I've loved older men since 6th grade

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Seems slightly odd, but whatever floats your boat. It sounds normal to me.

It's the same way with me! guys aren't so attractive when you're a teen because girls progress faster than them, and guys a pretty much two years behind in immaturity

Well I like younger girls, Im 41 and would love to date a 21 or 22 year old. My one step daughter is going out with a guy my age, it doesnt bother me at all. I wish the 21 year old girl I like thought that way LOL

Age is but a number to me and it means nothing if 2 people are in love

I have always been into the older man since I was about 10. As it happens when I was 17 I met a 60 year old man and 19 years later we are still together. We are married and have a 14 year old. If you fall in love with someone older then thats the way it goes. If you respect eachother and your both happy then thats ok. We can't always control our feelings. Like all relationships its great to get to know eachother. We lived together for 6 years before we married. Good Luck !!

yeah, its normal.. :P i won't date anyone thats even a day younger than me.. :P.. gotta draw the line some where.. :D:D:D

There is nothing wrong being attracted to old men. You be surprise what they'll do for u and repect u and bring you all the joy in the world that u always wanted. Reply

I don't think this is odd, I feel exactly the same. I've found someone my own age (19) attractive only once. I think for me older men represent stability and maturity. Like you can actually depend on them.

Me too. Older men are definitely sexier.

Liking guys as old as ur grandfather when ur 12 seems VERY strange to me...yeah now that ur older sure y not but at 12...yep that's NOT normal

I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS , BUT I ALWAYS SEEM TO GET ALONG BETTER WITH GIRLS THAT ARE YOUNGER THAN ME, SO I DONT SEE NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT... THEY SEEM MORE LAID ABOUT THINGS AND LIKE HAVING FUN MORE.. I WISH I COULD MEET MORE OF THEM BECAUSE I DONT GO LOOKING FOR THEM ...

There is nothing wrong with that at all!
I have the same issue - I'm younger than you and it's bloody difficult to talk to anyone about.
Nobodyspecial is right - age doesn't matter if you're in love.
Besides, men are supposed to be more immature than women so there is more chance of you finding someone right for you than say a man trying to find an older woman - sad, but true :(
Good luck x

We old guys are such a studly lot its hard to understand why everyone doesn't feel as you do!

I always liked older women. I think it was because they were more mature and less silly and self centered. Remember that attracted is ok but sex is something best left out of any relationship at this age

I prefer guys only about 6-7 years older than me. lol. Some are younger but yeah I think it's perfectly normal. It's just a different taste.
Those men usually look more clean and well groomed. They tend to know more and usually are very interesting to talk to. I'm pretty sure it's normal.

It's normal. older guy seems so fascinating for me, either. :D

I think it's perfectly normal, even healthy. As long as you're sure you're not being exploited or disrespected in any way. This is something to be careful of. As a previous poster said, girls mature far faster than boys of the same age. So it seems perfectly natural that you would be attracted to older men. As an older man myself, I've dated women much younger than myself. It suits me, as I seem much younger than I am. As long as it's legal (and reasonably moral) and you both like, respect and get along with each other, there's no problem that I can see.

are you in that band?

I would understand if its 10 or 15 years but anything more is not. I've always loved older girls and when I was 16 my girlfriend was 29. For a 16 year old to date a 29 year old model like chick was not easy but we dated for 4 years off and on and had plans to get married.

She went all psycho and I had to leave her. She ended up being one of those "IF I CANT HAVE YOU NO ONE CAN" bitches.

should i re-add you on myspace? i miss your friendship

hahahaha that had me chuckling....