I think my boyfiend is too old for me

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Ok, heres the story. I am about to turn 27 and my boyfriend is 47. We met through an ad in the paper (he was a photographer) when I was 22. We saw each other for awhile and I found out he had lied to me and was married (not divorced like he said).

Anyway, he ended up getting a divorce and we got together. He broke up with me twice over a two year period and then we got back together. I met another guy when I was working behind a bar and got with him and things blew up. Now we are back together again but not living together.

Anyway, to cut a very long and complex story short, I dread going to his place because he drinks too much and wants sex all the time. He wont let me have any friends and is jealous of just about everyone and everything. I am miserable but I am so afraid he will lose the plot and hassle me if I finally tell him its over. What advice can anyone give me? Helpless.