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I slept with my cousin and I'm married.
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First of all I am a married woman and my relationship with my husband is not great and has not been for a very long time. We only have sex maybe once every six months and for our four year anniversary we didn't even have sex or the night that we went out without children! So anyways, I never see one side of my family very often and on a particular weekend I went down to see them and hang out with them and what not. I went over to a family member's house and it was just a small group of people only me and two others, and we decided to drink. Drinks were going down smoothly, hanging out and talking was great, and then when one family member went inside to make more drinks for me and my male cousin, my male cousin well he kissed me. Not just a peck on the head or anything, but a kiss. The strange part is it didn't bother me. So eventually everyone went to sleep and him and I were playing video games and one thing lead to another and well you get the picture. I can't eat, I can't sleep, my mind is racing and I know that neither one of us wants our relationship to be weird as far as being around each other and other family members, but worries me is that it will happen again and I won't have a problem with it. I know that I am married and that what I did was wrong, but I don't know what else to think or how else to feel. I am confused and lost and I don't want to feel like this. I don't know what to do or how to act when I am around him. Do we call it a drunken night and leave it at that?
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The problem isn't that you're sleeping with your cousin.

The problem is that you're trying to justify cheating on your husband
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Honestly I felt worse about cheating on my husband than I did sleeping with my cousin. Things happen like that right? As far as being with a family member?? I can't stand my husband, but I can't leave him because of other reasons. I still don't know how to feel honestly.
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It's good that you felt bad about it.

The next step is to realize that coming up with excuses doesn't justify being an adulterer.
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I'm no angel trust me and people explore their options. Mine just happened to be a lot more odd than others, but my husband has cheated on me. Thank god it wasn't his cousin cause he is a guy, but my point is I'm not perfect and he's not perfect. I feel bad because I cheated and I think its because I never wanted to be put down to his level.
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Sleeping with your cousin is understandable. However, it is not wise to continue unless you want to get a divorce. Talk to your husband. Figure out what has gone wrong in your marriage. If you still feel that there are unreconcilable differences, leave him, and get with you cousin or whoever. Just don't sneak doesn't bring about anything good.
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Nothing is normal about anything you said, unless you're from Alabama.
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