IIN I like a man 16 years older than me?

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While the age itself doesn't matter as long as you both adults. However a man at his age might be looking to settle down while you still want to experience life.

My ex left me for a 36 year old man when she was 18. Obviously I was all butt hurt over the whole thing, but now I have to admit, they just had a beautiful baby, and they have quite a lovely little family!

Three of the six comments here are hillarious.

Im 19, theres a woman in my life whos 39, We have all the same interests, same favorite everything, she tells me I dont care how old you are our souls are the same age.

Age is really nothing but a number, as long as you're legal :P

If you guys are compatible, give him a chance. But if you two both want something serious, you might have to make that clear from the start

These relationships often have bumps on the beginning, but often turn out fantastic

Well its legal so i see nothing wrong in that.

YES!!!! Go see him!!!!! I'm eighteen and I have a thing for older guys. Though younger is also fine to I guess, only by a year though, that's my cut off ;).

Legal is 16 and over

I'm not gonna give the "age is just a number" saying because everyone else has already done it.

I'm more concerned with the fact that he might want a family and you're not ready for one- that can be a huge deal in a relationship. If he's dead set on wanting a family at this time, and you're not ready for one right now, I think that might be the bigger problem in your relationship, not your age.

Thank u guys... sometimes I get scared cuz is new for me... and is new for him too... But there is a problem... I have a bf. And he is like crazy, said that he will kill himself if I leave him. If I decide to live with this man, older than me, idk what my bf would do... but the fact is that I can not stop to think about that man!

When you mature past your "omg I've been hurt in a past relationship! I don't want to commit!" stage, then you'll be a big girl who's ready for a big man. Until then, why don't you continuously lower your sexual market value by fucking lots of guys and maybe getting some tattoos and piercings?