I'm a black man and for a while I've fought the urge inside to admit to myself I only like white women but it's true I can only find myself to be attracted to white women. I have zero interest in black women, is this normal? Am I betraying my race for thinking the White Woman is better?
i love black men. my boyfriend is black.
and i absolutely love himm.
I mean they're people!
it's today's society that influencing people to be with partners who are opposite to one's race. As a black girl i feel so neglected by my black man becoz they think black skin is dirty and they smells, jus to feel th epart black man are escaping that and believeing they are attraced to white womens but in fact u have a hate with black women for being black
but on the other hand if u feel attracted to a person u should go for it, it shouldnt matter what skin they,ve got
like someone of a different race doesn't mean your betraying your own, remember that.
I'm black & i love both black & white men; no problem with that.
its your opinion and every one is entitle to their own opinion :) and you are normal for that, nothing wrong with making your own decision ...
like i prefer black men than white.. black men are way better :) xx
PS kind of shocked at the racisim on this site
One other point: 99.99% of these "I only date white" type of guys and girls also harbor a whole lot of HOSTILITY toward people of their own race, particularly the opposite sex. That's telling. Even the nonblack people (asians, latins, etc.) who date white are generally ultra-bigots against black people -- overcompensating for their own distance from "white" psychologically.
Interracial dating would be great, if IT DIDN'T LOOK SO MUCH LIKE RACISM ITSELF. As such, it's just a more insidious form of racism (more specifically, "white worship"), undermining black-on-black relations, and black/other minority relations. I'll pass.
JK no your not.
We all have our preferences, but you need to make sure yours is not on a stereotype like "their hair is straighter" or "they put out easier", because that is just ignorant.
I think it's all *meant* to get you stuck on anger and alienation, so instead of having a market where your chances of finding someone worth something are fairly abundant, you walk a relative desert. If one in 100 white women are open to dating a black male, that still doesn't replace the size of the market you'd enjoy if our own culture were functioning.
So now you're seeing lots & lots of black people on ice... just like it's supposed to work. It would be interesting to trace the fate of these black people who "only like white" over the years. I'd bet that far fewer end up with fulfillment and families than those who weren't trapped on the flypaper...
and now all black females want babies daddy's and drama. Maybe you need to stop dating them hood rats and go introduce yourself to a real black women and then come to a conclusion. Im a black girl who was not raised on the side of the road and remarks like yours just make me so irritated with my own race and proves to the world how ignorant we can be sometimes. You don't put down your race your supposed to want to better it.
I believe there are pros and cons for all races. Most Black women I know can be a little aggressive and most white women I know seem to be more passive.
Now I have seen more white women break down and cry when they are having issues, and black women will just deal with it and handle it.
White women are very attractive, black women are very attractive (hair,eyes, skin) a black women's curves are naturally wonderful, and skin and comes in lots of different flavors.
If you prefer white women because of, versus in spite of ..the black woman.
There is nothing wrong with you.