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I'm not possesive just territorial
My BF is a bartender. His job is very social, there's a lot of drinking and goofing off. Problem is my BF is pretty hot and these girls he works with are all single (because that binge drinking isn't good for a long term relationship). I know that he's not screwing around (if he was I'd dump him) and he doesn't really flirt with these chicks. But they are always all over him, grabbing his ass, licking his neck, flashing him etc etc.
At first I was OK with it, just thought "Ha! all the chicks want my guy!" but it's been two years now and I'm really over it. They're always really nice when I stop by and when I've mentioned that maybe they could keep their hands to themselves while I'm sitting there, they just laugh and say they're playing.
But it's really making me uncomfortable, is causing a bit a strain and has made me lose all respect for these girl. Is this normal?
At first I was OK with it, just thought "Ha! all the chicks want my guy!" but it's been two years now and I'm really over it. They're always really nice when I stop by and when I've mentioned that maybe they could keep their hands to themselves while I'm sitting there, they just laugh and say they're playing.
But it's really making me uncomfortable, is causing a bit a strain and has made me lose all respect for these girl. Is this normal?
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Moi (588)
I can't blame you for feeling the way you do. I'd feel the same. But that goes with the territory of him being a bartender. He let them touch him when he first started the job, so they will keep on touching him UNLESS he tells them not to. There's no use in you telling them to keep their hands off him, those sluts won't listen anyway. Who says you have to respect them anyway?! I sure wouldn't, I don't touch or play with what's not mine.
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ItIsntNormal (1877)
I couldn't deal with my fiance having a job where drunk women touch him, and he lets it happen. You're a bigger person than me, that's for sure.
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uminum (2138)
They're drunk - that's what drunk people do! Your bf is being faithful - tis always gd
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king (2333)
if you tell em not to, it wont do any good, if your bf says dont do it cos you dont like it, it wont do any good, he has to say dont do it cos HE dont like it. otherwise it just increases the naughtyness of it. im sure they dont mean no harm but it is doing harm. im way too possessive to put up with that shit. just get a job at a bar and be faithful but get hit on all the time and see how he takes it. if he's fine then get used to it or move on. but you are so NOT NORMAL for your feelings - a normal person would have blown their top by now. well done.
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