I go to college and am finishing my first year. I have a 3.92 gpa and am planning on getting straight A's again this semester. I don't see school as something to be afraid of, rather, I study on my own time.
I spend my weekends playing World of Warcraft (rarely), reading books at the library / coffee shops, playing music, and doing hallucinogens / pot
I spend my weekdays going to class and working out at the gym. I read books that aren't assigned to me just because I'm interested in philsophy.
I'm currently a Math major and going towards philosophy as a minor.
Although I drink and go to bars from time to time, I find myself opting to stay inside. Most girls I talk to I will have sex with but not date because they are afraid to be intelligent.
Is my life balanced? Does the lack of a girlfriend and playing of video games make me a nerd? Should I even subscribe to society's view of what I should be doing?
You should look for another cause, something you can change. You must recognize that the path you're on is not going to be of real value to you in the long run -- or else you wouldn't be seeking validation from strangers.
No matter how much pot you smoke, eventually you're going to have to grow up, and college is going to be one of the best places to develop a social life with quality people you will ever have access to.
Nerd??? I don't think so.