I\'ve been married 10 years, have 3 great kids and love my wife dearly. I am overwhelmed with the fantasy of her sleeping with other men. I want her to have total sexual freedom. I don\'t want to be cuckholded or humiltiated, I just want a sexy, uninhibited and happy wife.

I had only had sex with my high school boyfriend (disaster) and my husband (wonderful) until a few years ago.
It took us over a year after starting to fantasize about sharing me and actually doing it. The first time I thought I might be sick, I was so nervous. The guy was nice and it happened. My husband was not jealous (my biggest fear), and it went great. It totally changed our life. We have a great sex life now. Well, pretty much a great life. Kids are on their own and doing well.
We never play near home, but travel often. We have been careful not to let anyone we know socially what we enjoy doing when away from home and there is no emotional connection with any of the men. Most have been college age guys which really boost my ego!!!!!!
Bottom line. I don't think most men could deal with their wife letting go with a younger, bigger, stranger, but if you both enjoy it and keep it physical and are very safety conscious...... enjoy life.
My wife and I are in our fifties and also both military. We are married for over 31 years. For years we fantasized about swinging but had synthesized what really turned us on was her being fucked and made to suck other mens cocks.
I loved the idea of watching her being taken by other men, usually multiple men. She enjoyed the idea of being controlled either tied up, held down, or on her docters examing table.
Either way, it was a form of force and control.
Since the time we identified what it was that actually was a turn on we have found limited outlets to realize this experience.
A mutuual friend that would be as discrete as we were. A guy we picked up at a bar. Now we are talking about three men while I enjoy watching them have their way in her mouth and her pussy. It is just very hot to us.
We are both getting older and who knows how long she will feel confident being made to undress and service other men. I say gett it while you can.
i think it would be a great turn/on
You don't need that in your live, Watch pornors and stay married
Check out websites on the 'hotwife' issue, especially 'turning my wife into a hotwife'. It will give you lots of useful information.
I too would love to watch my wife have sex with selected men, nothing slutty ... just sensual, which rules out all the guys who are lining up to have sex with your wife on this blog. The idea just really turns me on!!!
I wish i could get my wife to go down that road. We live in Kenya, and its quite conservative. I know she'd want to, but fears social repercussions. I hope we can overcome that hurdle, because i know it will do wonders for our marriage.
My advise ... talk to your wife about this, openly and honestly.
Take care and good luck.
I would love to watch her getting fucked, but no kissing, no "relationship" - just her getting orgasms. she doeas tha bit easily. Love it!
Any body want to help?
I was avoiding and then Uncle left the room. Then we kissed and fucked and later i realized that uncle was looking behind the curtains.
Boy i loved that.
her. I want her to be totally uninhibited
sexually. I don't know if she would do it, I
just know that she is a flirt and that she does swallow when giving head. I have whispered
it in her ear a few times while having sex and it made her very wet. She is also multi-orgasmic. I would wake up to her giving me a blow job in the middle of the night o i know that she is very sexual, but has since become a
christian. She is still a flirt so maybe I can turn her into my own little fuck whore.
this became a passion for me. and then i asked my wife if she could actually do have sex with that elder man. she refused. later while i was fucking her that night i asked her to refer to me as that man. she made noises while i was stroking her and took that man"s name. she enjoyed it and later agreed to sleep with that man. that man was fond of my wife and agreed to fuck her. later he took her in a hotel that night and made love to my wife. My wife told me all the love making and sexual intercourse scenes with that man as to how he removed her clothes and kissed her breasts and then put his penis in her vagina. later they made love at many places, like the farmhouse, car, hotel rooms.
this is happening since one year. now me and my wife wants that my wife be pregnant with that man only so that the love making as sex continues. i am ready to give that child my name. but he refuses to make her pregnant and only wants sex.
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You are thinking that you will find someone with morals you think are perverted and then tell them how you feel about it. Making you feel better for saying something. Sort of like a bully would do.
Are you a bully?
I think your full of shit. That's what I think.
Whether I agree with you or the poster is immaterial. Something smells real fishy here bud.
To my joy, she said she felt so thrilled and happy afterwards.
She would feel (even) more pretty and desirable now. I told her
I had the same feelings. Since then we do it on a regular
basis, once a month or so, and we are even closer to each other
after this great experience.
However, she prefers being sent out for getting sexed, rather
than having me watching. I also like this more romantic
version, which leaves room for phantasies. She would dress up
cutely, for me and for her date, and walk away to the other guy
after a sweet kiss. Sometimes she stays online with her
smartphone, and sends me sexy messages about what happens there.
Or asking me how I would like her to proceed. `Should I show him my naked breasts now, darling?' This gives us the biggest thrill...
But nothing compares to when she comes back to me after a few hours, with her sweet pussy freshly fucked. We would have a good glass of wine together, and chat about the details of how
she got sexed this time. Her dear eyes would look at me, saying "So nice to do naughty things together. Loving you even more now..."