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Ideas to impress girlfriends mom

Ok, there is this girl, she isn't my girlfriend yet, I want to date her, but her mom is sort of against her dating guys from my hometown because of a couple bad experiences her daughter has had with guys from that town. Her mom doesn't even want to meet me to give me a chance. I know her mom is a b**ch. But I really care about her daughter and would do anything to gain her moms approval so I would be able to date her daughter. Does anybody have any ideas on what I can do? I thought about putting a whole bunch of signs on thier road telling my feelings for her daughter, but she said her mom probably wouldn't be crazy about that. I'm thinking of crazy romantic ideas along those lines. I've already won this girl over, it's just her damn mom. Help!
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You can try this but don't get upset with me if it doesn't work. Go to the girls home when her mother is there and speak to her face to face. I suggest you just ask for a chance to see her daughter but don't spill out your heart, it will sound phony.

Parents may seem overprotected of children and not allow them to date or frown upon it for a good reason.

In adults, the infatuation and overwhelming desire to be with a partner last 18 months to 4 years, then the bonding drops off big time.

In adolescents/teenagers the infatuation phase lasts only 3-4 months, that's it!!!! Then the bonding and intense feelings drop off and fast.

What is left after the feelings change is one or both tend to get badly hurt and end up feeling miserable. Relationships that last long term are not fairy tales. They require a lot of work.

Good luck and post back what happened if you take my advice and go through with meeting her mother.
Isnt it Saturday night where youre at and youre in here harrassing the teen posters?Get a fucking life.


I wont be here much longer today .me and some buds are going to Nashville Tennessee and raise some hell tonight.See besides this place I have a REAL LIFE>TrY IT SOMETIME!

Have fun sitting in your dank flat having popcorn with your mum and watching reruns of "Have you been Served"?
If the moderator needs a good example of why this place is so crappy all he has to do is look at this post.


A person posts a simple question looking for some answers and he is attacked for it, for no reason,and then a responder to the question is also attacked both by the same person.Then another person posts and attacks the attacker.

And then I chime in commenting, not on the original question, but on the situation of this place.


So to this original post we have 5 responses,only 1 of which deals with the original post.

On and on it goes.What a waste of bandwidth.....
Why dont you just go talk to her mom tell her how you feel about her daughter,and see what happens.If her daughter really likes you than im sure her mother will accept you.
hey, this is the poster. The problem is, her mom doesn't seem to trust her to pick a guy based on a couple of bad decisions in her past(with a couple guys from my hometown), so she doesn't really want to even meet me. And yes, her daughter is crazy about me and says she can't stand the thought of me not being in her life. It also looks like I forgot to mention that she has a boyfriend who she just started dating a few days ago. She didn't tell me until yesterday and when she did she said she kind of regrets starting to date him because she has strong feelings for me. Also, her mom just loves this little cockmunch who she is dating and in her eyes can do no wrong. From what I am told, her mom was pushing for her to date this guy and this girl and that guy have been lifelong friends. But thanks for the advice sisophous, I will talk to this girl about doing just that and hope her mom doesn't bite my head off.
I agree with Sisophous,talk to her mother & show her what a great guy you really are. Maybe you,the girl, and her can go out to dinner. Go for it!
Sure thing, most parents would respect a boy or girl who approaches them and looks them straight in the face. You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain.

Parents are usually not as cold or bitchy as you may think, more likely just protective of their child even though their daughter doesn't see it that way. The unfriendly nature they show is a way to avoid what they see as possible trouble coming. Anyway, good luck, and if it doesn't work out you just have to look elsewhere. There's plenty of fish in the sea although it may not seem that way as of now.
flop your dick out a show her what you are going to give her daughter
fuck mom