As an afterthought, you want to be VERY CAREFUL what you wish for and who you tell as well! Tied and gagged usually leads to rape, murder or abuse! Maybe one, two or a combination of all three! Like I sed, careful what you wish for.....
Its common--Normal is a word that doesn't really have any meaning really! lol I'm a guy and I REALLY love it! Love especially to get hog-tied behind my back. WAY fun! The more creative the better! And if you know you like it, even without actually trying it, I bet you really do. ust find some1 who digs it too and it will be super-awesome. Go for it--but do e careful that you trust the person tying you up
As to whether 'tis normal to wish to be bound, gagged and made helpless, it matters not unless you are harming another in the practice and process of your desires. You have but to look around for a bit on the Internet to see how many others share your desire.
Trust me, you don't want an emo girl. You want a Goth or Punk girl. There is a big difference.
And to all who share this common fantasy, I recommend going to Burning Man and hitting one of the BDSM camps such as Suspension Camp or Den of Iniquity. They will show you the ropes (pun intended) and give you tips on how go about it to keep it fun and safe.
It's perfectly normal. When I was getting into it, I thought I was weird, but there are millions of people that are into this. I'm a personal fan of Ball Gags. They turn me on.
I think it's completely normal. Some people love to be tied, some don't. But there is nothing abnormal about it. I love to tie guys up and be tied up. I'm always available to help :)
dude im am exactley and i mean exactley like you but i have always wanted to get tied up and gagged i have fckin dreams about it so as far as you and i are concerned yeh we're pretty damn normal
I think this depends on what your gender (i.e; your sex: male or female)is. By the way, Are you a female or male?. I suppose it's normal for females, but for males I have some doubt!!!
takes allot of trust to allow it. It was suggested to me this past year, and I asked, "Really? You wouldn't be worried I would leave you there and go get my friends to come in and watch while I took pictures?" He seemed surprised I would even think of that. DUH.
We never did, and he COULD have trusted me, but THINK, and be sure you are safe...
BTW, I would LOVE to tie someone up and slap them around a little-- and it wouldn't be too hard- just that one time was because I was drunk when he suggested it... :)
I think this is normal and fun. It's dominance play, it doesn't need to be too heavy but it could be. Whatever you discover, always be careful. When tying yourself, make sure you can get out if there's an emergency. It's usually safer with someone else but there are still risks.
My dear friend me eaither love to be tied up , it turns me on,, but I should advice you a little: be very careful not to make difficult ties or neck ties it may cause death, alway prepare knife or cutter near to you in case you couldn't untie yourself,
It's called bondage, lots of people do it, is it normal? LOL, what is. It used to be described as not normal in an old psychological manual...DSM3, I think.
Later, bondage was de-listed from the DSM, meaning it was accepted as normal.
Whatever. It seems there's very little science one way or another, and believe me, as someone the same as you, I've looked.
So, here's what I suggest:
1) Lots like you, don't feel like some sort of weirdo or all alone.
2) Take it easy, take it slow and don't (for example) post asking complete strangers to tie you up. A bit dangerous to say the least.
3) There seem to be lots more of us who love being tied up than tiers. Who knows why - I sometimes think that those who like to tie have a harder time dealing with that idea than whose of us who like to be tied.
I also think, sometimes, that those of us who like to be tied up have a more physical experience than those who get a minute or two of tying and gagging and then...what?
4) My friends that I have told about bondage, and to me it was this great sob-story, all have said either, "ya, so?" or "well, where's your rope?" I.e., to you maybe it's a deep dark secret. To them it's, see above.
5) Like yourself. If you wanted to rape, pillage and murder, get help. If you're not into hurting others - then you're normal - chill.
What a load of old codswallop!
And to all who share this common fantasy, I recommend going to Burning Man and hitting one of the BDSM camps such as Suspension Camp or Den of Iniquity. They will show you the ropes (pun intended) and give you tips on how go about it to keep it fun and safe.
anyone down for some fun?!?!?!
:)
I'm a personal fan of Ball Gags. They turn me on.
btw if youre a hot girl. im there. lol
I'm totally into femdom
We never did, and he COULD have trusted me, but THINK, and be sure you are safe...
BTW, I would LOVE to tie someone up and slap them around a little-- and it wouldn't be too hard- just that one time was because I was drunk when he suggested it... :)
From my research, the U.S. population of Masochists is split fifty-fifty between men and women.
alway prepare knife or cutter near to you in case you couldn't untie yourself,
Later, bondage was de-listed from the DSM, meaning it was accepted as normal.
Whatever. It seems there's very little science one way or another, and believe me, as someone the same as you, I've looked.
So, here's what I suggest:
1) Lots like you, don't feel like some sort of weirdo or all alone.
2) Take it easy, take it slow and don't (for example) post asking complete strangers to tie you up. A bit dangerous to say the least.
3) There seem to be lots more of us who love being tied up than tiers. Who knows why - I sometimes think that those who like to tie have a harder time dealing with that idea than whose of us who like to be tied.
I also think, sometimes, that those of us who like to be tied up have a more physical experience than those who get a minute or two of tying and gagging and then...what?
4) My friends that I have told about bondage, and to me it was this great sob-story, all have said either, "ya, so?" or "well, where's your rope?" I.e., to you maybe it's a deep dark secret. To them it's, see above.
5) Like yourself. If you wanted to rape, pillage and murder, get help. If you're not into hurting others - then you're normal - chill.