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I think I am in love with a co-worker
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I started working at this pizza place a few months back. There is this girl that works there whom I took interest in right away. She was from another town so I didn't know much about her. For three weeks or so we didn't say much to each other; she started working there the same time I did. Then when we started to talk and get to know each other I developed a sort of crush on her, at least that's what I thought it was at first. I've never had a crush last this long though and I can't keep her off my mind. In fact, I fear I may have fallen in love with her. I told a fellow co-worker I planned on asking her out and he informed me she had a boyfriend. This was news to me since through all the talking we did she never mentioned him. The reason I "fear" I may have fallen in love with her is because she is taken and there seems to be nothing I can do. I seldom go ten minutes without thinking about her. This has gone on for a couple of months now and I don't see it getting any better in the near future. I though somebody out there might have some helpful advice on what to do. At times she complains about how her boyfriend doesn't call her or spend much time with her and seems unhappy. I have been thinking about just telling her how I feel. I know there is a good chance I'll get rejected, but thought perhaps if I knew for certain it would get her off my mind. If anyone has seen the show Frasier and is familiar with the subplot of Niles' secret love for Daphne, my story is very similar. What should I do?
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dont tell youve fallen in love with her shell think your a wanker just ask her out and if she rejects you youll have to get over it. workplace relationships arent always a good Idea anyway
Love is sticking by someone unconditionally. So far you havn't had any type of relationship with her to see if you love her. Be her friend, if you stick by her then you love her. If she sticks by you, then she loves you. If you stick by each other, then you're in love. Keep in mind, sticking by someone also means letting them go if that is what they want. Get it? It sounds like you might be in love with being in love because you just don't know what it is yet. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't know what it is. For example, my wife came home from work and gave me an attitude that is becoming quite a common thing. We are both under a lot of stress but being mean to each other doesn't help either one of us. So I have a choice in my reactions. I can give her attitude back, I can try to explain to her of how unfairly she is treating me, or I can just stick right here by her and let what it is be. It is this point that love begins to grow. After that point, it is a bit more difficult to explain how and what love is. But you can easily get to that point and discover what "your" love is about. Good luck to you.
And if you ask her out: then you should do it with only hopes of being her friend and getting to know her. A simple, out to get an icecream on your lunch break would be a good idea. But flowers and a movie might be saying to her too much. Basically, just play it cool. Further advice, don't relate your life to television. Its scripted to make a good show and your life will not follow a script. And like most people, your true life experiences will not make for great television.
Start with a Money Shot to the face. OG Style.
Ask her out sometime
Tell her how she makes you feel. not that you love her.

like, 'everything moves in slow motion when i'm with you. it's like my mind wants to every tiny detail of an moment i spend near you. i'm always afraid you'll heart the jackhammer sound my heart makes when i'm close to you. i don't know what you feel but i needed to tell you this because i feel like my blood on fire in my veins every time i know you are near & when you are away from me i feel this constant restless need to have you close to me, hear you laugh & know you are happy. i want to give you anything you need. let me make you happy.'

got abit carried away. hehe!
That's really good shaka, but the thing is, we laugh a lot. We are always making jokes and teasing each other. I'm not so sure this serious approach would work. Any ideas on how I would go about telling her in a manner that doesn't have such a serious tone?
Funkyfeet is right, Be her friend, if you stick by her then you love her. If she sticks by you, then she loves you. If you stick by each other, then you're in love.

If she does help you when you are in need, you should ask her out cause there is a great chance she will say yes, you never want to wait too long, miss your chance now and you will never get it again.
come to understand what feeling is inside you that you could not already of told her, and weigh out whether it necesary at all to come across so "stalkerishly" and instead try entering into a kindly friendship to see if maybe she has the same feelings for you.
Go over and start talking to her in a soothing voice, then start to caress her body, then bend her over a chair, then stick your 2 inch dick into her ass and get aids :)
cut a small hole in the center of a pizza, stick your c*ck through it and ask her if she'd like to try "today's special".
Ask her out and plan on the expected rejection. At least she will know you are interested.
Well you work in a pizza place. Thre is nothing wrong with that don't get me wrong I did off and on for 10 yrs. That job isn't the top of the food chain. I mean you can advance. Here's a plan. Keep talking to her and being a freind. At the same time work your ass off. Show her you are the best there. Then when you are out of work, work on advancing yourself. Get your education and get a better job show her what she's missing. you never know, she may split with him and look your way.
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have sex in the pizza sauce and cum on a alfredo pizza