I'm a 20yo female. I'm very mature for my age so it's nothing new that I have friends who are a lot older.. Not to long ago I met a guy(coworker)who is 45 he's an awesome guy don't get me wrong but is it normal he constantly insist on taking me out for drinks?.. I did go out with him once but he tried to take me to his house when we clearly discussed we were going to a bar.. It kinda freaked me out.. He has children my age and is married with grandchildren!!.. (I just found this out don't judge me) he texts me asking where I am really late like 12-1 in the morning and says "I was in town wanted to know if you wanted to come out" he always wants me to come over his house and when I say sure I'll bring my friend with me he says why no come alone .. Am I over thinking the situation or is he indeed a creepy guy..