So me and my boyfriend are together are together for almost a year now, and I always feel like I don't even am half as important to him as his friends. So I just asked him and he said ofcourse you aren't, I know them since I was little. I understand this completely, he knows me for only a year and he spend a long time of his life with his friends, but it's just the way he znsxered my question that seems not okay. I asked him if I will EVER be as important as them, he told me he doesn't know, maybe not...
There's also this weird thing that he can go on a trip with 4 of his friends for 10 days, but when it comes to me, he thinks a trip of 3 days with me is too long. I mean, there are couples who go on vacation for 2 weeks together. Also he sees his friends at leat 4 times a week, but seeing me 2 times a week is a maximum. Also seeing me 2 days in a row is not okay.
When there's something wrong, I talk to him, try to understand him and make him feel better, I show him how much I love him and how important he is to me, ... I do everytjing just for him, to make him happy, to mean something, but it feels like it means nothing. But he can't stop talking about how amazing hi friends are. Oh and he ever talks about me when he's with his friends, we were 7 months together when he told them he was in a relationship. Is this normal how he acts?
There's also this weird thing that he can go on a trip with 4 of his friends for 10 days, but when it comes to me, he thinks a trip of 3 days with me is too long. I mean, there are couples who go on vacation for 2 weeks together. Also he sees his friends at leat 4 times a week, but seeing me 2 times a week is a maximum. Also seeing me 2 days in a row is not okay.
When there's something wrong, I talk to him, try to understand him and make him feel better, I show him how much I love him and how important he is to me, ... I do everytjing just for him, to make him happy, to mean something, but it feels like it means nothing. But he can't stop talking about how amazing hi friends are. Oh and he ever talks about me when he's with his friends, we were 7 months together when he told them he was in a relationship. Is this normal how he acts?
Good luck x <3
I know how hard it is to break up with someone you love so much yet keeps treating you badly. The truth is you already knew all of this wasn't right even before you posted anything. What you are lacking is the courage and strength to actually take the step. I can't do it for you, nor can anyone else. It's gotta be you. Focus on how you would like to be treated and what you dream and expect from a relationship. If it's not being met, then it's wrong and you should stick to nothing until you can have it all. Or something along these lines. Respect yourself, because that kid ain't! :/
Leave this jerk. You should be just as important to him as his friends. Maybe not more important, but just as important. He's a DOUCHE. DUMP his sorry ass.