Alright, so this is going to be kind of long, but it's complicated.
There's this girl I used to know, but she moved away. The first time we talked we were completing each others sentences, no lie.
I've known her for 5 years, 2 years in person. We've just been texting, playing games online together,calling etc. I've always cared about her as more than a friend, but she only admitted that she likes me too in the last year.
She calls me every night to say goodnight, but we end up talking for 2-4 hours. Sometimes I like to stay on for awhile if she falls asleep to hear her breathing and to make sure she's sleeping okay. I know it sounds weird, hear me out, I need to vent.
She might be moving back in about 3 years at the least, and I told her I'd wait for her, no matter how long. I don't care if freaking Megan Fox comes knocking on my door.
She's just so cute and funny and sweet. But my friends say it's weird? They say I should get some "tail" here, like I just want her for cheap sex or something. So I'm not sure if I'm normal or not for caring about someone so deeply that I haven't seen in 3 years. Do all relationships have to be physical? I'd be happy to be able to just cuddle her for a day.
She's honestly so much more to me than they think, and I don't know if I can ever find anyone here that's as perfect as she is. Every girl I meet, I'm going to compare to her :| .
I'm just so confused, and my friends are total pigs and think women are just there to look pretty.
I don't know what I should do.
Is it normal that I'd seriously wait forever? We're both 23, but she needs to stay where she is for now because of some family problems.
I know I'm still young, and there's other people. But I feel like we were made for each other.
I think it will be worth the wait, but what do you guys think?
I just needed to write this down or something to figure it out.
I think I would be fine, but my friends have planted doubts in my mind.
There's this girl I used to know, but she moved away. The first time we talked we were completing each others sentences, no lie.
I've known her for 5 years, 2 years in person. We've just been texting, playing games online together,calling etc. I've always cared about her as more than a friend, but she only admitted that she likes me too in the last year.
She calls me every night to say goodnight, but we end up talking for 2-4 hours. Sometimes I like to stay on for awhile if she falls asleep to hear her breathing and to make sure she's sleeping okay. I know it sounds weird, hear me out, I need to vent.
She might be moving back in about 3 years at the least, and I told her I'd wait for her, no matter how long. I don't care if freaking Megan Fox comes knocking on my door.
She's just so cute and funny and sweet. But my friends say it's weird? They say I should get some "tail" here, like I just want her for cheap sex or something. So I'm not sure if I'm normal or not for caring about someone so deeply that I haven't seen in 3 years. Do all relationships have to be physical? I'd be happy to be able to just cuddle her for a day.
She's honestly so much more to me than they think, and I don't know if I can ever find anyone here that's as perfect as she is. Every girl I meet, I'm going to compare to her :| .
I'm just so confused, and my friends are total pigs and think women are just there to look pretty.
I don't know what I should do.
Is it normal that I'd seriously wait forever? We're both 23, but she needs to stay where she is for now because of some family problems.
I know I'm still young, and there's other people. But I feel like we were made for each other.
I think it will be worth the wait, but what do you guys think?
I just needed to write this down or something to figure it out.
I think I would be fine, but my friends have planted doubts in my mind.
Why? Because that isn't fair to yourself. I feel like if you aren't already engaged or married to this girl, there's no reason you should be waiting for YEARS for her. What if you meet someone right under your nose who is a match for you soon but you're blind to it?
And your friends are sleezy to think that you just having sex with a bunch of women will solve the problem or is the right thing to do. Waiting for so long will only be painful for you. I think you should use the time to learn more about yourself. Being in your early 20s and experiencing 3 years will change you a lot.
That still doesn't mean that if you're single when she comes back you shouldn't date her. But pining after her for so long won't be any good for you.
I want someone to do that for me -_-
I wish you all the best, I know you'll make the right choice :)
And I noticed another poster said to go to her. If I could, I would in a heartbeat. My Mom is sick though and I have very little money at the moment, so I think it would be in everybody's best interest for me to stay here. :(
She's very special to me, so I think I'll wait. I know I'm special to her, too :D . I don't care what my sleazy friends have to say. I've dated quite a few women, and none of them have made me feel like this. I'm a huge sap, I know.
Anyway, what's 2 or 5 years... People live to be like 80. So, that's like nothing.