This may sound stupid, but my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 4 months and are very much in love. We're planning on getting married as soon as we can. Now along time ago we asked each other about one another's sexual past and we BOTH said we were virgins. He just completely lied to me. Months later (after I had fallen in love with him) I found out that he wasn't and that he had once with his ex. I asked him why he lied and he said he was afraid of what I would think.
Is it stupid that it bothers me? I know he regrets it and I feel bad for him, but it just eats away at me. Like I can never have all of him and I'll always come second to him if that makes any sense.
I just need help on what to do and how to forget and not let it bother me!
Is it stupid that it bothers me? I know he regrets it and I feel bad for him, but it just eats away at me. Like I can never have all of him and I'll always come second to him if that makes any sense.
I just need help on what to do and how to forget and not let it bother me!
I guess you can then say "Oh well he still lied!"
Yea, true, but he eventually came clean about it, and you even said yourself that you know for a fact that he regrets it.
Cut the nigga some slack, chill out, suck his cock, make him a sandwich (in that order), and all will be well I promise you.
As long as you know he regrets lying then that's a bit better at least, and I wouldn't leave him over it. The issue isn't that he wasn't a virgin (that doesn't matter) but that he lied about it to make you think he was someone he wasn't. I understand your feelings, but I don't know how to stop them :/