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I'm a teenage girl and I've never had sex before but for awhile now I've really wanted to go to bed and be able to sleep next to someone. Maybe I'm feeling lonely but for a long time I've wanted to have someone else sleep in the same bed with me. It's nothing sexual by any means. I've never slept with anyone before so is this normal?
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dongwhan
11 months ago | pl
Buy a teddy bear.
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NotFloydzie
11 months ago | pl
It's sexual and you know it.

I'm kidding. I'm your same age and I used to feel that way. Perhaps you are lonely and need to meet someone special. Not in a sexual way, but in a having someone to hold way. Think about it.
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AssBurgers
11 months ago | pl
I like sleep, and I like teenage girls....
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Anesthesiologist
10 months, 1 week ago | pl
@: AssBurgers
haha Assburgers. You made my day.
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Maskedbandet93
11 months ago | pl
@: AssBurgers
you horndog .
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Dot123
11 months ago | pl
Well if you want a older guy to sleep with you. Just hit me up anytime! I got lots of room for us to spoon and cuddle...Even naked if you want. But beware spooning leads to forking.
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ScewfaceMagoo
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Dot123
You and assburger can cuddle N fork each other.Hahaha pedobears
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Dot123
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: ScewfaceMagoo
I don't fork males.
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sograceful
11 months ago | pl
I think deep down everyone wants someone to sleep next to.:)
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disthing
11 months ago | pl
I think it's normal to desire that. To go to sleep next to someone and have that feeling of companionship, that closeness, it's very pleasant :)
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Broken_Beauty
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
I feel the same way....I just want a guy (husband, bf, whatever) to hold me. I'm a teen and I've never had a bf....so I have no idea what that feels like....
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Oreobeast
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Broken_Beauty
The feeling of love, when u bond with another so closely that nothing else matters when your around them, that u would do anything for them, when u look in each others eyes and see it, when they are the world. I didn't have a gf till my senior year, but it was all worth it. Unfortunately all good things must come to an end, so the relationship did :/
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Jessie735513
11 months ago | pl
Yes... I have a close male friend and we aren't dating but we do sleep in the same bed in a non-sexual way. It's just comforting.
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flutterhigh
11 months ago | pl
@: Jessie735513
Oof. Friendzone in the wild.
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Unimportant
11 months ago | pl
@: flutterhigh
And now, ladies and gentlemen, let us all have a moment of silence for our poor brothers in the friendzone.

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Jessie735513
11 months ago | pl
@: flutterhigh
Alas... yes. But a mutual friendzone both ways. Sadly, it was for the best
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nickii
11 months ago | pl
I feel the same haha! after being with my boyfriend it just felt weird sleeping alone..makes me sound like a loser but hey ho!
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☭алин
11 months ago | pl
Of course it's just cozy
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junosluttt
11 months ago | pl
You're lonely, get a dog.
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shuggy-chan
11 months ago | pl
@: junosluttt
thats what im saying, my dog, is old, farty, and a bit lumpy, but love snuggling her lady lumbs LOL
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jondoerandom
11 months ago | pl
Try dating someone and see if that's what you need.
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Allistalla
11 months ago | pl
I feel the same .
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TommyH
11 months ago | pl
i call it balancing the bed. it just feels right with someone else there. pillows don't move teddy bears don't move, people move and give off heat.

Doesn't have to be sexual, but it could get there.
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frankiestrange
11 months ago | pl
I'm 19, I have a boyfriend and I still sleep with a toy a night. Get a cuddly toy to sleep with. Mine's names Hektor. :3
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splashy
11 months ago | pl
make one like prisoners do to fool the guards, a coconut 2 pillows and a pair of tights filled with cloths if you are racist use a soccor ball or cantelope for the beach bums
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KiryuuLain
11 months ago | pl
It's normal.As a teenager I had the same "problem" too.But I was worse.I had a pillow and prented it to be one of my favourite anime characters and that we were sleeping together.I was even daydreaming how he got there to nake it seem real.
It's only normal.You feel lonely and to do that whether you felt in love in the past or you are now.
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Maskedbandet93
11 months ago | pl
Perhaps find a nice same gender freind to stay over be your roomate ?
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weishuaiilike
11 months ago | pl
The child, go to sleep........
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Kpowell55
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Yes!! It is so normal I think... I'm also a teen and I feel the same way! :)
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eebean2
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Im a guy, and have been longing to curl up around someone for the longest time. I've curled up with people (my little brothers, girlfriends, little niece) n fell asleep before, and it always feels so good. But when that gap is empty, its just so lonely. :(
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Loh
10 months, 2 weeks ago | pl
Is this even worth asking? How can this not be normal?...
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sexyblonde<3
10 months, 2 weeks ago | pl
Yes me too :(
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WorldNavy
10 months, 2 weeks ago | pl
sleep with your parents
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emmyen17
10 months, 1 week ago | pl
I get it. I have my big stuffed animal. I do it too don't worry. I just want someone there in case something happens.
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aaabcas
10 months, 1 week ago | pl
I can relate. Usually when my boyfriend is away even though he doesn't always sleep over I feel that way.
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TheRyesCatcher
10 months, 1 week ago | pl
Yeah, I'm eighteen. A pretty good looking guy, and have not had too many sexual encounters. But, I completely understand wanting to be with someone at night, just to hold.
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keeping_up_with_da_kids
10 months ago | pl
To bad I can not under stand love.
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Darthion5
10 months ago | pl
I've been awake for so long now that it's not even funny! I hate you computer addiction! COMPUTER ADDICTION! ( ● )_( ● )
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ilikecats17
10 months ago | pl
me too, I wish my mom could let my boyfriend sleep over in a completely non sexual way:( that's why he's sneaking over:D
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videl
10 months ago | pl
i have the same "problom" i'm 18 & i thought i was nuts 2 feel this way. i thought i was the only 1 with this "problom" get a guy and u'll probobly get over it. p.s. i've never slept with some 1 so i don't know how it feels
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randomstranger777
9 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Totally normal!! When i was younger i would sleep on the floor in my parents' room, and now that i'm 'too old' for that, i've moved on to sleeping in my sister's room. :)
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GoraIntoDesiGals
9 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
If it's not sexual sleep with your pet.
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Wh0Ar3YoU
9 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
I know how u feel...now come with me...
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spidercrowblaze18762
8 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Yeah baby, ur fine! Ur a teenager, if u dont get someone to sleep with, just put your hand inside ur pussy and start off with it!
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PikaPika
8 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Im 15 i have a long distance relationship, when me and my boyfriend are apart i really miss someone to snuggle at night and i would snuggle my (boy) friends, just because i miss my boyfriend so badly ._.
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topper33
8 months, 2 weeks ago | pl
go in and cuddel with mom or dad and maybe youll find the ans.. i didnt say sex thats not right but to cuddel is cool
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pamEla97
8 months, 1 week ago | pl
Im 15 and i wanna sleep with my boyfriend everynight . Its totally normal
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111
11 months ago | pl
You sucky those cockers
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111
11 months ago | pl
@: 111
sucky those cockers good
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BHolt
11 months ago | pl
If you have a brother or sister, just tell them you're lonely, hop in bed with them and snuggle. Nothing wrong with that.
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