i'm deeply in love with my student

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Well, if this is true, you must know there's no way you could ever act on your desires while you are her teacher, as it would be abusing a position of responsibility. Is there any chance you could take some time off just to get away and clear your head for a bit?

cut it off before it's too late. she's underage!!!

sorry bud,
but you have to change schools.

wrongwrongwrong don't u touch that gurl lol ull end up lik mr. sturgeon at my school

From your entry, I'm gonna assume that you've had relations with this girl already. I'm not even gonna harp on you about the attraction you have for her. I bet she embodies everything good about a female. She's young, wide-eyed, carefree and makes you feel alive and happy when your around her. But c'mon, stop being shortsighted. What do you and a 15 yearold have in common? This can only end badly for you.

sry dude (jailbait) :P you can't touch her or show any of the feelings you may have for her. I suggest you switch schools or take some time off to get her out of your head (good ways to do so include: dating, spending time with family, finding a hobby, etc.)

Good Luck and remember she's underage

The way the message is written, I would say this is somewhat fake. No offense, it's just my opinion. But if by some bizarre reason that you really are.. I am sorry to say that you can't do anything about her. Everybody's right, you don't want to lose your job don't you? & the most important answer is yes, this can happpen & I personally think this is normal. I mean, this happens to students, why not to adults? But they rarely happen.

You should be locked up, and if you do touch her, there are many, many charges that can be laid against you...you should be ashamed to be a teacher, you should resign.

you need to quit your job asap, and probably see some kind of phsyciatrist. you have some issues, and your a pervert that needs help.

First of all, this is a joke.

I doubt any teacher would have terrible grammar errors as you have. Please do something worth your time. This is not funny at all.

Umm... are you serious? Not a good idea! She's underage1! But i guess the laws are different depending on where you are so... not that I'm saying it's okay. Maybe wait 'til she's overage?

And to hellojellohw - this might not be a joke. there are so many teachers at my school who cannot spell and make many grammar mistakes when it comes to their own work.

u gotta get a tranfer u can go to jail man get out before it gets worse dont be looked at as a perv for the rest of uor life for somthing like that

DON'T DO ANYTHING!!!!!! first off, i'll be honest w/ you...that makes you a total pedophile. secondly, if you do anything to her or w/ her, you will find yourself fired from your job & locked up in jail & on the sex offender registry. if you really love her, wait until she's 18 & graduates...please.

Let's make a checklist:

oh em gee that is nasty

You can but it's a story with no tomorrow. It depends of your plans.

Okay, first of all, this is perfectly normal - as a youthful and attractive female, she is designed to attract an older male, and as a healthy older male (which i'm assuming your are) you are designed (by millions of years of evolution) to be attracted to her.

So, now that we have established the normality of the situation, let's address some solutions. I am assuming that you know this girl well enought to confirm that you are genuinely in love with her, as opposed to merely infatuated with her looks? If it is just a physical attraction, then forget it, but if it's really love... well, love knows no boundaries.

1. You can choose not to act, and continue as normal, gradually becoming more bitter, until she finds someone else, falls in love and you die unhappy and alone.

2. You can move schools and attempt to strike up a relationship with her, now that the teacher-pupil relationship obstacle is removed

3. You can pull a move on her now - might work, might not - but odds are, sooner or later people will find out

cut the man some slack, guys.
It happens.
:)

But heed this warning... If she doesnt know, wait. Wait until its legal. If somebody finds out, well then its all over. and i dont just mean your relationship.
Surely there's no reason you guys can be friends until she's 18 (providing you live in the states), even though you are teacher and student, just dont get too close. I'm friends with alot of my old highschool teachers,and sometimes i go out to clubs with my old english teacher. hehe. Shes crazy. of course i know this is a bit different now, since im 20, but i was good friends with them even back when i was 15 and 16 years old.

But TheIncorrigible is right, if its just a physical attraction, your best bet is to drop it.

best wishes

whoops typo!! ^^; i meant "surely theres no reason you guys CANT be friends" hehe.

What's not to like? She's young. She's probably innocent. She's growing; and your wittnissing it...but from her perspective you are an adult. You have to remember that how you act around her is going to stick with her for the rest of her life. Even if it's just a 'moment' for you. Things are far clearer and potent when your younger. You may deeply affect her... because having a fully grown man fall in love with her could be quite intimidating; so be cautious...

perve.

This story actually touched me in a way. I think the author knows that it would be wrong to try anything and I don't believe that it makes him a pedophile or a perv. It's not as if 15 years old is pre-pubescent in most cases, even if she is underage.

I think you should probably look for love elswhere to avoid thinking about your student. If you pull a move on her you could go to jail for statutory rape or something like that. I'm not sure what it's called.

I agree... well obviously i agree.
I met my current love when i was 15.
I was underage and obviously he was older. much older :P
But that was five years ago, and we've been together ever since.
Love is love, no matter what angle you look at it from.

Its all been said. But I do wonder what is missing in your life in adult relationships for you to term this lust for a 15 year old into "love."

oh, how I would love to sexual realatshiopns with my teacher!
Not.
Seriously, you do know that you CANNOT act on your feelings, right? Okay.. I don't know what to say. DONT TELL HER!
Treat her like any other student, avoid makeing eye contact with her. She's probably severly freaked out as it is. I had that problem once. her's, not yours. I was rather scared that my teacher was deeply in love with me. Altohugh I don't think that anymore. It was really creepy, he was old. But he's retiring now, so it's all good, anway.

Go away for a while (take a break or a vacation) THEN come back and see if you feel the same way. Sometimes separation is good for the sou, because you see her every week I imagine, so it's stiffling you.

Just take a break and breath for a while.

I already commented that lust isn't love & I think this is fake - its a 15 year old with a crush on a teacher.

Hmmmm either wait until shes the right age or take a long break and clear your head. Take your pick ^_~

here are two words that will maybe help you decide what to do "statutory rape"

You WILL GO TO JAIL. AND NEVER GET OUT.

Here's some advice from a guy who's daughter's best friend decided that I was the man that she couldn't not have--when she was 14.

It's okay to be attracted. I'll be honest that I thought about it but man, 14. My daughter was 14. I saw her as a daughter--she didn't have a living father and I have always seen that it was a mixed up feeling for her. They're girls, going through a lot of stuff. The worst thing you could do is indulge because she's got a long life to live-relatively--before she's an adult.

You can't do anything. If it's that tough, leave the school. Otherwise be a man and act gallant. Understand that you're attracted to her but that's all it can ever be.

The girl I'm referencing and that attraction? I'm going to be at her wedding next month. She's a great person and I'm so proud of her. She just turned 28. The attraction is still there--by her admission and I had to fess up my own feelings one night as we ended up sitting and drinking. But nothing happened. She's got a great man that's not old enough to be her dad. I respect her, my daughter, and myself too much to have even ever done anything, even as adults.

Be gallant, be a man. Understand your attraction is natural but don't act on it. That's a good lesson for her too.

prison......
she's underage

Learn to spell Stupid "gurl"
BACK TO THE TOPIC:
I suggest you to search for another woman and change schools ASAP.

OMG you HAVE to stop thinking about her if you get serious then it could ruin evreything you will be fired and have a bad reccomandation form for any jobs and you could get the child in loads of trouble If i was you take time off work

if you do something your going to be put in jail. it would be better if you jus forgot about it. and hopped on the internet look up some sexi singles (your age) and flirt. go on some dates and full deeply in love with the girl of your dreams. but she has to be YOUR AGE( or older if thats what you want).

You have to do something? Yeah, you HAVE to do something, you freaking pedo. See a psychiatrist and quit being a teacher, you little perv.

Are you a gym teacher or something? Because it's hard to believe a teacher would write so poorly. You should quit your job and go into another field, one that doesn't involve young teenage girls.

first off...this is fake. a teacher wouldnt wouldnt write like this. second of all. a teacher wouldnt do this..!!?!!?!?!?!?!?!? and third of all the person who did this was prob bored and just wanted to see peoples reactions....see now i even i reacted

Yeah, unless you're a P.E. teacher this is fake because that grammer makes no sense.
If it isn't, I apologise but I'm 99.9% sure.

eww thats disgusting.

See ya in prison dude! You are just fantsizing about her, she really doesn't love you. You need some major help before we see you on the evening news!

Lock em' up boys

Take her and run.

thattts horrible, leave the school

i guess she does'nt really understand.. and you, too, should realize that even if you weren't her teacher such a relationship just couldn't last.. she's a kid and you're a man.. you both think differently.. just try to convince yourself to wait a few years... :)

how old are you? :)

Sick f*ck. No, that is gross and weird.

This isn't even real.....for one, teachers don't type like kids do. Oh snap.