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I'm in love with my wife's sister
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i married my wife 26 years ago when I was 18 and she was 19.I have never slept with anyone else,but I have loved her sister with all of my heart for the same length of time.I can hardly stand to be close to her unless we are both drunk.Her husband makes a lot of money but hardly spends anytime with her.She goes on vacation with us which I love but that just makes me love her more.My wife likes to go to sleep around 9 pm ,and I stay up drinking with my sister in law until 1 or 2 am
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Comments (17)
well..im not sure if this is normal but it sure does happen alot in relationships(in love with sister/brother,etc)..im just suprised you havent done anything with the sister yet...do you fight temptation?
You should just not get into her sister, try to get away from her... if you accidentely fuck your wifes sister then you are pretty much banged.
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i have to fight the temptation everyday,i see my sister in law about 3 times per week and that makes it harder
You shouldn't do this... You are BETRAYING your wife,indirectly.How could you do this?
If you love her, why marry your wife? It will be such a torture for your wife to have her husband who doesn't love her but her sister.
And ITS NORMAL, for a man who is not devoted to his woman.
what you gotta do is get them both drunk and get them to do a 3 way with you
Go see a counsellor. Now. There is a lot that is wrong in all these relationships and you know it, including the boozing.
I think you may need just to take a step back and really think about both of your relationships with these two ladies, and think whom yo ulove more, and who truly loves you. It's very complicated, but you need to think it over.
You love your wife but like a normal man, you need a "challenge" a impossible dream.

Don't worry about it, I'm sure your never deceive your wife.
Divorce your wife if you can't get over it, and NEVER do anything with her sister. That would be the worst crime of love in the world. If you do get divorced as sad as it is, you will be away from her sister and be able to move past it easier. And you'll eventually find someone to love just as much. And next time don't be an ass and marry someone you don't love with all your heart.
you are laying here, its not possible that you booze with her too frequently & not done anything yet! dude have courage to tell the truth on this forum. nobody knows you here , only it will give us all some insight into another person's mind & life....thanks anyway for sharing...
THAT CAN'T BE RIGHT!

It's true betrayal

Avoid seeing her.. just go out do something when she's in your house .. if you really love your wife

What you're doing is really selfish. You please yourself by spending much time with your sister in law.. That ain't right.
i if someone told me they were in love with my sister i would be MUCH happier if they told me... and dont think for a second your wife doesnt know.... SHE DOES
if you love her sister more than you love your wife. then you hsould get a divorce.

sometimes people want what they cant have and once they get what they have its pplop boring.
not what you truly wanted.
totally agree..
I wouldnt say you love her I would say you just want to make her squeal. i did the same thing in high school found out the sister wasnt better.
It's perfectly normal, so stop worrying about it.

Whether or not you act on it and any repercussions from your actions is a different matter, but, it's perfectly normal to love, or have intense feelings for, more than one person at a time. Particularly people who you are around for a long time.

Between the lines, it seems like you're looking for someone to say it's ok to leave your current situation and have a go at something new with this other woman...

Maybe it is and maybe it isn't. Weigh up what you have first, and what you would lose, and what damage you would cause.

Maybe you would be happy with just loving her from afar. Who knows what might happen in the future?
Maybe if you had her you wouldn't want her anymore and screwed the rest of your life.
Maybe you would be happier than ever.
Anyway, keep on drinking and you will eventually accidently die or something so you won't have to worry about all this.