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I still go for younger girls!!!
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Im 23 and when i was 19 I went out with a 13 year old girl who just wanted sex and broke my heart. Now, im finding that i tend to look to younger girls for relationships. If mothers and fathers encourage girls to find an older guy, why is it so wrong for an older guy to court a younger girl?
Do you think it's normal?
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You are a paedophile. Leave the children alone or you will end up in jail being bum raped by Mr. Big and you will have a very very sore anus.

Children aged 13 are mentally not ready for a relationship with a cunt such as yourself.
Wow, u brother ^ are one of the first members, freakin cool! I am jealous!
First off consider yourself lucky that you were able to get to have sex with a 13 year old in the first place, that's better than most of us will get. And, that your not in jail should be considered a bonus too!

Contrary to what so many people will tell you it is normal for an adult man to feel atraction for young teen girls, its just the way we are wired. So people who call you a pedophile are pretty much idiots. (especially since most of them can't even spell it right) But you are playing with fire here so be carefull.

It will be very unlikely that a young teen girl can give you the kind of emotional relationship you seem to be wanting. 13 is really pushing it but maybe someone in their mid-teens might be more capable of giving you what you are looking for. A girl I know has been dating a guy since she was 16 and he was 22. But, like I said, be carefull your playing with fire.
It is NOT normal to be attracted to someone THAT young, contrary to what that pedo above has stated.

16? OK 13? Sick & twisted.

I'm going to report you to the authorities.
I wish I had a dollar for everytime one of you fools in here called someone a pedo. it is the most misused and thrown about word nowdays. It seems that this guy had genuine affection for this girl and it was obviously consential sex. If a 13 yo girl wants sex that much it should be her choice who she has it with. Some girls do develop earlier than others.
It still doesn't change the fact that it is illegal.
you should meet a guy called michel jackson he will help you.
I can't watch someone like you. I is disgrace. In my place what I have saw is a 50 years guy married with 16 years babe. It just disgusting. I don't even want to peek them when they have sex.
Why would you peek at them while they're having sex?
@: WarLord
He was probably having a wank.
The facts is it is ILLEGAL. It is not acceptable in modern America. It might be possible that an older adult and younger teen can fall for each other, but since teenagers hormones are fucked up and they are immature in almost every way possible, I find it impossible to believe it's real love. In the days where woman did get married at 13, usually they had to marry older, discusting, fat pigs, and usually they were taught how to control themselves, you know, "behave" as they would call it. It's time to get with the program, why is it so hard to understand that it is wiser to find someone who is fully developed mentally and physically? We aren't living in the stone age anymore people, it's just common sense.
STFU with your blanket statements. I agree that 13 is to young but these days 13 yo's think they are 18 and act like it too.
It's so difficult. I'm just 18 and got 2 stepsis 10 and 13. Long story but we all seen each other naked and somtimes theyll tease me watching me wank...... sometimes if theyre mates sleepover i seen them naked as well - its cool because we dont tell anyone. we done stuff and ive just licked 3 of them but no further and they tossed and sucked me. its yuuuuuuum. theres no love, its just having fun, ang getting turned on !!! wheres the prob ???
just turned 17 and i know that "law" its only in usa as far as i know

americans are problematics and think every one is a pedo

women used to merry and have sexual relationship at age of 12 now people mostly have sex during the age of 18 or 20 thats so sad

i look to seduce hot women who has the age to be my mom so F*ck you all who are agaist "pedo"
hope you die a painful death you stupid f*ck
if i had ever made sex with a 40 year old and saw someone trying to report to silence the person id go as far as killing
you shouldent mess with "pedo" stupid f*ck
As for being "normal," it is completely normal to be attracted to nubile young girls, even when you're old enough to be their grandfather. There is nothing quite like the figure of an adolescent girl - Can't be beat! Having said that, there is definitely something to be said for a mature woman's body when she takes care of herself and stays fit - Can't be beat! Now, about those who say it is illegal, that all depends upon which state you are in as there are several states here in the US that define the legal age of sexual consent to be 12 years. It can be very dangerous, no doubt. But, I can't say that I would pass it up either. Fresh is best!
If you had kept sex out of the relationship, it would have been fine. I have always liked older guys, so I can see the angle your getting at. But girls at 13, or any age below 20, are slightly, actually, really unready for the emotional bonds of sex and what it takes to maintain a relationship. Not that I know any better, I am juding off the experiences of my sister, and friends.
um 13 is a bit young dont you think?
Wannabe sex affeneder!!!
In any way possible does this appear wrong to you and would you want your 14 year old daughter with some 30 year old man......hows that for an older man you sicko
you should be publicaly tried and jailed, the laws we make wont ever change the way we feel, only the way we react to them. hes not a pedo, he had real feelings for her
You are correct, some girls DO, in fact, develop earlier than others. The problem is, however, that such actual sexual precosiousness is quite rare.

What you have to ask yourself, in such a situation is WHY does this 13 year old girl want to engage in sex with an older man. Typically, the answer is that they are looking for affection and validation through sexual activity, which most often occurs due to a history of sexual molestation.

While it is certainly normal, despite the protestations of others here, to be tempted, the real issue is not her age, but her mental status. If a young girl is seeking such validation, you will be contributing to her thought processes that convince her that she is only loved and appreciated because of her sexuality and thereby help her destroy her self-worth.

The actual sexuality of young people is a very taboo subject. Even infants have a rudimentary desire for sexual contact. While such feelings are normal, it is certainly abnormal and destructive for an adult to act on the ill-informed desires of children.

We do not have sex with children because it tends to damage them, especially in our culture. Keep these things in mind when confronted with attractive but underage potential sexual partners.
You shouldn´t be alive your sick pedophile!
Because young girls feel ready but truthfully aren't in any way or form and this it only hurts them mentally. As well it's against our laws.
I think good on you if you are looking out for a younger girl, you wouldent bilive how many girls prefer older guys. As long as they love you and there perents approve...why the hell not! go for it ;)
hey loser leave those kids alone
dude.
who cares what other people think?!
if you like younger chicks, go for it!
but only if they're into you and for the most part are fine with it.

otherwise, you would be a pedophile...
All you think about is being sexually attracted to young girls... So you think it's "normal"?? Kids at the age 13 barely have the emotional capacity to deal with junior high, let alone sex. You're sick to even consider a 13 year old as a sexual object. You disgust me.
That is totally twisted. Can't you just wait till they are 18?
WRONG! Are you paying any attention to what this dude is saying? The girl only wanted sex and it broke his heart.

Going out with a girl 6 years younger than you isn't wrong. Sex with one IS. This dude ain't no pedo.
younger girls are simpler. that's fine. maybe your a little immature too. that's also ok. if you turn, say, 25, and you're still only attracted to 13 year olds, however you might have control issues. or be a pedophile.
13 is the start of teenhood. Have you noticed that? 13 is abit too young for a 19 year old. You are an adult now
13 is too you for 19. She broke your heart? Ha, you fucking paedo, girls that age don't understand relationships and sex properly to be able to do that. Now you're getting into serious molestor territory. They're not even developed properly by that age - eww.
Uh... You'll just have to go for legal girls, bro.

Maybe this dude really like the girl for who she was. Not because she was young. Maybe she was mature-looking and mature-sounding. He was an adult then, but I don't think that automatically makes him a pedophile. There are other factors to consider.
hes not a pedo, wtf r u saying? He was 19. And the girl wasnt forced into sleeping with him, she wanted 2. Many girls these days, as young as 13, think and act like their 18. The girls i see that r young act so stupid, dress like sluts, and think their all that. The dude said she used him 4 sex. Wont surprise me at all. I dont know y u ppl r claiming that she is innocent and hes a pedophile. Grow the f*ck up. Its 6 yrs differences. But if he still liked younger girls when he got older, like hes 30 or 40 and still wants 13yos then that would be bad. But at the moment he was 19 and the girl wanted it. Y blame him.
Your feelings sound genuine, but having sex with a girl that young is definitely not ok. When you say 'younger' do you specifically mean girls that age? Or just younger than yourself? Because, for example, if you were 24 and she was 18, it'd be perfectly ok. The age difference (6 years) is the same.

The law can't change the way we feel about things, and jsut because something is the law doesn't make it 'right'. There is a distinction between ethics and the law. My advice to you though my friend is to wait until at least 16. At 13 they are simply not ready.

Personally, I'm 18 and absolutely love OLDER woman. I'd take a 40-50 year old woman over a young skank anyday. MILFs rule.
This is.. I can see why you want younger girls I guys. You know.. virgins, mostly. Probably easily persuaded into sex. But that dosen't make it right. (That was my answer to his question)
Now, I'm replying to sometihng someone said. why is should considered lucky to have had sex with a 13 year old, anyway? ODDLY enough, I find that a bit twisted. What is attractive about a less than curvy small chested, possibly quite short young girl?
Younger is okay, underage is not.
Because you are well into being an adult, in years - while she is barely a teen. Duh!
Young girls are very nice however there are lines we do not cross.
well if you had sex with that 13 year old when you were 19... you sir are a rapist now you pervert. I mean com'n the girl has just became a teenage and you have just became an adult you dumbass
It isn't right but it's normal, unfortunately. Just don't do anything stupid.

'Fifteen'll get you twenty; Sixteen'll get you ten... Don't think it won't happen to you...'
People only used to marry 12 year olds because the life expectancy for women was 36. It is never "normal" nor is it ever acceptable for an older man to have desires for a child that young. If you were 15, hell, even 16... it might have been okay. 19 is not. 23 definitely is not okay. Even if you met and "fell in love with" a 13 year old now, and had sex with her, if you were caught, no matter how many times she claimed it was consentual, and that she wanted it, you'd still go to jail, and when you got out, she wouldn't be around!! Not only that, but your entire life'd be ruined. No one wants to hire a registered sex offender.
hey im 13 and i wanna go owt with sum 1 like 20 19 18 17 16 i go for older girls
Its normal. My 1st was 13, when I was 17. I seriously dated a 17 year old when I was 24, and we are still friends after a great relationship. (She left me for an older guy.)

Younger girls are more exuberant and fun. They are less annoying and set in their ways, and more into learning new things.

It's also nice because younger girls seem to more appreciate the little things more like gifts or a specially made dinner.
he dead now :( r.i.p mj no one know if he butt raped children
Its normal, unless your in your 30's then your a pedo :(
cradle robber
First off, stop using the word %u201Ccourt.%u201D You freak. Second younger girls are tasty treats who need to have their souls devoured. Of course she just wanted sex, she was WAY TOO YOUNG to have a relationship. Get over it and just have sex.
Ew. I am a teenage girl and I don't even want sex from anyone, much less an old perv. We aren't even grown up and for an teenager, a six year age difference is a lot. That's sick that you would take advantage pf a young girl and then blame her for the demise of your "relationship" (aka statutory rape).
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 20. Age differences are usually tolerable at 4 years. Any more and people tend to frown upon it.. So unfortunately, you're out of luck.
Also, I don't think it's very cool for people to tell you you're sick or anything. Everyone has different taste and nobody should judge unless they're willing to be judged. I personally, think some people on this website are rude and they need to get back-handed. :) Haha.
um. prison?
Okay, you need to understand that an age difference like that is illegal, which I'm sure you probably already know. But much more importantly, I can almost guarantee that a relationship with such a young girl will NEVER work out. 13 is really still just a child! Even if you were to try and have a relationship with someone who was 16 or 17, you both are at COMPLETELY different places in your life...how can this work? Believe me, I WAS that 13 year old dating the 25 year old, I can tell you that as an adult, some of those experiences really traumatized me...13 year olds should not be having sex with anyone but themselves. Period.
@: sidknee
You have a sickness.