I wanna ask her out but...

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My advice, take a risk. Tell her you really like her and her ask her to luch one day or something. You cannot feel bad for trying even if she rejects you *Thumbs up*

but then she might feel too awkward to be friends with me? and all my friends think shes pretty low on the pretty scale, so if i get rejected my reputation will drop dramatically, and i would feel really embarrassed, and then if she says yes, my rep will drop too but i could deal with that long as we're going out... i dont know im confused:(

Hey man I empathize with you trying to protect your rep. But Let me say this, in High School (assuming you still go there) the friends you have from high school are likely to be gone by the time you graduate. If they were really your firends they'd respect your choice of G/F.

So if you are only worried about your rep, you will be unhappy throughout high school and miss many oppurtunities. Trust me high school is only a blink in your life. I got through it alive. :)

Take a chance dude ask her out, or forever wonder what could have been :(

Pick up two tickets to an event, a sports game, a show, a concert, at least a week ahead of time. Then, tell her you have tickets and ask if she would like to join you. Make sure you approach her a week ahead of the event. Most people will say yes, but if she is unsure, ask her to let you know within a couple of days. This way if she declines or comes up with some lame excuse, you then approach another girl. Simple enough and no pressure on you. Good luck.

yeah but i still want to be friends with her, and if i ask her out and she says no she may think it too awkward to still be friends:( thanks for the advice so far, and i may do the ticket thing, but its the same thing about the "too awkward to be friends" thing if she says no

I understand how you feel. But if you really like this girl, asker her out; do what Sisophous said.

I asked an older girl out to prom who i had been firand with for like 3 years. She was too afraid to say no but didn't want to say yes I made it easy for her. I told her I'd go with someone else. She seemed relieved :(

Oh well, we still talk occasionally. But me asking her out didn't ruin the friendship. Me moving did. :P

ugh i think i'm going to ask her out monday but i'm so nervous now... i've never asked someone out in person its always been over the phone or internet lol(im only 14 so don't judge:P) so any good ways to ask her out?

Do what Sisophous said. Or just go up to her and say "hey *so and so* would you liek to catch a movie with me on *such and such date*?

Something along those lines...

ok. thanks for the advice guys:)

*Thumbs up*

Thanks for your support Wordyo.

Supermann,

you have nothing to lose, yet everything to gain. I'm quite older than most who post here, and have dated a lot over the years. I've had plenty of girls decline my invitations, gone out with some where we did not click and I found out early on, and also had great times with a handful of girls. All of these outcomes are completely natural and you will encounter them over time, there's no avoiding it unless you choose to not approach them which would be a huge mistake.

I don't have many regrets over my life, but one I do have is not giving some girls a chance because I did not feel at the time they were the cutest looking or considered the hottest looking to most guys. Dismiss what others think as far as beauty goes, their opinions does not matter, only your happiness matters.

I've also concluded that for the most part, the girls who are the most plain looking/ordinary in appearance, tend to be the most fun to be around and will grow on you. Just my opinions as I've been down the road you are going. Please post back what happens, I'd like to know you hit gold on the first strike.

sisophous is right plain looking girls are great fucks and will do it all good head kinky sex anal the lot grab this girl and go for it also I knew a couple of plain janes in highscholl that grew up to be stunners

He does have something to lose, but it's worth it. And Supermann, just relax, you have nothing to worry about. If you're already friends, she'll probably be happy to hang out with you and if it turns into a date, that's just the way it is.

alright thanks for the help guys. on monday when i ask her i'll post what happens. thanks again for the support:)

tell her your dick is super huge

Ask her out. Some people do change. I knew this girl who was HOT and popular in 9th grade by 12th she was totally forgotten. I grew up an ugly duckling but when I hit 11th grade my looks changed for the better. High school is just 4 year's enjoy them they don't really matter after you graduate and go 2 college. GOOD LUCK! DUDE

Just do it pussy. Fuck what your friends think.

fuck she called me to ask about some homework in english and i kinda blurted it out and she said she'd think about it... dammit lol

hopefully she says yes lol

goddamit she said no:( oh man i hope we're still friends when i see her at school...:(

Dammit, I'm really disappointed and everything now:( ugh it like almost hurts:( alright im gonna shut up now

well sorry about her saying no, but she might of took it as u doing it as a joke if shes on the low pretty scale and u shouldn't care what ur friends or anybody else thinks about her, if u like her, then go 4 it and don't be embaressed if ppl pick on u just b/c she isn't the prettiest girl in the world, all that matters is that u like her!!!

Definitely ask her out.

ask her again

i was in the same boat....

then 2 years later, she came and told me she had a crush on me then....

just ask her out...

dude, forget about your reputation for a second. if you like the girl, ask her to go see a movie. and see how it goes from there. you dont have to like someone just because they're high on the peetty scale. i'm a girl myself, but honestly, just ask her to the moves or something

aww im sorry supermann....well just remember you can always try and get closer with her, or wait until you find anotyher one because they say theres always more fish in the sea

i found one then after 5 days she dumped me... wow relationships suck

ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months lol, but im sure you'll find the right one

ugly girls never say no. she's a sure thing.

and drink NILBOG milk- high in vitamin content!

ask her out you know don't listen to your friends there just jealous so just do it i bet she likes you too.