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I love to be tied up and gagged but i have never been. Is it normal. And i want someone to tie me up pleaseeeee somone tie me up.
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It's perfectly normal. When I was getting into it, I thought I was weird, but there are millions of people that are into this.
I'm a personal fan of Ball Gags. They turn me on.
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As to whether 'tis normal to wish to be bound, gagged and made helpless, it matters not unless you are harming another in the practice and process of your desires. You have but to look around for a bit on the Internet to see how many others share your desire.
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It's called bondage, lots of people do it, is it normal? LOL, what is. It used to be described as not normal in an old psychological manual...DSM3, I think.

Later, bondage was de-listed from the DSM, meaning it was accepted as normal.

Whatever. It seems there's very little science one way or another, and believe me, as someone the same as you, I've looked.

So, here's what I suggest:

1) Lots like you, don't feel like some sort of weirdo or all alone.

2) Take it easy, take it slow and don't (for example) post asking complete strangers to tie you up. A bit dangerous to say the least.

3) There seem to be lots more of us who love being tied up than tiers. Who knows why - I sometimes think that those who like to tie have a harder time dealing with that idea than whose of us who like to be tied.

I also think, sometimes, that those of us who like to be tied up have a more physical experience than those who get a minute or two of tying and gagging and then...what?

4) My friends that I have told about bondage, and to me it was this great sob-story, all have said either, "ya, so?" or "well, where's your rope?" I.e., to you maybe it's a deep dark secret. To them it's, see above.

5) Like yourself. If you wanted to rape, pillage and murder, get help. If you're not into hurting others - then you're normal - chill.
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@: gwgboy
Omg thank you I always thought I was a freak cause thinking about bondage would give me an erection thanjs your the best
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i thought i was crazy too man
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I think it's completely normal. Some people love to be tied, some don't. But there is nothing abnormal about it. I love to tie guys up and be tied up. I'm always available to help :)
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takes allot of trust to allow it. It was suggested to me this past year, and I asked, "Really? You wouldn't be worried I would leave you there and go get my friends to come in and watch while I took pictures?" He seemed surprised I would even think of that. DUH.

We never did, and he COULD have trusted me, but THINK, and be sure you are safe...

BTW, I would LOVE to tie someone up and slap them around a little-- and it wouldn't be too hard- just that one time was because I was drunk when he suggested it... :)
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cpp8a
plz can u tie me up plz u can slap me really hard plz plz tie me up
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I've been bound and gagged numerous times and it is extremely exhillerating. As a male it may seem difficult or embarrassing, however the thrill of being helpless is extreme. The gag tied tightly in my mouth intensifies the embarrassment and the excitement of the ordeal.
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Its common--Normal is a word that doesn't really have any meaning really! lol I'm a guy and I REALLY love it! Love especially to get hog-tied behind my back. WAY fun! The more creative the better! And if you know you like it, even without actually trying it, I bet you really do. ust find some1 who digs it too and it will be super-awesome. Go for it--but do e careful that you trust the person tying you up
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ya its normal its a sexual thing for u
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yeah me too
I'm totally into femdom
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I think this is normal and fun. It's dominance play, it doesn't need to be too heavy but it could be. Whatever you discover, always be careful. When tying yourself, make sure you can get out if there's an emergency. It's usually safer with someone else but there are still risks.
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I'll do it for you. After I tie you up and gag you can I have nasty sex with you? that is if your a female of course.
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U HAVE SOOOO MANY ISSUES!
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i try to tie myself up but i am not very good at it i would like someone else to tie me up
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Same here
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dude im am exactley and i mean exactley like you but i have always wanted to get tied up and gagged i have fckin dreams about it so as far as you and i are concerned yeh we're pretty damn normal
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@: bdsmboy
OMG... i thaught i was the only 1... and it too embarassing to talk 2 any1 u no... aint it! x
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hey i knw wat u mean, i really wna talk 2 people about it but its embarrasing
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to sexy biatch. i know what you mean im exactly the same. are you from the north east btw? im male nd have been into it but have never dared speak to anyone about it or try it :s even this is making me think im wierd. if you want to talk to someone about it i have msn? make each other feel better about it. nd i am 18 not some pervert
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I thought that nobody really liked it, but if a girl wants to try it with me...just ask it!
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omg thats fuckin awesome me 2!!!!
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Orochimaru
S&M is popular now a days...
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Get a rope.
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i think u like bondage
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It is a bit strange, but normal ^^
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any girls in opington or near fancy tieing and gagging a very fit man. me im up for it
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im male uk kent
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someone please tie me up in a bra and thong. please where do you guys live come and tie me up
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Can someone please tie me up and gag me I love the feeling of being totally helpless!!!
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hi you if youre near just tell me and i will be round to tie and gag you
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i will i love to tie up people and gag them rly and u can trust me i love being tied up
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Same here sister
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i dont understand why people have a hard time understanding me...
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i am male
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My dear friend me eaither love to be tied up , it turns me on,, but I should advice you a little: be very careful not to make difficult ties or neck ties it may cause death,
alway prepare knife or cutter near to you in case you couldn't untie yourself,
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im touching myself
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nearly
As an afterthought, you want to be VERY CAREFUL what you wish for and who you tell as well! Tied and gagged usually leads to rape, murder or abuse! Maybe one, two or a combination of all three! Like I sed, careful what you wish for.....
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I was young when I was first introduced to bondage. At 15 years old I was often made to strip nude, my wrists and ankles bound with ACE bandages and a gag inserted in and around my mouth. I was often times left this way for hours and I never had a bad experience. I was introduced to anal and oral sex during this period, was dressed as a girl and made to perform for my master. All was thrilling. I did have a friend who engaged in the same pleasures and was "kept" for 3 days. He was violently raped and forced to perform oral sex on his captor numerous times. Be careful with whom you play with. Afterwards, he tried to commit suicide over the shame and embarrassment. He's alive today because of good counsiling and friends who support him. Again, be careful.
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dude thats a sad story...and kinda creepy aswell...
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I so want to be tied up and gagged too. Sometimes i self bound myself and gag myself. I never met someone who even hints about it. I also dresses up as a girl when tying myself up, but want to be tied by someone.
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Trust me, you don't want an emo girl. You want a Goth or Punk girl. There is a big difference.

And to all who share this common fantasy, I recommend going to Burning Man and hitting one of the BDSM camps such as Suspension Camp or Den of Iniquity. They will show you the ropes (pun intended) and give you tips on how go about it to keep it fun and safe.
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Dude, perfectly normal. i do it all the time. im tied up even when im writing this down
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no its not normal...because normal in itself does not exist...there is nothing wrong with wanting to be tied up...i think its better to be tied because you not only have more pleasure but it also means that your:90:percent less likley to be a rapist!!!
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Sure, its normal. Some ppl think and feel the same way, but doesn't express it too openly so its not very common to hear. Although, I would be interested in having a playmate, female adult, but finding one or talking about this is gonna be hard to bring up.
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Would being tied up matter in the tools used to restrain a person? Would a person prefer to be tied by chains (handcuffs/legirons) or rope (maybe leather).
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ill ducttape u up
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The first time my boyfriend asked me to tie his wrists together I was a bit surprised and nervous ... we had been together for a month or so and he was my first sexual partner.

Gradually we started doing it more and more with him tying me up as well (as he suggested.) It felt really good having no control and turned us both on a lot.

This made me remember being younger and feeling the urge to be gagged or getting a weird feeling in my stomach and slightly embarassed when seeing someone gagged on tv or in a movie. Finally it all made sense when I found out that it was a fetish when I was 18.

My boyfriend and I do it quite a lot. At one point I thought it was the only way I could come or be turned on but going back to basics was nice too.

I only likes tape gags at first but now i love ball gags. Its great being tied in loads of different way and now 2 years on im glad we are both into bondage and know exactly what we like. Its better to do it with someone you trust and to ease into it :)
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Then just do it!!! Quit wishing and just make it happen. If you're a girl, you'll get plenty of volunteers. Check out Craigslist. Just make sure you have a guy friend nearby. Expect to get fucked in every hole you have. Hard. Expect spanking and double penetration. I'd love to be first in line to get that asshole. MMMMmm.
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Hell yeah,its normal,for me i like to see women being tied up and gagged with a pantyhose hooded on their heads,its really erotic and fun to see them struggling and talking while gagged :),man im even getting hard right now.
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i've been tying and gagging myself for years on in. when i got my 1st apt.(by myself),i use to put on a uniform(used dickies,sears roebuck,work clothes)and combat boots to tie myself up.i wrap belts around my boots to hold my ankles in place.my thighs above me knees were tied up.i learn to slip a rope that goes under my armpits,back of my neck,under the other armpits,and both ends meet in the middle of my back. then i would take strong rope and tie it to my bound boots. the rope would TIGHTLY meet at the other loop behind my back already.than i would take police style HANDCUFFS(I'M CAREFUL-SO FAR),hand cuff my left wrist,then stick my hand behind my back over the loop of the rope in the middle of my back,then i bring my legs up,and struggle because it's TIGHT to make the other cuff go thru the loop of the "leg line".and you have probably one of the greatest hog tie you will ever have. tying myself up teach me to love my handcuffs and keys,rope,uniforms,i can go on. yes, i love being all tied up.
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its normal..i think.
anyone down for some fun?!?!?!
:)
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find yourself a sadist. sounds like youre a masochist. the two go hand in hand.


btw if youre a hot girl. im there. lol
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any1 at lincoln..i would like to be tied up :D
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well why don't u tie me up then we will all be happy i don't care who ties me. I just want to be tied up
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can u tie me up or not if can plz just tie me up
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cpp8a
yes can u tie me up plz
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I think this depends on what your gender (i.e; your sex: male or female)is. By the way, Are you a female or male?. I suppose it's normal for females, but for males I have some doubt!!!
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How would that depend on gender?
From my research, the U.S. population of Masochists is split fifty-fifty between men and women.
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cpp8a
male or female can tie me up plz tie me up plz
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only if i can put fire ants inside of your vag
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Wat is that
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