I visit my fiance's ex-girlfriend's blog everyday.

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I see nothing wrong with visiting her blog, being that you have so much in common with what's she's blogging about. I think you mentioning it to him was probably not necessary. If you're on her blog for just the interest of it, it shouldn't even be an issue for discussion. Maybe ask yourself your motivation and feelings behind reading her blogs..or why you felt compelled to tell your fiance.
Could you be wondering if you have so much in common with an ex..would your relationship eventually fizz out? I think we all have more in common than we know and when it comes to relationships, it depends on the 2 people to work it out and make it great.

It is a little bit unusual to be so into reading the blog of your fiancee's ex.... If for no other reason than the fact that your fiancee is likely to feel uncomfortable about it.... If it were me in that situation, I would personally be wondering why there is so much curiosity about my ex when that same curiosity could be used to connect (us) together more as a couple if it were focused between us rather than on an ex.

The thing is, you've told him the truth and you have technically done nothing "wrong". He probably did over react a little bit from what you are describing, but there is no need to be worried at all... Both of you need to just keep in mind that you love each other, forgive one another, and move along to work on making things better rather than focusing any more on the "issue"...

The thing to think about for yourself here is, which is more important to you? Your fiancee and knowing him even better, OR getting to know his ex girlfriend better? If the answer is your fiancee, then stay true to him and dump the ex-GF blog... It wont hurt you to stop that, and it might even open up an opportunity for you to connect with your fiancee more. -I.e. instead of studying his ex, take that time to study him. Hopefully, he will in turn become even more curious about you too, and that may in due time lead to some very satisfying feelings for you both to know each other better than any one else on the planet. Seek intimacy within your relationship! Your marriage will eventually depend upon it. :)

I think it's normal that you stumbled upon a blog of a person that you like and continue to check in to see if there's been any updates, even if the way that you found out about the blog was by being nosy. However, it's definitely normal for your boyfriend to be a little uncomfortable with the idea.

You're not doing anything wrong or abnormal by checking the blog for updates, but you might take your boyfriend's feelings into consideration about it. Would you want him poking around into the lives of your old friends and partners?

i think you sound obsessed. even if it doesn't have to do with the fact that it's his ex-fiance, you're crossing a line with someone that IS his ex-fiance and it's not for you to cross. it's basically like you're stalking her personality to see if you're good enough/better than she was for him. CHILL!

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