i married my wife 26 years ago when I was 18 and she was 19.I have never slept with anyone else,but I have loved her sister with all of my heart for the same length of time.I can hardly stand to be close to her unless we are both drunk.Her husband makes a lot of money but hardly spends anytime with her.She goes on vacation with us which I love but that just makes me love her more.My wife likes to go to sleep around 9 pm ,and I stay up drinking with my sister in law until 1 or 2 am
If you love her, why marry your wife? It will be such a torture for your wife to have her husband who doesn't love her but her sister.
And ITS NORMAL, for a man who is not devoted to his woman.
Don't worry about it, I'm sure your never deceive your wife.
It's true betrayal
Avoid seeing her.. just go out do something when she's in your house .. if you really love your wife
What you're doing is really selfish. You please yourself by spending much time with your sister in law.. That ain't right.
sometimes people want what they cant have and once they get what they have its pplop boring.
not what you truly wanted.
Whether or not you act on it and any repercussions from your actions is a different matter, but, it's perfectly normal to love, or have intense feelings for, more than one person at a time. Particularly people who you are around for a long time.
Between the lines, it seems like you're looking for someone to say it's ok to leave your current situation and have a go at something new with this other woman...
Maybe it is and maybe it isn't. Weigh up what you have first, and what you would lose, and what damage you would cause.
Maybe you would be happy with just loving her from afar. Who knows what might happen in the future?
Maybe you would be happier than ever.
Anyway, keep on drinking and you will eventually accidently die or something so you won't have to worry about all this.