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I wanna have sex with him, but I'm a bit scared
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Ok, so I'm a really sexual girl.

I haven't had sex with 20+ guys obviously, I just like to be intimate with men.

My current boyfriend is a virgin so I'm hesitant about having sex with him.

Not only that, but I'm a little scared because I really love him and "sex changes everything" blah blah.

So basically, is it normal to want to have sex with someone but also feel scared to do so...?
Do you think it's normal?
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Budthewise (29424)
2009-10-17 01:44:28
I'm slightly annoyed.

I am an attractive man who is tired of my heavier girlfriend but I stay with her. However, how the hell can I find people like you who just enjoys sex in general?
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4w04se (25055)
2009-10-17 06:34:50
I don't think you should anyway.. Cause if you truly love him and care about your relationship.. You wouldn't do something that you think might screw things up between both of you. If you're scared of it then, don't do it.. End of story.
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DrAkula (29886)
2009-10-17 08:10:08
Nah that won't happen if you care for eachother, have sex and express how you truly feel.
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junkyarddog91 (28851)
2009-10-17 08:22:31
My first was really experienced and I was not. It took some time, she felt the same way you did, we waited until we were both ready. If you have patience and get the time to really know each other, itll be worth the wait.
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Ms_October (16391)
2009-10-17 16:03:59
Nothing wrong with sex, I am very sexual myself, usually...

But, that doesn't mean you HAVE to be sexual, especially if your guy is a virgin and isn't in any hurry.

If ya love him and ya want it to be special, then wait until you both feel you are ready. Sex does change things, whether it changes them for the better or worse is up to you.

There is no hurry after all.

October - Returning Princess
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hotguy09 (29887)
2009-10-18 23:48:37
just talk to him about it to him and tell him you are ready when he is
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omcjunkie1977 (30583)
2009-10-31 14:29:58
Ya might want to ask him how he feels? If you can't talk about it you probably should not fuck him.
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TheScribe (30637)
2009-11-01 15:07:04
Does your boy friend know you are not a virgin? If he does not, he may want you to be one too.

Also, if he wants to have sex with you, and you hold off, he will wonder why he is less desirable than the other men you had sex with.
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