl but there are many goodlooking and polite boys in turkey.i condemn the guys that said some turkish boys were rude and just thought about fucking someone in summer! additionally this kind of men do exist in every country.and when you really think about it you can get that turkish boys are jealous ofgirls due to the fact that they adopt and want to protect their girls from other guys.They love them so much that they dont want to share them with someone else.So thats not normal,thats special ;).
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@: hewal
siktir git lan hewal, kız Türk erkeği demiş burdan da nemalanmaya çalışma yalaka herif.
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As a Turkish, a little upset about it in that article. you can find everything you're looking for in a man, some may be overwhelmed at times, but love, care, honesty, fun, everything is open to the properties we have in our house. If you ever really loved a woman of Turkish men is not unhappy.
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len ne upset oluyon dallama kız Türk erkeklerine hastayım demiş sen upset olmuşun. Ya şu son cümlenin de Türkçesini yazda anlamaya çalışalım ne demek istediğini.!!
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Hiya! There is a certain TYPE of turkish guy which is usually the ones that have a ghetto style, the hoodies and all.
Those types are usually possesive over their girls and the jealous type. I feel like an idiot who is generalising... but boy! ive met so many, and they havent proven me wrong.

The way they see it is... "we fuck white girls, and marry turkish girls"
pretty sad right?
and dont get too excited when they start talking like they just came out an old black and white movie, with all the cheesy talking lol in turkish its pretty normal to talk like that, and it sounds better... but when they try it in english... it just sounds so cheesy... and most girls fall for it lol
I like the same sorta guys, but try and go for the educated type, and the sensible type of turkish guy. im sure they wont disappoint, by all means!
good luck x
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That is quite a bad generalisation that they f**k english girls and marry turkish girls. Large majority of Turkish men in Didim are married to English Girls. Despite what you think not many Turkish men like Turkish women because they want all the attention all of the time, and Im told by quite a few Turkish men that they can be boring. Just because one apple in the barrel is bad doesnt mean they all are.
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thanks for praising us ^^ YAY FOR TÜRKİYE!
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Fuck me and marry me young....
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this lady has some masters degree on Turkish guys. well done.!
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And sometimes Turkish mans could be angry because of his jobs or his another sth else. and it doesnt about you.
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You're not alone in this subject :)
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ne diyorsun sen orospu çocuğu?Neden genelliyorsun herkesi?Piçin evladı beğenmiyorsan çık git ülkemizden.Her sene bir sürü turist geliyo ve güzel bir şekilde ağırlanıyorlar.Senin gibi hanzolar sayesinde bazıları soğuyo ülkeden
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why is it wrong to date anyone and yes turkish is white to all the racist, i live in usa born in raised in chicago and i dont get it im half italian and half turkish and a turk is just like anybody else some bad guys some good, thats that.
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and bye the way im a turkish and italian and im catholic too so not all turkish people are muslim
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I asume your dad is Italian and mom is Turkish. If vice versa you'd be Muslim :))
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You all have to get in your head that the Turkish guys you are all talking about, most of you, are guys you meet on VACATION. They aren't dumbass,' they will try to milk you for everything you got. Most of Turkey's population is Sunni Muslim and poor!!! I'm Turkish and a male, I know how they think. They're just like any other guys, except they have nothing to lose and everything to gain in anyway they can. This is not necessarily because they're all jerks in the sense that you women think, instead, they're just young men born into poverty that are just trying to make it out of the ghetto or their current predicament. Yeah, Turkey seems like a very nice place from inside your hotel room and within the resorts, and on tour buses; but what about for the people that actually live there watching these Europeans everyday enjoying themselves more than the natives of that country. Think about their situation before you go making judgments about other people.
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Of Course It's Normal, Especially Mehmet Akif Alakurt lol
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EatMyShorts
Not all turkish men are abusive..i've been in a relationship with two turkush men before.they're not muslims,and they're not aggresive.but i did have a friend that loves middle eastern men so much..she only dates them..has casual sex with them..and she said that she had been abused by 2 of her ex turkish boyfriend...and theyre both muslims..apparently the muslims ones are very agrresive and all..the open minded ones..or non-muslim arent..but i may be wrong..some turkish muslims arent aggresive..we cant really say..so just be careful and know his background and all
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Just cause your Muslim dont make Muslim men aggressive.Does Christian mean beat their wifes? I bet a few do but not all Christian men do. Why say if your Muslim do. Doesn't make sense. Islam is a religion not a nationality.

I am engaged to a Turkish man so I know them. If your friend was abused by a Turkish Muslim man she probably deserved it. She probably flirting and dressing in ways to make her turkish man jelouse. They are Jelouse because stupid women who do not know how to treat a man. So yea act like a lady and you get treated with one. You have casual sex with One your gonna get treated like crap and thrown around. IM not saying its okay to be abuse but really. Watch how you act thats how they will treat you.

Show respect for yourself ladies.
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If u don't act like a lady u get throwed around,etc,there's not enoigh space for me I say wat I want say,if girl wants dress anyhow she can,he must accept her for grow in western society same she respect him,an by forcing theese ideas on her to change her dress comes down to religion,so be informed of that,no man ever neva can put hand on the woman,no real man anyway,don't make excuse for abuse pls ok mental or physical,islam is a gentle religion,no violent,I marry 13yrs to iranni dress how I want an make up,an wen I want go out anytime dance even he blow dry my long black hair an watch me put make up on talk to me an take care our son till I com home,this is trust real love an respect,not this way u explain,u idea rong,u sound veri young,not to patronise luk like u will learn the hard way sorry bout tha. Nadia
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Hi i am Turkish boy too. We care too much our wifes/friends because other kurdish-rude-pervert people may hurt or make them sad. We r not saying you cover your everywhere. Just wear something which is not hot. So they don't look your boobs or ass (Bad man will touch or slap too ) . İf something happens like that another good Turkish people will help you or your Turkish friend/husband. So if you find a good turkish man and not do/wear hot things outside. He doesnt get angry. When you r dating he may give lot of much gifts and after your gifts get lower because his money gets less so he couldnt buy. İn Türkiye gifts or another things are too expensive not like Europe or America. think we dont get lots of money so we couldnt buy much more things but his love is never finishes for you. Sorry for my bad english writing. Summary is if you find real Turkish man you can live with love forever but if you get a wrong man in Türkiye just divorce it and find another. Ohh i will say sth too. When you marrie with turkish man just go America or Europe ;)
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@: pcman34
Don't say kurdish,thas rascist wats kurdish to do with it,kurdish is ok,wats rong with u,u crazy talking bowt kurd,people make me laugh,goin from one subject to another,u wrong ,
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@: pcman34
Ohh dude Kurds are just lovely cuddly teddy bears, romantic mules, they don't kill their doughters for dating with a boy, they don't sell or barter their doughters for marriage, they never rape women, never hurt or beat women. Ignorent you boy!!
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@: pcman34
you f*cking narrow-minded fascist.. this has nothing to do with kurdish people.
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Turks can be O.K. depends on the guy but they usually just play you are see you as just a white girl unless there relgious in whcih case they would ahve nothing to do with you.
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hEY english lady its normal cuz were hot haha. and most of the girls from any country want to be with us or eeven want to get marry . we are protective against girls and were handsome hot what can i ay more ? lol
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Turkish face nothing next to iranean lol,how hot u feel now,don't brag,its unattractive,sombody is hott wen they don't know wat they have not a big head,,,nadia foreva lol
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For example I actually find english girls very sexy, is that normal? let me ask this way, is this question itself even normal. ur question is inormal and offensive but the way you feel is just the opposite.
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actually i want to ask something. all english girls same or different ? i am a turkish guy and i had english girlfriend i loved her but she left from me after long time then i found differnt english girls and its same. they come 1 or 2 times then they left and the reason is too far each other. always same reason.i am sure problem is not me but i think when i dont love they love me but when i love then its finish :/
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Try Irish girls. They are the best on the planet. Live and see..
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@: ELTURCO
why irish? why not a far east woman?
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i had read almost the same thing years ago from a Turkish guy also. distance is the most hateful thing i have ever felt because i am loving a Turkish man and i am a far east woman :(
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of course, it's normal... i love turkish men too and i know some of them are good and same are bad, but i never asked my self whether it's normal or not...
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I was wondering if anyone is coming to Bodrum to relax and go around this year...of course partying 24 7 is a must do :) Prefer British & Irish & Scottish & Russian girls. I'm a gentlemen, 34 years, civil engineer, working in Bodrum, not seeking for money (cause I have enough surely), and not a pervert as you can see everywhere in Bodrum. Discover and see :)
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Zuhahaha!! Someone is horny here and smells like balls! Gross...!!
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i am looking 4 a brit girl and i m turkish 2 :)
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Girl~ your so not alone with liking Turkish men!! They are charmers and have the hot, dark features ;)
My boyfriend of 3 years is Turkish and I am moving to Bodrum from California the end of this month. (We met in California.) Turkish men shouldn't be stereo typed because like all men, you have the good, the good looking & the bad & the ugly! lol
My man is well educated and he does have the jealousy and attitude to go with it, oh and of course the stellar dark hair and hazel eyes. We love each other and have been thru a lot and time apart has made me realize just how much I do need and love him. Best of luck on finding love and keeping it <3
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congs and good luck..
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I am just recently back from my first Holiday to Turkey (Kusadasi) and what an amazing place firstly.
We met some complete ignorant, sleazy turks but we also met some amazing, honest, friendly men.
Same as any country, some are nice, some arent.

I said before I went I would never meet a Turkish Fella and I did!!
Ended up meeting a lovely turk who seems very straight and the sex was definly something Ive never experienced before... very rough!!! but good!!
But he is definly jealous, didnt want me going into Bar Street and watching me like a hawke when I was in his restaurant and giving out to me about my alcohol intake.
He wants to meet me again but if he just calmed down abit, things would be fine.
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@: ellebi
so how did it go? keep us informed..
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Hello there,

As far as I observe, there is a quite interesting discussion here. I am a Turkish guy as well and I feel I could say a few words about my experiences and maybe talk about a few socialogical observations.

Despite being a little bit racist, I can perfectly understand why some girls are asking themself "Am I normal for loving Turkish men?" question. It's all about possible bad experiences they hear about. Of course, some of them are accurate. But isn't it accurate for other people with different passports? Hell yes.

The main reason of doubts is the religion, let's face it. When I met a girl in Europe and she learns about my nationality, the inevitable question is generally the same. "Are you all forcing your women to wear scarves?" You would be amazed how some girls are clueless about it because of the false image created by religious Muslims they see in their country, which is understandable.

First of all, if you are really wondering a Turkish guy, those holiday resorts are not the right place to find one. If you are there and looking for a quickie, it's enough to just stand up and wait a few seconds. I try to avoid southern coasts of Antalya (which is the most popular holiday choice for tourists) in my vacations because of this degenerated environment. Don't get me wrong, I am far from a conservative person and definitely not religious. It's very ugly to see every waiter, animator or hotel staff trying to get laid with every breathing female human being they see, from 15yo underage girls to 50yo women. It's just pathetic. I suppose girls are falling to this endless, sticky and persistent flirt attempts. It really disgusts me seeing this mansluts who are ready to fuck anything that breaths and every year more decent people are choosing to stay away from those resorts.

What I'm saying is be careful unless you are looking for a quickie. If you really like a guy who is showing interest to you, try the oldest trick in the book before sleeping with him. Ask your girlfriend to flirt with him and see what happens in order to be sure if you really wonder he is really into you or he is just another manslut.

This is partly because of general Turkish family values. Despite Western cities are getting more and more open-minded, Eastern is still conservative and sex is still partly a taboo among teens growing up. While an important rate of Turkish girls still believe in virginity until marriage in East, most of educated independent Turkish girls are choosy, caring about what friends & society thinks about their partner and as a result, they are looking for educational and financial background in men. So like water searching its way, these holiday resorts are the perfect destination for financially struggling and sex-hungry guys who are looking to spend the summer to earn some money and get laid.

I read some jealousy stories above which I hear all the time from girls I met whom had experiences with Turkish guys. The reason of the jealousy is mainly these guys are aware of the things I described above. It's not like they don't trust you. They don't trust other men. Plain and simple.

Let me tell you a story of mine. Once I met a very beautiful girl during my holiday. We started to wine and dine, etc. She was Turkish but raised and born in Australia. So her Turkish is pretty bad and we were speaking English all the time. While we were talking and walking through the restaurants, I heard very disgusting words from our behind about my girlfriend from a waiter, a protype I described earlier. He thought we were tourists just because we were speaking English and it was a normal thing for him. At least he was trying to explain that while I was kicking the shit out of him. (Turkish Men 101 - Do not disrespect our women anyhow, otherwise you will get your ass kicked.)

What I want to say is, you do not know Turkish men just because you made out with a waiter or two in your summer holiday in Mediterranean. You can't classify people according to their nationality just like that. For example, Eastern European girls are labelled as easy in Turkey because of this awful environment but one Polish and one Ukrainian girl I met in Paris last year was so smart and so intellectual that we talked like hours, and that categorization was just stupid. I also find British girls very attractive because of their accents, it's very peaceful to listen them but the ones I met in London were quite shallow and just wanted to get high and tear my clothes off. That doesn't mean they are all like that.
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aga özet yapsaydın be. kız net olarak demiş Türk erkeklerine hastayım, algıda seçicilik var obsesyon var. Irkçılıkla ne ilgisi var yarram.
Paso reklam yapmış dallama, burdan da iş çıkar mı tripleri de var öte yandan.
Yazık la üzüldüm bebenin kıyafetlerini parçalamak istemiş britler uff mu oldun bebiş?
yalanlarını da bilhare sikiim senin..
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Ah, the most important thing is of course the education. I suppose if you are wise enough to google it before expereince it, you can tell a person if he's well mannered or not. I get mad when some jerks treat these girls like a piece of meat. For me it's more important to earn the feelings of the woman I desire than her body. A real man should respect her woman and make her feel special.
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Now you got many girls flying on you sucker..
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Hey hon. that is a very normal attidute. Dont mind this ultra humanist and (most probably) leftist roland3tr human being.
As a Turkish man I like mostly Slav,Anglo Saxon and Celtic girls! That doesnt make me racist huh? Ohh it is maybe too general so let me get more specific. Lets say Irish girls are my fav.
This is called sellective perspection and having such perspective makes you epicurean :))
So, Turkish men being point of interest for you is really something. Hope to see u as our bride in the shortest possible time and I hope you live happily with min 3 kids (thats the order of Turkish president!) in Turkey.
Good luck hon..

Ps to Roland3tr: Hey dude go grab some life and have some epicure dont be wasted with that ultra iq/eq.

I guess this guy has 53 more prototypes still alive!!
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You are an idiot. Turkish men are rapist dogs that beat women. Do some research at how many naive European girls go to Turkey to find a romantic dark man that acts like a 'real man' only to get raped, beaten and sometimes murdered.

You're a disgrace to your own people
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Turkish women however give great blowjobs
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Turkish women, like Iranian women, come to western countries like Germany, Australia, Italy away from their protective parents and brothers, go to clubs and sleep around because they know they can't get away with it in Turkey. Genuine cock monsters
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I am Turkish..you are normal.. there are a lot of people who find some guys attractive cause of their nationality.About the dresses and etc.I dont want my woman to wear attractive(short ones) clothes because i dont want someone to look at my woman.If they do that i will fight for her.It makes most of the Turkish men angry.So pay attention at your clothes ;) ( My english is not very good i hope you understood me)
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Do Turks like it up the ass like Greeks?
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If a Turkish guy is educated, he knows what to do and behaves logically.But there are a lot of immigrants which immigrate from the village to big city in Turkey.Some of them finish high school and university and get cultured, but some of them don't educate and wander about the streets.You can understand it if you see these 2 different characters, because people who characterized like my sentences are everywhere in the world but there can be little more because of our population :)
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Hey there. Firstly I want to thank everyone that has written on here. I went to Turkey for the first time A month ago I had no intentions of any sort of holiday romance and ended up meeting a great stunning guy with a good job just over the road from where we stayed, he also new all the staff at my hotel who were also lovely people. we swapped travel stories and pictures over a few drinks. And after a couple of meetings. He invited me to his apartment and he treated me like an absolute princess. better than any man at home. he's 28 im 29 and we get on great. I ended up staying there for the rest of my holiday. Hes now invited me over for a week and I told him I'd give him money for letting me stay because it was only fair and he would not here a word of it. as he'll be working during the day he's organised stuff for me to do. We chat everyday and he doesn't try to hide me away. Nothing may come of it but this is the way dating should be. 36 days and counting :) xx
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Turkish boys like 15 years old wants show his self much awesome and he lies
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I've never met a Turkish guy that wasn't a perverted freak and the jealously thing its true they act like they own their girlfriends or wife the way you own property I really hope not all or majority of Turkish men are like this I really hope I'm stereotyping cos for years I've been disgusted with their attitude and some Egyptian men are pretty much the same
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Get back in the kitchen and make me some more tabouleh!!
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idiot thinks that tabouleh is Turkish!!
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poor turkish women force themselves to love them, because they're stuck with them. it's not like they have any other choice. what's your excuse? do you favour honour killing and domestic violence too? cause they are really good at those things.
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ohh and my name is michael and im catholic well jeez real controlling huh my dad is muslim and named jusien and my mom is italian and catholic and guess what crazy my father went with what my mother wanted my name is michael after her uncle and i am a catholic that went to a private catholic school, and yes they are happily married for 33 years. so your saying that a turk is crazy beats women and kills for honor huh? your wrong lady
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wtf are you 4 real obviously you dated or married a turk and it offends me that you say those things i would never ever hurt or beat a women or even yell my woman loves me and i would never make her feel any harm never, like i said im an american that is half turkish and half italian and yes catholic and my whole side of my turkish family are down to earth relaxed and are controlled by their wives lol so dont talk to me about poor this and poor that you heartless wench, i would be scared to be your boyfriend, and honor killing lol omg and bye the way violence is not just about fists its also about crazy racist people likeyou spewing hatred, pathetic
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For me they are not so awesome because most of them are not handsome.Plus they are too hairy. They want to f**k all the girls around themselves yet again they want to marry with a virgin girl. However, logically this is not possible. As you see, they are not that brainy as well. In addition to all, they view women as kitchen robots and if their partners know more about sex than they do they feel like they are being insulted.But again what i am doing is a generalisation so there might be exceptions.
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@: great34
wow lol i dont know if your talking about americans that are turkish,but im half turkish and half italian so you prob think im a real scum that hates women and look for 15 year old virgins, well no not at all i have more respect for women than i do men,but wow lady there is bad men and yes ugly mean bad women too race doesnt mean sh.t, i bet you i am better looking than any man you could ever wish to be with and not trying to be cocky but its such a dumb ass comment you have and without looking at your face not only are you ugly on the inside your prob one ugly women
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hi i just wanna say that some of the turks just use westen girls for sex until they want to get married then they will find a virgin girl. however some dont care if u are virgin or not it depends on how much they love you. iv met some really bad ones but also some really nice 1s and in 2wks i will be married to a kurdish guy but he was born in turkey and he is really nice it depends u get good n bad where ever u go
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@: sara10
lot s of kurdish people borns in Türkiye. Be careful from who comes from Turkey's east. Because kurdish people wants to destroy Türkiye
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@: pcman34
I have been to turkey many many times and met many turkish and kurdish men some i have known for years and have come very good friends some have been lovers and very good ones at that, they beat the english men without even trying, there is good turkish and good kurdish do not class all the same, they both have very differant views thats all one is more aggressive the other gentle-they do not like each other i can understand why their lives are differant, i suggest you study each of them-both can become lifelong friends
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According to my blonde friend, Callum: no.
He, however, likes boys. So... yeah.
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HELL NO ! YOU ARE SO SICK..
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@: XAMPOUS
You too.
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