I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-obsessed-with-my-boyfriend-s-ex-30523/ Maybe try treesome' It might help to release pressure... Sex is always a solution. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-obsessed-with-my-boyfriend-s-ex-30523/#comment-319603 2009-10-28 03:31:41 It's perfectly normal to be jealous of someone. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-obsessed-with-my-boyfriend-s-ex-30523/#comment-302291 2009-07-27 15:36:43 You might want to get a proffesionals point of view you seem to have very low self steem. You should know what someone has doesn't make a person it's what's inside and how you project yourself to others. And why is he with you know' If you say she is all this... Obviously there is something missing and you should try and search for things you like to do an maintain urself occupied if he is worth it don't let this issue ruin your relationship...Everyone is equal there isn't no someone is better than others http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-obsessed-with-my-boyfriend-s-ex-30523/#comment-298006 2009-07-02 15:40:30 no, perfectly normal. i'm really obsessed with my fiance's ex...like i stalk her on facebook all the time. i think it's because ex's have shared a part of your sig. other's life that you can never share with them. It creates jealousy. One thing to keep in mind though, is that men and women look at past relationships differently. For your bf, the ex is part of his past. Something that is over and done with. To him, she has no relevance to the present. Whereas, you (like all other women) look at ex's as something that was part of his past but still has an impact on who he is now. The ex is more "alive" and relevant to you than she is to him. Understand that she is the past, you are the present. http://isitnormal.com/story/i-m-obsessed-with-my-boyfriend-s-ex-30523/#comment-297951 2009-07-02 08:34:19