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I see men as sexual objects
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I am a 32 year old female with 4 kids.I have been in many relationships in the past that didnt work out.I even recently got married to a man ive been with off and on for the past 15 years.the marriage lasted only 5 days.I ended it.I love him but I just cant be in a relationship with anyone.Ive tried.I have no desire to be with someone or to be loved by a man.I want to be alone and raise my kids myself.I dont want to let anyone in.I want no help from any man for anything.I see men as sexual objects.If i want to have sex i will make them think i like them and ignore them afterwards.Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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fatmanph (15419)
2008-07-28 21:03:28
Well how do your kids feel about it? Do your kids want a father? You need to think about them, but it's cool that your raising your kids on your own. This is just my opinion.
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cpg123 (15225)
2008-07-28 22:45:36
ya normal for girls like u
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ABluigi (15356)
2008-07-28 23:00:20
growing up with out a father is hard on kids
ur first pryority should be ur kids and wats best for them
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NeoFalcon (15397)
2008-07-29 00:48:00
I must say that fulfilling one's urges to have sex is normal.

However I must add that the impressions of this could affect your children.
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Goatmeat (15262)
2008-07-29 05:43:37
sounds like you like it in the asshole?
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twanger123456 (15429)
2008-07-29 09:35:13
u might as wll have a penis
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AbsAreUs (10604)
2008-07-29 23:03:42
That's an option.
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amoronorma (15446)
2008-07-29 23:21:08
are you gay?

maybe , a woman needs to fill the shoes you keep handing to a man ...

sounds like a trust issue,,, try a female
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Hemorrhoid (10586)
2008-07-30 05:40:32
SLUTT u sound like this girl i went out with for 2 weeks named casey franks from Bundaberg QLD Australia, she made me fall in love with her in such a short time and led me on makeing me think that she felt the same, last i heard she had a 3d son to like 3 diffrent men, so it looks like i get the last laugh.
she told me she'd been with over 300 difrent guys and she's like only 25, so............ cn u say SLUTT?
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StackHouse (15445)
2008-07-30 06:56:18
e-mail me so we can discuss this further. I am a doctor. Of the MIND. Get what I'm saying? drstackhouse@yahoo.com
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StEpH (15478)
2008-07-31 19:02:01
i think you should think of your kids
ask them what they want.
and if you decide to try and meet a guy you should ask their opinion on him.
ultimately it's not up to them who you choose but they should at least like the guy.
maybe you should try going out with girls, since you only think of guys for sex and don't want to start a relationship with a guy..
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imrighturwrong (15501)
2008-08-02 01:18:09
It's normal not to want to be dependant on a man and you shouldn't have to be. I don't think it's ok for you to play mind games with a guy to make him think you like him just so u can screw him and then ignore him. If a guy were to do that to u, u'd be pissed as hell. Besides why ignore him... just fuck him again if ur only seeing him as a sexual object =)
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micklesh (15508)
2008-08-02 04:09:42
@: fatmanph
if you was single i would say rock on
but i come from a single parent and it can be tough and your children will pick up your ways
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gunstarbob (15685)
2008-08-11 16:50:26
Mmmmm yeah its normal, although women in your position tend to usually marry the man and take his money. You lust for the things of the world, and they dont fill your soul. So you lead a baseless life of self induced pleasure and destroy others. Its perfectly normal and tons of women do it and they enjoy it. Look it up on the internet and see if you can find any groups to tell you that what your doing is great. Wouldn't your children think of you as a wonderful parent, using men for there pleasures and tossing them aside. Beautiful.
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flybynight (16923)
2008-10-19 17:48:06
i do agree with gunstarbob and if you truly think that god put us here to suffer then do so but remember that if he controlled us and stopped us from doing bad things that he'd be living our life and i think that all should be happy no matter the circumstances, we learn from the bad anyways it makes us stronger does it not? well if you'd like to look further into this you should read so of "jd howes" stuff it's breath taking and it may change your opinion and thought sbout everything ...btw this is tiffany :P
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flybynight (16923)
2008-10-19 17:48:44
wrong story :P
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-01-18 09:11:53
Poor judgement in relationships. Talk to your doctor about birth control. Do something with your life to be a positive role model for you kids.
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princesst76 (21942)
2009-04-17 15:26:07
Do whats best for your kids, but a single mum isnt unusuall or bad.
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Gabriell (32252)
2009-12-17 03:10:50
That sucks.
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Stefano (33140)
2009-12-24 04:20:47
It happens exactly the same thing to me. But I'm a guy and see women as nothing more than a weekend of pure fun.
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Alaskaraven (34365)
2010-01-15 22:43:04
@: StackHouse
You are so full of shit.
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Alaskaraven (34365)
2010-01-15 22:51:45
I used to be you, but long ago, when I was young, single, no kids, not attached or married. If men can do that, why not us? I had no desire to answer to anyone, have anyone control any aspect of my life. I enjoyed great sex, and NO GUYS, that doesn't mean we use men-- for anything other than a night. Then just GO HOME, or I would leave. But HIV wasn't around much then, and ppl were not as bad as now [jr high kids & oral sex being so common]. I had fun, no married men...

Then we grow up. Lady-- YOU HAVE KIDS. GROW UP. They did not ask to be born, so as far as ALL of you divorced moms go, you have no business having BF's, messing up the kids' heads, allowing them to get attached, then ripping him out of their life, etc. You can have your life after they're older. YOU did this, now behave, take responsibility, or STOP reproducing. sheesh.
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freethinkerguy (34964)
2010-01-17 13:11:34
You have major issues and should get some professional help. Objectifying males isn't your only issue, you seem to have no ability to form meaningful, lasting relationships. Which is sad as your missing out on a large part of life.

You also seem to lack the ability to look at the affect your actions have on others. You're dragging these 4 kids though a life where nothing is stable, people come and go. Why did you bother having them if you were going to treat them this way? Do you not think that children learn by example?
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