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I wont eat in front of my Bf... Is that normal?
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Im afraid to eat in front of my boyfriend im scared he will judge me and think im fat I mean I know Im not fat but when he looks at me when im eating I feel so wierd and its been like this with all my Boyfriends... Like really is there something wrong with me? Or am I just being paranoid? I even asked him why he looked at me and that it wierds me out and he said your just so beautiful... what the F**k and its just like ok u can think that just dont look at me... How can I stop being so worried about this subject?
Do you think it's normal?
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Jen118584 (30020)
2009-11-17 13:04:01
That's pretty stupid, to be honest. That's a really sexist way to think of the relationships between men and women. You think your boyfriend will be disgusted by you if you eat? If you feel that insecure about the way he feels about you, maybe you shouldn't be dating him.

I think you need to suck it up and get over it. If he was disgusted by your day-to-day activities that you know, KEEP YOU ALIVE, I doubt he'd be dating you.
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Vanqx (31376)
2009-11-17 15:00:18
Guys hate that girls wont eat in front of them, everyone eats food, guys want a girl who eats!
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Budthewise (29424)
2009-11-18 02:13:54
@: Jen118584
I agree with her. My fiance is a discusting cow at times but I am with her because we can be honest and share with the other everything we do and enjoy. It is nice to bitch about tax law as it is for her to be able to talk about

...Um
...Uh
...Emm
...Ide

I don't actually know as I never pay attention to her but the point remains, be kind and share with your boyfriend if you want to live in a great relationship.

She was talking about something earlier and something I have to pick up...Now

..What the hell was it. It is a good thing we don't have kids yet.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-12-27 06:05:42
Its common to be self-conscious and worried about being judged. And women are almost taught to obsess about weight.

You are making the wrong assumptions here from what you say and seeing criticism where there is none. So relax.

And if you ever met a guy who would be so rude and disrespectful to behave that way - or to refer to you, for example, as a "disgusting cow" - dump his sorry ass and don't look back.
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