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"IIN a friend twice my age"
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I'm a 20yo female. I'm very mature for my age so it's nothing new that I have friends who are a lot older.. Not to long ago I met a guy(coworker)who is 45 he's an awesome guy don't get me wrong but is it normal he constantly insist on taking me out for drinks?.. I did go out with him once but he tried to take me to his house when we clearly discussed we were going to a bar.. It kinda freaked me out.. He has children my age and is married with grandchildren!!.. (I just found this out don't judge me) he texts me asking where I am really late like 12-1 in the morning and says "I was in town wanted to know if you wanted to come out" he always wants me to come over his house and when I say sure I'll bring my friend with me he says why no come alone .. Am I over thinking the situation or is he indeed a creepy guy..
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Terence_the_viking
He wants to get you into bed.

They seem all hello friend and first but when you wake up next to him you will be like the fudge did that happen?
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1000yrVampireKing
Everything nopie said.
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HE WANTS TO PUT HIS PENIS IN YOUR VAGINA!

Just incase that wasnt clear.
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ilovesexytime
He wants sexytime that is all.
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Establish boundaries and tell him you are not interested. He sounds creepy and hello he is married and has children your age. What a perv!
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He wants to shag you.
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Lol.. But he's 25 years older his b-day on Christmas!!.. And only 2 years younger than my dad.. Sheesh
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I'm one of those people who don't ever want to offend or hurt feelings.. I hate being this way.. I have no balls.. But your right.. =\
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Its worrying he wants to get you alone, he must think he can pressure you to have sex with him. He doesn't sound like much of a friend, more like a potential rapist. Avoid at all costs!
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He obviously wants to have sex with you. Think of that what you will. I don't know him so I can't really say if he's creepy or not but it's certainly not normal.
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Its not normal to want to have sex with a girl? My whole life is a lie...
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There is nothing wrong with being friends with someone of that age, but since he's hitting on you this way you should just make it clear. You don't want to hang out with him because he makes you feel uncomfortable; tell him that.
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In situations like this you need to be a mean, or at least stern, person. Next time you talk to him and he brings up spending time alone with you, just tell him you enjoy having drinks with him but you're not looking for anything more than that. If he becomes offensive, stops talking to you, or seems mad, then you know he was only looking to be intimate with you instead of just having a friendship.
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You either be mean and stand your ground, or you put yourself at risk of becoming some sort of victim. Naturally, we want to trust any nice person we meet, and sometimes the people we've known our whole lives are not who we thought they were. So dont put all your trust in believing this guy is a nice guy. He may be just that, but he could also be a big creep who is looking for a good time with a young, innocent, naive girl.
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He wants to have sex with you. The way he's approaching this is rather creepy and I would suggest that you follow your instincts. If he's creepy you out, you should keep your distance from him.
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You're not that mature then. A mature girl would have realised that she has been giving this man wrong signals and now he probably thinks that maybe you have a crush on him. A mature girl would tell him that she is not interested to go further with him and that she feels uncomfortable about going home with him. A mature girl would know that it is normal for men to 'chase'. He's only forty-five, he still has needs and desires. He is a man. A mature girl should have already understood all that. He's not creepy.
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I'm not trying to lead..I just like to talk.. I'm really too friendly.. I will literally make friends with anyone.. I like people!.. But one thing I wont allow is someone to take advantage.. He went from this fatherly type figure to kinda creepy..
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elephantface
Whore.
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Can't decide whether trolling or just plain dumb...
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ikr
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He's creepy!
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Nothing wrong with having older friends and as you move into adult life age is less important (you're adults). But this isn't about age or friendship but rather a guy who seems confused about his relationship with you. So you need to set limits.
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Stop being such a prude and let him plough you

bitch
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darthrule
@: Shroot
You ugly little fucker
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