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I'm 19 living with my Dad (he and my mom split up way back) Last week I had a dream about having sex with my father. Ever since then that's all I can think about and it gets me really wet just thinking about it. Is this normal or should I seek help. Should I talk to my dad and see what he says? This is kinda making me a little worried about myself.
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Its a very common fantasy. There are a number of other people on this site who have asked the same thing.

One thing that I don't understand is that many boys have positive stories about having sex with their mom. It happens and they like it. Not all, but enough to be significant.

Way less girls report having a good time when they actually get the chance to have sex with their Dads.

Or they really enjoy it, and have a bunch of mindblowing orgasms, but then feel really broken and damaged and ashamed that they liked it so much...

why do you think that is?
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@: Gomboku
It is a normal fantasy - for girls. It is not normal to act on it or a father to act on it himself.

Having said which, the conundrum for some of us who experienced sex with our fathers as teens is that we were groomed, tutored well in techniques, and taught to enjoy it (sex). Yes I really enjoyed it, had mindblowing orgasms (which subsequent sexual encounters almost always fail to live up to), and at the time did not even weigh up if it was wrong (it is); when it ended and it dawned on me... t was wrong I suppressed it all.
It reemerged over and over, and while I realised the disordered nature of what happened, boundaries, psych and physiogical readiness for that in early teens, and the exploitation it is hard to reconcile that with the pleasure (addictive is a good analogy).
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tell your dad about your fantasy and see if he is interested, if he is, spread your legs.
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Baby don't go there with your Papa. He'd most likely be shocked and disgusted. Keep these thoughts to yourself and like blueruby date an older guy call him "Daddy"... lol!
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i agree. its alot better then trying to have sex with your parents. i can unferstand though if he or she was your step mom or dad, other then that. no!
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Tease him , leave your door open. And catch you nude or hear you masterbate. plays along with it , see where it goes , that's. So hot !
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Yeah this is pretty normal, I think that a lot of sexual growth is based on the parents. Like the whole Oedipus-Freud thing. I never fantasized about fucking my mom but once I had a dream about it too, so its probably pretty normal.
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Just try it hun it wont hurt... Tell him how I feel I told my father and he felt the same way
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I want to have sex with my daughter. I did ask she said no but i ate her pussy befor
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Its not common but it is normal. You are the best judge of whether you should talk to your dad about it. But I don't see how you'd get anything out of it unless you wanted to have sex with him and you thought he might too.
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What you're feeling is NORMAL. My daughter wanted to have sex with me, and she took it upon herself to initiate our intimate relationship by coming in to my bedroom EARLY in the morning and give me blowjobs. I thought it was my girlfriend for weeks, but when I found out it was my daughter... WOW, it opened a whole new doorway to our relaionship. We don't regret it. You should go for it!
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I've had a dream that I had sex with my dad once, it totally creeped me out! so the dream is normal, wanting to actually do it is not! I think you see him as someone who takes care of you and is experienced and has taught you what you know. Perhaps that's what you want in a sexual partner and your dream put your dad in there because he fills all those things in the rest of your life. I think You just want someone who knows what he's doing but please don't have sex with your dad, that's gross, and illegal. YUCK
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kkkkcute
just tell u father that u want to have sex with him. i also wan to fuck my step daughter
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hmmm you can fuck me ;)
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Do not go for it
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andy r u a girl or boy?darling plz rply
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i think its totally normal. i think of sleeping with my mom all the time and i even think of her sleeping with other people. it gives me the most intense, harmless satisfaction...btw, you are a dream daughter of every man with a good taste in life:)

pantielicker at yahoo
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i think you should just "test the water" a little. Being a divorcee with a daughter in her early 20's, it happened with us a couple of years ago and it was far better than with the ex wife. Her and i were together 3 times and now leads a normal life with her boyfriend. Its really not a big deal if your dad and you keep everything in perspective.
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Aajkigirl I'm a guy do u want to be my friend
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Thinking of my dad in a sexual way makes me sick, but then I am turned on by role play, and thinking of my bf who is 15 years older as a "daddy figure." So yeah, I can't judge you.
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That's fine. As long as it isn't your dad that's okay, the thought of your father should repulse you. A daddy figure is just someone you wish could have taken care of you- did you have a bad dad? And remember- you're also looking for a man to raise your kids too. So you're not sick, but lots of the people on here are.
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Ok I see some really sick answers here. But, I've never had a dream like that, however, I know someone who has and I am very much into astrology (in astrology you will learn that you should always pay close attention to your dreams and decipher what they are representing in your awakened life. One thing though, your dreams are only relevant to you, someone else can have the same dream and it represents something completely different to them. So to the point... Are you very distant from your dad? Would you like a closer relationship with him?.. Usually in a dream of having sex with a parent or wanting to do so means you want to have a closer relationship with that parent... Nothing sexual. Dreams are symbols, don't take them as literal. Hope this helps ;)
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Seek help
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Electra Complex
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Can i get in trouble with the law if i have sex with my father
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dont tell ur dad about your dream unless ur possitive he is intrested and besides itgs inbred now the best option of person to have sex with p.s control your dreams :)
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Control your dreams, yes, but NEVER tell your father about it. If he has interest in you, then that is incestuous and disgusting.
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Can I b ur dad for just one day please please comment me back
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@: Andy20.
You can be my daddy. I would never sleep with my dad for real but the fantasy makes me so wet.
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DSJ
its very easy to have sex with your dad. all men think of it with their daughters. all it takes is you to walk up to him wearing next to nothing and hug him very nicely, then kiss him. his cock will be hard fast, and your ready!!!
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Yes it is normal, father will be the beat one that you shall have sex with him, you will remember this wonderful experiment all your life. it is quite safe than having sex with strangers. sit on his lab, let him see and feel your sexuality (breasts, hips and vagina). go sleep with him and play games with him, let the door open and call him for a towel while you have a bath, watch his erection. good luck.
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That is fucking disgusting. This isn't Alabama you fucking sick ass whore.
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People in Alabama don't do this. We are not the stereotypical people you think we are
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yes it is perfectly normal I have 3 beautiful daughters from 16 to 18 and they've all try something scared the hell out of me at first the surprises the nude, walking around and everything in was getting out of hand mercy! I kept to myself and I've been strong with that but it is perfectly normal to fantasize about having sex with your parents. Think about it if the story of Noah is true then we're all incest related Noah had sons and his sons had kids just one of them one of the sons went off somewhere else who populated the world.my oldest was the one that made it to successful I couldn't resist that gorgeous body and that nice round ass. I had anal sex with her I didn't have her vagina she still trying to have sex with me in that form.
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Don't tell him what your're thinking either if you have these fantasies then probably find an older lover who is not related to you and work through this phase.
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I've been told family sex is the most amazing. But if you are really serious about this I'd say talk to your father and see what he says
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Family sex is the most amazing (but maybe any sex would be with the tutoring in sexual arts and pleasure I had) but it does not make it morally or psychologically right (nor physiologically if you are under a certain age); reproductively it is dangerous.
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Aajkigirl r u a girl or guy
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so what happened? did you and dad get together?if so do you want his baby?you ever think about marrying him?
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It's normal to think about he has been the man of your life forever. But don't tell him that may cause issues or you to fade apart. Think about it, calm yourself, just don't let him know unless you know feelings are mutual or know that it won't affect your relationship.
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*bad
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Why dont you all find someone in a +7/-7 age difference and act if he is your dad and not follow through with something you will regret later.
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IBMelissaG
This is a question a couple years old. I hope things worked out between you and your dad the way you wanted.
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Well it technically yes because you getting wet isn't voluntary so you're most likely not sexually attracted to him and the dream it was probably just a one time thing you can tell your father about it because you might get some closure
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My dad is a disgusting f**k- he looks at me, winks at me, and disrespects women all the time. I had to wear jackets and bras when I went to bed. One time he tried to caress me when I took a shower. Ever since I was little he was way too affectionate and you could feel horny vibes off of him.

Look guys, this is absolutely f***ing disgusting. There's a reason why incest produces messed up babies, just so this doesn't happen. And even though my dad is nasty, even I know that fathers shouldn't do that. Daughters should have "tea parties" with their dads. Dads should go to their cheerleading practices, teach them to ride bikes, buy them what they can, and let their daughters know that they are the most precious thing in the world to them. Let their daughters reach for the stars and back her up every step of the way. My father went off with a girl 20 years younger than him, and besides her face, she looks and acts just like me. It's sick.

A daughter just isn't in the same category as any other woman- not their mom's or their wife's. There are two types of women in a man's life that should be unconditionally cared for and loved- that is a daughter and a mother. All other types are disposable. And mom's and daughters are not only off limits sexually, but shouldn't even provoke naughty feelings.

So men, it's up to you to raise your girls up and be the confident, independent women of tomorrow. They are your responsibility and you have much more impact on their lives than you think. Go give your girls a hug and tell them you love them. Even if they shun you, just know they love you too.

Ladies, before you have sex with a man, please think about what kind of father he'll be. Don't have sex with an incestuous man like the ones mentioned above. Those are your babies, so be responsible and watch out for your baby girls.

And to all of the fatherless and abandoned girls out there- don't listen to people when they say you'll never have a good love life. My father was a horrible man and I know exactly what I want. I am in college and have had a loving, devoted, fatherly boyfriend for two years. I'm a strong, independent woman and you can be too. Good luck!
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I find it funny that the comments on posts about daughters wanting to fuck their daddy's are, as a whole, much more polite than the comments on posts about sons wanting their mothers. It's much more acceptable for a girl to say, "Fuck me daddy," than it is for a buy to say, "take my cock mommy." I don't have a problem with either, but I just find it funny how it's way more acceptable for the daughters than it is for the sons.
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Do not be afraid to tell your dad how you feel. If he feels the same way, it would be a beautiful thing the world would never understand.
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lsdchangedmylife
not normal. Don't tell him about this, he'll probably be pretty stunned and sickened by the idea
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time brings new theory, though most people find it hard to accept. but no theory comes into practice acceptably over night and it does not come automatically, someone must dare introduce. and actually, so goes always, it is the nature of infinite time. so, let go who can normally go.
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It just happen after she told me oneday that shes not a virgin no more and she was telling me the details of the intercourse i got turned on. She even went and showed me her vagina where she got a small tear
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I feel like I've been ripped I have been fantasizing reading a lot I mean a lot of erotica mainly daddy daughter stuff and it gets me so wet. I think it's the discovery and the deep love that can be had but I find my dad repulsive and could never but fuck I wish I had a hot daddy. My parents are also divorced..
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I fantasise at least weekly about fucking my dad or my uncle. I find the more I let myself play out those fantasies in detail, the more frequent the fantasies are. I was getting so into the daddy daughter fantasy that I found it safer to play it out for real, but with another old man, not my dad. I found a 67 year old guy (I'm 23) and the experience was amazing, I came to orgasm so fast from him, faster than many of the guys I've slept with. It cooled my desire for a few weeks but then the fantasies about my father came back. So I went to see my father, and just didn't feel sexual at that moment. When I looked in his face and imagined him licking my pussy, the sexual desire just wasn't there... there's far more incest happening in today's society than we picture, but it's less emotional trouble to find a substitute sex object for your dad.
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omg yes that is soo normal I want my dad soo ba
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I think it is normal. I'm 22 and also fantasize about having sex with my dad. I never told him and don't think I ever will.
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I wanted to have sex with my daughter at one point. It made me so hard thinking about the sexy girl that came out of my balls. And now 2 years on she gets to lick my balls.

So yeah. Tell him. It's fine and NORMAL! Nothing wrong with it. Completely natural and nurturing.

It's all part of growing up.
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I'm funking mine tonight
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I had sex with my daughter countless times. She loves it
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I also had fantasies about having sex with my dad. It started when I was 16. I began wearing very little around the house when we were home alone. I would leave the bathroom door open when I bathed. And then one weekend when my mom was out of town, I crawled into bed with him wearing only my panties. I told him that I was having bad dreams and couldn't sleep. I pressed my breasts and hips against him - he pulled me closer and slipped his hand into my panties. Before long we were both naked and fucking like animals. We have been having wild sex ever since (I am now 25) and I don't think we will ever stop. I got married 2 years ago. My husband doesn't know - I still fuck my dad every chance I get.
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You now MARRIED. Why u still being ur dad hoe?
you cheating on ur husband. With ur father.
Why did decide to get married?
you know how fucked that is .
do you have feelings for ur father, why would want to continue being his slut.
your mother will have heartache when she find out who U been fucking with all these years. I aslo feel sorry for husband, he doesn't know he married a fucked women, enjoy get fucked by her Own father for years. You need help, leave ur father dick alone.
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Just do it. I want to be daddy fucked so bad
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