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"I'm a Black man who only likes white women!"
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I'm a black man and for a while I've fought the urge inside to admit to myself I only like white women but it's true I can only find myself to be attracted to white women. I have zero interest in black women, is this normal? Am I betraying my race for thinking the White Woman is better?
Do you think it's normal?
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white women are better than black women your correct
@: flikr
LMAO.
Even as late as the 80's it was very uncommon for a mixed couple to walk around holding hands and going out to a movie so I can understand why this is so common now. It's almost not taboo anymore. If race is what attracts you to someone then so be it, but I think it matters more of what's on the inside then the outward appearance.
im the exact same as you, cept im a white chick and i only like black guys.. its normal, everyone likes a "type of look" and yours is white. Your not betraying your race at all, its just what your into! chillll:):)
It's totally fine....you're not betraying your race, your just being honest with yourself. Think about it, if you went out with lots of black women, and you weren't attracted to any of them, you'd be betraying yourself. So yeah...it's just your preference.
i think its great u admit this.
i love black men. my boyfriend is black.
and i absolutely love himm.
wth is wrong wit black women!
I mean they're people!
at the end of the day every ones a human being... u like white woman big deal ...totally normal :):):) , honestly i think u should connect to a person who u can talk to , someone beautifully white on the inside...irrespective of whatever color on the outside
on dis subject i can go one forever !

it's today's society that influencing people to be with partners who are opposite to one's race. As a black girl i feel so neglected by my black man becoz they think black skin is dirty and they smells, jus to feel th epart black man are escaping that and believeing they are attraced to white womens but in fact u have a hate with black women for being black

but on the other hand if u feel attracted to a person u should go for it, it shouldnt matter what skin they,ve got
Fat white women or hot ones?
lolol don't ever say you're betraying your race.

like someone of a different race doesn't mean your betraying your own, remember that.

I'm black & i love both black & white men; no problem with that.
You're right. They are attractive. But it doesn't mean anything, you just really like them. ;)
nothing's wrong with you. If it wasn't for people like you I wouldn't have been born. Even though I am mixed (most people think I am black with extremely good-looks and long hair lol) I like mainly white guys.
I guess that's just who you go for
lol this is great. Im a black man that ONLY dates white girls. Never feel ashamed or like you are "betraying your race". After all you arent the first black guy to only like white girls and you DEF wont be the last. You cant help who you like.
well welcome to my life i love black guys only...my friends have no problem with it nor my parent...u are not betraying your race just keep doing what your doing!!
it is your choice weather you like white women or black women,
its your opinion and every one is entitle to their own opinion :) and you are normal for that, nothing wrong with making your own decision ...
like i prefer black men than white.. black men are way better :) xx
its totally fine dont listen to any of these people trying to tell you it isn't. it is just like people now a days like say teens, some teen girls might say i only go for those skater, emo type of guys , cause they are just more my type , or all im attracted to. or maybe they like the g's and swagger about them, all people are different. its ok if your only attracted to white women or only attractred to black women no matter what your race. its like a man being attracted to only men . its fine , you maybe shouldnt have posted on here though because alot of people may jus discourage you even more.
nah it's just your preference, you're not betraying anyone
i don't think you are "betraying your race" now days it's normal to see black and white together...
im the exact sam eway man . im on of those i guess "educated black man from an other country " i think black girls here ( for the most ) are compleat getho wast of time .
You just have a "Type" nothing wrong with that at all. You shouldn't feel guilty if its who you are. You don't owe your race one single thing, if anyone tells you that they are guilt tripping you and trying to break your stride. What makes you happy brother.

PS kind of shocked at the racisim on this site
I'm a white woman, but I only like black men.
I understand how everyone likes a "type", but for all you who find yourself attracted exclusively to white people please bear in mind, you've been presented with an endless calvacade, an endless parade of images of "white is right" "white guys are heros" "white is normal" "white women are beauties" "black is gloom and doom" "black babies are tragic" "black is not to be trusted" etc, etc, since the day your mom sat you down in front of the tv to keep you quiet while she does her chores. Years and years and years and YEARS of this stuff. Some people cave to it, psychologically. Is that you?

One other point: 99.99% of these "I only date white" type of guys and girls also harbor a whole lot of HOSTILITY toward people of their own race, particularly the opposite sex. That's telling. Even the nonblack people (asians, latins, etc.) who date white are generally ultra-bigots against black people -- overcompensating for their own distance from "white" psychologically.

Interracial dating would be great, if IT DIDN'T LOOK SO MUCH LIKE RACISM ITSELF. As such, it's just a more insidious form of racism (more specifically, "white worship"), undermining black-on-black relations, and black/other minority relations. I'll pass.
i just posted one saying im a white woman attracted to black men...loving your story and i think we're definitely normal!
Most likely you have issues. Some bad seeds in your life made you come to this decision. You are betraying your race just by saying that white women are better. You are comparing black and white..skin color! You need therapy!
Cloud is correct! Hostility is the main issue and self hate!
I am a black male .. and used to date just black girls .... but they hurt me so much ... and they are all on the same bullshit ... it seems they dont want anything out of life but a whole bunch of baby daddys and drama .... I think white women understand life and they also understand how to treat a man alot better than black women.... It seems that White women are more family orientated than Black women... and i love that ... I think if I was to marry a white women i would be much happier than if i was to marry a black women ......
another day ... and black women keep proving my point....smh ..... why are their attitudes so negative and always bad ... this shit is really sad
nah man, white chicks are hot. i love all races, but there so many hot white girls. im white though
I am a younger looking 51 ..I never dated out of my ethnic group (hispanic with white skin) until couple of months ago that a fellow church member ask me out .... He is single, handsome and he is african american ...We have been out 5 or 6 times already and everytime we feel more attracted to each other so.... I am not looking at his color but at his attitudes toward life and things ...That is what really matters! . Color is unimportant .
My neighbor likes Asians only!
Yes, yes you are.
JK no your not.
We all have our preferences, but you need to make sure yours is not on a stereotype like "their hair is straighter" or "they put out easier", because that is just ignorant.
i am white women who like`s ONLY BLACK GUYS
Trublackman, yes, black women are a tough road to walk these days. Ironically, that's also a product of mindknots tied by the moving images...

I think it's all *meant* to get you stuck on anger and alienation, so instead of having a market where your chances of finding someone worth something are fairly abundant, you walk a relative desert. If one in 100 white women are open to dating a black male, that still doesn't replace the size of the market you'd enjoy if our own culture were functioning.

So now you're seeing lots & lots of black people on ice... just like it's supposed to work. It would be interesting to trace the fate of these black people who "only like white" over the years. I'd bet that far fewer end up with fulfillment and families than those who weren't trapped on the flypaper...
Im a black female and I say more power to you. Don't feed into that "betraying your race" bu** sh**. Love is an affair of the heart,not of skin tone. Be careful to make sure that being white isn't the only reason you like a women. Don't say that you don't like an entire race of something cause you never know your soul mate could pass you right on by, but you didn't even give her a second glance because she wasn't white. Don't just exclude and entire group of women based of vanity.
See statements like this are always the roots of race issues. Those are yor personal experiences with women. You dated some B******
and now all black females want babies daddy's and drama. Maybe you need to stop dating them hood rats and go introduce yourself to a real black women and then come to a conclusion. Im a black girl who was not raised on the side of the road and remarks like yours just make me so irritated with my own race and proves to the world how ignorant we can be sometimes. You don't put down your race your supposed to want to better it.
I am black, and I actually find most black women to be unnattractive. For some reason, I just love pale, soft looking skin. Even within Caucasians I am choosy. It has nothing to do with the way society views different races. On top of that, I love women who are short, slender, demure, and high-pitched. It is more accurate to say that my "type" occurs least commonly among black women than to say that I just do not like them. Nobody is entirely immune to influence from society though; I suppose watching "cheaters" has not helped to endear me to black women any more.
I'm a black female and I don't think you're betraying you're race by dating a white female, I do have a problem with you or anyone else for that matter who thinks any one race is superior to the other. There are good and bad apples in any race. To some of the brothers who posted earlier with stereotypes of black women being loud, obnoxious, untrustworthy etc. it's probably because you are attracted too/attract those types. Not all black women are the same just like not all white women or women of any culture/ethnicity are the same. I personally don't mind dating any race as long as I find a person that treats me well and likes me for me. After all you wouldn't dare catch me saying I don't want a black person because all of them are thugs. I know it's not true. Anyways I'm not out to change anyone's opinion-just out to enlighten them.
Hey guy you should stuff up your eyes to all that bleating "it's ok dude, just excercise your preference, no prooooblem.." HORSEPOO Most white men prefer white women just like black men do and those same whites for the sake of pc have to pretend to enjoy seeing a good precentage of white women go exclusively black. So uh, it's ok for black men to racially discriminate against their women and ok too for white women to be racist against their own men. So that makes racism itself totally okay, don't it, and if so what ever the flyin' fck was all the fuss about racism?
It depends. What are the reasons you are not attracted to black women (personalities,looks, etc..)

I believe there are pros and cons for all races. Most Black women I know can be a little aggressive and most white women I know seem to be more passive.

Now I have seen more white women break down and cry when they are having issues, and black women will just deal with it and handle it.

White women are very attractive, black women are very attractive (hair,eyes, skin) a black women's curves are naturally wonderful, and skin and comes in lots of different flavors.

If you prefer white women because of, versus in spite of ..the black woman.

There is nothing wrong with you.
i love only black woman..i am white..and black woman are sronger than white woman..sexier than white woman..more loyal than white woman..better to talk to than white woman...who wants a spoiled white woman who will turn her back on you if you dont fit in to the lets make it all look perfect lifestyle.
I kinda understand. Black women don't treat us right anymore. They can't cook (americanized). Most are gold diggers and quick to embarass u in public. BUT I got me a good blk woman now so I can't complain. Maybe u kust been lookin in the wrong places. But nothing wrong wit dating a white woman
why the fuck do all black ppl (and im black puerto rican) have to put color in what they say you could have easily said hey im attractive to blond skinney bitches and would have gotten the response you were probably looking for and then some smart guy would have said look: blond bitches usually look real clean got make up on size zero skirt and DDs then this anonymous guy would have said well you could be attracted to her cause of her boobs because big boobs are often unconsciously affiliated with breast feeding and her cleanliness contributes to the fact of having a healthy child its part of our instinct that attracts us to women which many people are unaware of.........no im not saying that black girls arent clean but......them bitches sometimes smell like fucking onions
for goodness sake, you like who you like! im white, and i'm a really horrible girl! i treat men like poo most of the time! you cant just rule out every woman who isnt white because you've had bad experiences. if you get to know a nice girl, it wont matter if she's black, white or green. i'm not being cheesey,but its whats on the inside that counts :)