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Often when my boyfriend and I are fooling around and I want to have sex he tells me "later/tomorrow/in the morning" so we finish in other ways. It is confusing/frustrating me. (by the way the "later" thing usually does end up happening but I don't understand why it can't be "right now")
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ItDuz
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
Because he doesn't want to?
If his was a girl saying "later", the guy would be seen as an asshole for being angry that she won't have sex with him when he wants.
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ItDuz
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
@: ItDuz
Two thumbs down, yet no comment explaining why. Again, IIN community, you lack logic. No doubt it was by female users, though.
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VioletTrees
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
@: ItDuz
She's not angry, though. If she said it made her really angry, I'd call her out on it. Getting mad at people for not having sex with you isn't ok, no matter what gender you are, but that's not what's happening here. She just said she was frustrated and confused.
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Anime7
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
@: ItDuz
I agree with you on this point, even though she's not angry. I think you made a valid point.
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Anonymous Poll Creator
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
@: ItDuz
Who says I'm angry? I'm not.
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Puddle_Fish
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
I don't know if that is normal for him. You should ask him. He might have a good reason.
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myboyfriendsbitch
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
Maybe he will cum too quick if y'all get it on in the heat of the moment.
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ccjigsaw
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
Well.. you are angry about it lol I can see that in your post, but I would be angry to cause it doesn't make sense. Guys would be to. You have to have a good reason to be doing weird shit, and that's pretty much weird. If he was like "Can we save it till later? I'm won't cdum as fast later" Or something like that, I'd be like "That's fine." But if he like, "We can finishb up later" I'd be like "???? I:|"
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Blue_Velvet
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
Does he have a stressfull job? Maybe when he comes home he's tired and just wanna relax?
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Lynxikat
10 months, 4 weeks ago | pl
Has it started happening recently? Or has it always been like this?
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Anonymous Poll Creator
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Lynxikat
It has always been like this
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Lynxikat
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Anonymous
Hmm... that's weird. Then in this case the whole "Maybe he's just tired" excuse doesn't seem to work that people are giving here doesn't work.

This is cliche advice, but I personally think you should talk to him about it. I know you don't want to be pushy, but if it's been like this the whole time, and it's really bothering you, you should talk to him about it.
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tommythecat
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
I've said that when my cock smells like other girls.....he might be getting it somewhere else?
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Anonymous Poll Creator
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: tommythecat
I don't think that is why because when we don't have sex but are still fooling around I will finish him with a blow job. Besides we are together most of the time.
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tommythecat
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Anonymous
I was just saying from my experience. He probably doesn't cheat.
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GoraIntoDesiGals
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Maybe he was waiting for the blue pill to take effect.
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Anonymous Poll Creator
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: GoraIntoDesiGals
He is erect in these situations
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Avant-Garde
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
This sounds extremely odd.... Why don't you ask him what his reason is?
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Anonymous Poll Creator
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
@: Avant-Garde
I want to ask but I don't want to be pushy
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babe14
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
just talk to him and ask him why he is always wanting to do it later. is a guys dream for a being able to have sex with their gf. (:
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bostonpuckbunny37
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
I mean it's normal but it sucks. Everyone thinks guys are too horny but hey it's not so fun when it's the other way & your gettin turned down
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TonyorNoOne
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
maybe he hates sex just like me if only he'd cut his dick off just like me
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Mason334
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Your the women in that relation ship and if they last then the women is in charge in my case it's wonderfull
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Mason334
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
And 100 percent of the time when shes horny it is epic
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Mason334
10 months, 3 weeks ago | pl
Girls you the elenebt of everything to do with relation ships sence guys wesil tips are as sensitive as the vag so relly it's you that makes relation ships
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Djtia
7 months, 1 week ago | pl
Maybe you are being too 'giving', too eager to please him?
Of course if he has the option to have a blow job (lay back and enjoy) or have sex (requires more effort), and if he's tired at the times you're mucking around, it might just be easier...?
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kelili
7 months, 1 week ago | pl
If us girls we can say it why not boys. Relax....
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