Okay guys in general can be jerks individually. So when my bf is being kind of playful mean to me, does that mean he likes me enough to be lose and kind of mean to me? Ive heard how guys can get nervous around girls and scared to be 100% themselves including messing w them. One of our things since we met is we tell each other to "fuck off" "stfu" and call each other "bitch." For example, I'll be like "do you miss me?" hell be like "yes bitch I do." Or were like driving around and I'm talking and hell be like whispering with a smile "stfu" and then he'll say "im jk aww" and laugh. For the majority part, its funny and we both laugh it off but sometimes I think he gets carried away and takes advantage of the fact that I go along w it. I did confront him once about to not tell me to stfu anymore then he was kind of shocked like "but thats what Ive always done to you..." and I'm like yes but it can come off as rude sometimes. So I guess he does find some comfort with me by playfully being mean. It kinda lets him be the guy/douche he is but at the same time not seriously. Is this a good thing? I wouldn't want to be that girl that intimidates him and makes him nervous to be himself. Do guys like feeling this comfortable with a girl? Does this mean he really likes me?